Content

• Steps
• Method 1 of 3: Notice Behavior
• Method 2 of 3: Ask the girl
• Method 3 of 3: Listen to her words
• Tips
• Warnings

If you've been dating a girl for a while and you're ready to take the next step towards intimacy, you're probably wondering if the girl wants to. It may seem like just asking a girl about it is enough, but if you ask the question incorrectly, she may react differently than you expected. To understand if a girl is ready to have sex with you, analyze her words and behavior. In this article, you will learn how to know if a girl wants to be intimate with you.

Steps

Method 1 of 3: Notice Behavior

1. 1 Consider if the girl is touching you more often. If your girlfriend is touching you all the time, hugging you, wanting to hold hands and lie in your lap, it is possible that she is ready for more. If her actions began to show more desire (for example, she touches your intimate area through her pants or puts your hands on her chest), apparently, she wants intimacy.
   • If she is not shy about touching, it means that she is comfortable in your presence. She will only be able to have sex with you if she is comfortable.
   • Pay attention to how she dances with you. Maybe she began to snuggle up to you more? It is possible that she is hinting at something to you.
2. 2 Assess the current degree of intimacy. If you haven't even kissed yet, the girl is unlikely to be ready for sex. But if you've been kissing regularly for a while, she may already be ready for intimacy. If you've touched her breasts, if you've touched each other intimate places, or if you've even had oral sex, chances are (though not necessary) she wants to continue.
   • Just that the girl had oral sex with you, does not meanthat she is ready to have sex with you. Some girls engage in oral sex because they are not yet ready for penetration, while others begin to engage in oral sex only after penetration. Still others never have oral sex. All girls are different.
   • If you've been kissing for hours, but your girlfriend doesn't do anything else, she's either waiting for further action from you, or is not yet ready for sex. If she pushes you away when you try to touch her breasts, take off her clothes, or touch the area between her legs, she is definitely not ready for more intimacy.
3. 3 Consider if she wants to spend more time alone with you. If all of a sudden all of a girl's friends disappear and she wants to spend more time with you at home or in the bedroom, she most likely wants intimacy to some extent. If she was not ready, she would try to avoid uncomfortable situations and would not be left alone with you.
4. 4 Remember if she invites you to her home. If you have not been at her house before without company, inviting you, perhaps she is hinting that she wants more from you. If she makes a date outside her house and then invites you to her place, she may want to have sex with you. This requires some planning and preparation. It is possible that she has carefully thought out how to bring you alone to her home.
5. 5 Consider if she is trying to stay overnight with you. If she has never spent the night at a party, but came to you with a large bag, she may be hinting at intimacy. If she wants to spend time with you in bed, it is possible that she wants more than just sleep. Sleeping next to another person can be as intimate as sex. By staying with you overnight, she's likely hinting that she's ready for the next step.
   • This does not mean that she is definitely ready for sex, but it does mean that she wants to be closer to you.

Method 2 of 3: Ask the girl

1. 1 Prepare yourself. If you're planning to ask a girl if she wants to have sex, pick the right moment. Don't talk about it when you're eating cheeseburgers. If you are both ready, consider condoms. If you are planning to be alone with a girl and you know that sex is possible, be prepared for it.
   • Do not show condoms right away - this can scare the girl. Keep them with you in case your girlfriend ready to sex. Having to run to the pharmacy can ruin the moment.
2. 2 Have sex. When you're both ready, have sex. But first, you will need to invite the girl somewhere, show attention to her and find a secluded place. How far can you go? It depends on how quickly events develop. If you are already in the bedroom undressing, ask the girl if she is willing to have sex.
   • If you're just kissing on the couch and she doesn't do anything else, it might be too early to ask her.
3. 3 Ask the girl if she is ready. When the moment is right, pat the girl on the head, look into her eyes, and ask if she is ready. Don't ask if she wants to have sex with you, or she won't take you seriously. It is important that she feels that it is important for you to know if she is ready for sex or not. She will appreciate your sincerity and delicacy.
   • Remember that a girl must be sober... Do not force the girl to do what she might agree to under the influence of alcohol and which she might later regret.
4. 4 Respond appropriately. If the girl is ready for sex, rejoice in silence, get out the condom and be ready to put it on. If the girl says she is not ready, respect her decision. Tell her that this is fine for you, that she is worth the wait, and that she should not rush. Be a gentleman. If you get angry or try to push her, she will start to doubt your relationship.
   • If she refuses, do not bring this up for a while. Don't ask her about sex every time you kiss her. This will quickly bore her. Do not hurry.

