Content

• Steps
• Note
• Tips
• Warnings
• What do you need

If you're too shy about asking someone out in person, an email can be a way to get his or her attention.

Steps

1. 1 Spend some quality time with your potential mile girl boyfriend and his or her friends. Ask if he or she has an email address or an account on a popular social network such as Facebook or MySpace.
2. 2 Start with a simple greeting or start the conversation with something else. If necessary, remind him or her where he or she knows you from (what lessons do you go to together, etc.)
3. 3 Add him or her as a friend if your site has this feature.
4. 4 Learn more about the interests of the second person.
5. 5 If you find out that you have a lot in common, ask him or her out on a date. Try this strategy: "You could hear that I like you. Would you like to go out on a date?"
6. 6 Give him or her more than a few minutes to respond. Wait a few hours before checking your email or website, or the wait will seem endless.

Note

Online dating is a great idea for shy people. It works even better if the person you like is also shy, or if you don't mind not seeing their reaction.

Tips

• Be prepared to give up, just in case things don't go the way you planned.
• Remember that people behave online differently than they do in person. Some people may "definitely like" you on MySpace, but they will ignore you in the hallway!
• From a guy's point of view: If you don't know the person in real life and you can chat with him live, try inviting him in person. The person will feel special. It takes a lot of self-confidence to do this, but it's worth it.
• Always be yourself. If you are not a cheerful person, do not try to become one; if you are a class clown, being serious may not be in your nature.
• First, identify your common interests.

Warnings

• Be extremely careful when sharing personal information online. It is not difficult to create a false identity. Provide your full name, address and telephone number with extreme care, especially if you don't know the person in real life.
• Also, if you know this person, it's always best to ask him out on a date in real life. That way he will know that you are serious and you will not seem desperate.
• This dating method can leave a paper trail that may or may not follow, so proceed with caution.
• Remember that this can also be dangerous - many pretend to be older / younger than they really are. You can also find a lot of lies online ...
• It is always best to express everything in person, if possible.

What do you need

• Sympathy for someone
• Email account or social media page
• Internet account
• Typing skills
• A good sense of humor is a plus, as many find it attractive.
• Webcam (optional)