Content

• Steps
• Method 1 of 2: Calculate the Predator
• Method 2 of 2: How to Attract a Middle-Aged Woman
• Tips
• Warnings

“Predator” is usually a woman 40 years old (and older) who prefers relationships with men significantly younger than herself, usually 10 years or more. Pop culture characterizes the predator as a woman who is in miserable despair, but women are trying to overcome this stereotype. In fact, predators, they say, are confident, successful single women in their 40s who, tired of unromantic and narrow-minded men of their age, have relationships with more active and adventurous younger men. In this article, you will find tips on how to spot and attract the “predator” - also (and more preferably) called the older woman.

Steps

Method 1 of 2: Calculate the Predator

1. 1 Forget everything you think you know about predators. In fact, forget even the term itself. If you want to date and / or have a romantic relationship with an older woman, you should treat her like a person - not as a stereotype of how a sexually active middle-aged woman looks and behaves.
2. 2 Determine the woman's age. Usually predators are in the 40+ age group; however, some believe that this group starts with women aged 35 years. With the help of the available creams and beauty treatments, many men and women manage to look much younger than they really are. The points to look out for apply to both men and women:
   • Dry, thinning, dull hair: For both men and women, hair quality decreases with age. You may notice that a middle-aged woman has brittle hair that no longer has the shine and volume that younger women have. She can also dye her hair to hide gray hair.
   • Sparse eyebrows and eyelashes: As we age, our hormones change and this slows down hair growth, which can make eyebrows and eyelashes less dense. Some women resort to dyeing their eyebrows with a pencil or tattooing, as well as eyelash extensions - so it can be difficult to determine a woman's age only by these parameters.
   • Thin lips or poor tooth enamel: Our lips become thinner and wrinkled over the years, and our teeth decay. You may notice fine lines around the mouth of a middle-aged woman, thinner lips (perhaps partially obscured by lip liner), and dull, more translucent teeth.
   • Thin skin: As men and women age, wrinkles appear on their necks - unless they use Botox or do a facelift. Thin skin will also be visible on the hands, making the veins, knuckles, and veins more visible.
   • Sagging skin on knees and elbows: As we age, the skin on the knees and elbows becomes dry and sags around the joints. The skin around the elbows, in particular, can become darker and much drier than the skin around.
3. 3 Check out her makeup. Evolutionary psychology studies have shown that physical attractiveness is more important when evaluating female attractiveness than when assessing male. This means that a less attractive man may still be desirable due to his erudition, humor, material condition, and more, and women are very often judged by their appearance. For this reason, as a woman ages, it may be possible to emphasize makeup more often to hide the signs of aging that make her less desirable.
   • You may notice that middle-aged women apply more foundation or eyeshadow to give their face a smooth, even look.
   • She will also most likely use a lip liner to make her lips look fuller, an eyebrow pencil to make her eyebrows visually thicker, and a blush to make her cheeks look rosier and younger.
   • Contouring is a popular make-up technique used by women of all ages, starting in their teens.
4. 4 Don't assume that you can recognize her by her taste in clothes. The comic stereotype of the predator suggests that a woman wears clothes that are designed for a younger age and that are too tight - mostly of bright fabrics, often with animal prints. The reality is that women of any age group can dress tasteless and provocative.
   • How a woman dresses - no matter how old she is - depends largely on her personal sense of style.
   • Women of all ages can wear push-up bras; middle-aged women will do this quite often, as breasts tend to sag as they age.
5. 5 Pay attention to her self-confidence. Basically, the older a woman gets, the better she knows herself, knows what she likes, and the more confident she can be. Some signs that a woman is confident:
   • Good posture: whether she is sitting or standing, a confident woman will have a straight back and a head set directly on her neck, her chin will not be too high or too low.
   • Relaxed: A confident person will be quite relaxed in most situations, perhaps looking around with a slight smile, or simply being calm and peaceful. Such a person will not be fussy.
   • Eye contact: Confident people make eye contact and maintain it while communicating. There is a difference between maintaining eye contact and gazing at someone continuously: Looking someone in the eye 60% of the time you are talking is a good rule of thumb.