Method 3 of 3: Listen to her words

1. 1 Consider if she's talking about sex more often. If your girlfriend is ready for the next step, she'll probably talk more about sex more often. This can manifest itself in different ways. She may ask which of your friends have started having sex, as well as ask your opinion on matters related to sex. If she talks about sex, she's probably thinking about it.
   • If she talks about sex when you are alone, the chances are high that she wants to have sex with you.
   • If she suddenly wonders which of your friends are already having sex and which are not yet, she is most likely thinking about when you will have sex.
2. 2 Pay attention to whether she gives you naughty compliments. If she says you have beautiful breasts, biceps, or a sexy belly, she's hinting that your body turns her on. She does not compliment your clothes or hairstyle, but your body, which means that, most likely, she is thinking about what this body can give her.
   • If she compliments you when you kiss or touch each other, chances are high.
3. 3 See if she's talking about your bed more often. If she comes to your house, touches your bed and says that it is very soft, she may be hinting that she would like to lie in it with you. If she lies down on the bed and says the bed is very comfortable, chances are she wants you to join her.
4. 4 Remember if she tells you that she is horny. This is a pretty bold move, but your girlfriend can tell you that she is in the mood for sex or wants intimacy. This does not mean that she is ready to have sex right now, but if she tells you that she is in the mood for intimacy, it means that soon everything can happen.
5. 5 Remember if she is telling you obscene things. If a girl says obscene things to you over the phone, text or intimacy, or even has sex with you on the phone, it is possible that she wants to have sex with you. Of course, all this can only be conversations, but if she is comfortable talking to you like that, most likely she is ready for a new stage.

Tips

• Do not pressure the girl, let her make a decision without haste.
• Respect the girl's decisions. If she's not ready, accept it. Do not press on her - so you will lose her.
• Pay attention to whether she wants to talk about sex. If so, she's probably thinking the same thing as you. If she doesn't want to have sex, she's unlikely to talk about it.
• Consider if the moment is right. Perhaps because of the length of your relationship, the degree of intimacy, sexual activities you have or have not had, or some other factor, now is not the right time to have sex, even if you both would like to. this.
• Don't do this if you are not ready. Don't let anyone persuade you - it's up to you to decide.
• Be careful. If your girlfriend wants to have sex, consider safety. Protected sex is always better.
• Be patient. Sex is not the main thing in a relationship. Be your girlfriend's best friend, protect her as a sister. Fight like adults, play like children. Wait six months and then think about sex. It's important to take your time if you want a strong relationship. Remember that sex makes babies, so make sure she's as good for you as you are for her.
• Think if you are ready you yourself to sex. Even if your girlfriend wants it, it doesn't mean that you have to move to the next level of the relationship.
• Let the girl make her own decision.
• Let the girl take the first step herself. Don't push her.
• Don't worry and be honest about your desires.
• Do not try to have sex with a girl before she is ready. This may scare her or make her feel compelled.

Warnings

• If she becomes pregnant with you and decides to keep the baby, remember that you will have legal obligations to the child.
• Protect yourself and your partner from unwanted pregnancy. Use condoms, birth control pills, and other birth control methods. The coitus interruptus method is not an effective alternative to these remedies.... Contraceptives are much cheaper than the possible alimony.
• If she says no, it means no. If she's drunk, that means no. Even if she doesn't say anything, it could mean rejection. No refusal does not equal consent... Before you have sex, get clear consent from your girlfriend. If you don't, you could be charged with rape and sued. But more importantly, it can provoke emotional trauma in the girl.
• Think about what you will do, if contraception will fail. You both should think about it beforehand. Worse than an unplanned pregnancy, there can only be an argument about what to do with it.
• Protect yourself and your partner from sexually transmitted infections (STIs). The only contraceptive that protects against infections is a condom.