Method 2 of 2: How to Attract a Middle-Aged Woman

1. 1 Know what you want and be honest. Whether it's just sex or a long-term relationship, knowing what you want can help you come up with the right course of action to get it done. It's also important to be honest with the woman about what you want - don't act like you want a relationship if you only want sex. Women like sex too; they, too, may want to have fun without any convention.
   • Consider: Is this sex related - just a checkmark on your list? Or do you need a long-term relationship with someone more mature than your previous partners? Perhaps you already have someone in mind and are wondering how you can get her to notice.
   • If you just want to have sex with a middle-aged woman, for example, you should visit sites dedicated to helping middle-aged women find young companions and vice versa. There are even travel trips designed to introduce young men to older women.
   • Dating sites are great if you want a long lasting relationship with a mature woman. Again, just be clear about your intentions from the beginning.
   • Women 40 and older also have their own lives; this means that you can meet such a woman anywhere - in a hall or a yacht club, in an acting class or just in a store. Different places of interest are a great way to meet new people, regardless of your age.
2. 2 Drop stereotypes. Of course, some older women may well fit the stereotype of "predator", but most do not. As with all people, desires and behaviors differ from person to person. If you are dating a mature woman for a romantic relationship, you should get rid of the stereotypical “predator” image and just treat her with the same respect you would treat other people.
   • Some sites lead you to believe that there are varieties of predators: a money predator (or an elderly woman who spends money on a young man, usually in exchange for sexual favors), an evil predator, a sentimental predator.
   • Often there is some truth in stereotypes, but you should still get to know a specific woman, and not cram her into the narrow framework of the stereotypical behavior of an older woman.
3. 3 Show your interest in her. If you are interested in a mature woman, let her know about it. How you demonstrate your interest will depend on your particular situation - including where you met the woman and how well you already know her.
   • If you meet a woman at a bar, you can show your interest by smiling at her and waiting for a smile in return. Wait and see if she looks at you; if it does, it could be a sign of her interest in you. You can, in this case, go up to her and offer a drink.
   • If you are interested in a woman who is in the same athletic club as you, your tactics will be different. You can gauge her interest in you by starting a conversation with her after the run - it doesn't have to be serious; a light conversation about the weather or sports is a great place to start.
4. 4 Prepare for rejection and accept it with honor. If you want to meet a mature woman and get rejected, don't act like an idiot. It's okay to be upset and even express it in a polite manner; but you shouldn't call her names or threaten her.
   • You can: "I am sad, but if you change your mind, I am at your service!"
   • You can't: “Are you kidding me? Yes, you should be happy that such a young man like me looked at you! ”
5. 5 Be “young.“If you want to get the attention of an older woman, you don't have to try to act like a man of her age. Many women over 40 are looking for young people, as they are usually more open to new things, riskier and more romantic.
   • When you go out on dates, be risky and willing to try new things. Share your interests with her and find out about her interests. As with any relationship, enjoy getting to know each other and developing together.
   • You should also be creative and ready for new things in bed. She may be direct about what she likes, so it's important that you want to hear her and even follow the instructions.
6. 6 Be honest about who you are. If a mature woman tells you that her previous relationship ended because her partner was an unromantic, stubborn workaholic, and you know that there is a time in your career now that you need to prioritize work over everything else, most likely for this the moment is not the best time to start a relationship with this woman.
7. 7 Be reliable and simple. Most middle-aged women (and men) have had enough relationships to know what works and what doesn't; they are not interested in playing games. Canceling plans at the last minute and forgetting to call for days or weeks may be accepted by younger women, but older women will not put up with it all.

Tips

• If you want a lasting relationship with an older woman, be realistic about your expectations for her. If she already has children and is over 40, she is unlikely to want more.

Warnings

• Be prepared for people to judge you. It might not be fair, but if you want a long lasting relationship with a mature woman, people are more likely to judge you. Most importantly, you are both happy; when your friends and family see this, it will be easier for them to accept the relationship.