Content

• Steps
• Method 1 of 3: Make her feel special
• Method 2 of 3: Make her feel loved
• Method 3 of 3: Final touches
• Tips

You don't have to look like Brad Pitt or drive a Corvette to impress a girl. This kind of thing on its own will almost never work for a woman who is really worth caring for. If you want to "drive a girl crazy," then you need to know how to make her feel at ease and special. However, this is easier said than done.

Steps

Method 1 of 3: Make her feel special

1. 1 Give her a unique compliment. If you want the girl to immediately feel special and turn her head, then you need to make her feel that you see in her more than just "the next goal." Let her know that you think she is unusual, talk about her unique characteristics. Tell her that she has amazing freckles, a good sense of humor, a fantastic laugh, or the most incredible sense of style you've ever seen.
   • Don't rush to tell her that she is beautiful or gorgeous. While this is a nice compliment, if you rush with it, she might feel like you're being too insistent or insincere.
   • In your first or second conversation, try to summon a subtle compliment to let her know that you really saw her as a person and not just like any other girl.
   • You can also compliment different aspects of her personality. Don't be limited to superficial things.
2. 2 Ask questions about her.Majority people love to talk about themselves when given a chance. If you want a girl to feel special and really care about you, ask her a few questions about her life and her thoughts. Don't give her an addiction or make her feel like she's in for an interview. Just asking some personal, but not intrusive, questions will really show her that you are interested. Here are some topics to talk about:
   • Who are her closest friends, how they have fun
   • Does she have any pets - if so, ask to describe them
   • Does she have brothers and sisters
   • What are her favorite films, groups, books
   • Her hobby
   • Where does she work or where she studies
3. 3 Ask for her opinion. If you want a girl to feel special and to feel that you care for her, then you must show that her opinion is really important to you. Ask her what she thinks about everything from your new shoes to her musical preferences. Don't ask questions that might spark a dispute - stay clear of politics or any other sensitive issue. But ask what she thinks so that from time to time you can show that you care about her, that you really think about her, and not just see her as a toy.
   • If you go to a movie, ask her what she really wants to see. When you go out, you should ask her what she thinks.
   • If you give her a lift and listen to music, ask, "What CDs does she have in the car?"
   • If you are close enough and are going to make a vital decision - ask her opinion, do not make decisions without first specifying her opinion.
4. 4 Take the time to really listen to her. This is different from nodding her head and nodding, “uh,” “yes,” every few minutes when she asks if you’re listening to her. Pay attention to the little details, from what she really thinks of her friend Stephanie to her favorite sweaters. Sure, you can get distracted from time to time, but you will be on top the next time you mention her friend Stephanie or when you are in a sweater shop together; if you remember what she said earlier, she will be really impressed with your attentiveness.
   • By truly listening to her, you also make it clear that you are as interested in her mind as you are in her body.
   • By listening to her carefully, you can get an idea of ​​what she loves and dislikes, so you can give her a nice and meaningful gift when the time is right.
5. 5 Be a gentleman. If you want to impress a girl, then you definitely need to be a gentleman. You shouldn't be pushing or trying to do something that doesn't fit with your personality, but if you want her to feel special, you have to make her feel like a lady.To be a gentleman, you must treat a girl with respect, be kind and affectionate, and let her feel your attention to her, as well as on an anniversary date or just over a cup of coffee. Here are some other things you can do:
   • When you pick it up, don't just wait in the car and honk. Go up and knock on her door. When she gets into the car, open the door for her.
   • Open the doors in front of her and move the chair for her. Always let her go ahead of you.
   • Ask from time to time if she is comfortable. Is it too cold or too hot? Offer her your jacket or hang her coat.
   • Always start a date with a compliment. She's been getting ready, so tell her she looks beautiful, amazing, whatever.
6. 6 Ask about her hobbies. This does not mean that you have to become obsessed with yoga or follow it like a dog every Saturday to the farm's supermarket. This means that you should take an interest in some of the things she loves to do, and subtly ask about her passion for them. If she enjoys writing poetry or drawing, ask where you could see some of her poems and paintings. If she is going to read a book tonight and asks if you would like to join, say yes.
   • This does not mean that you have to start doing a whole bunch of things that seem boring to you. This means that you have to show that you care about the girl's interests and that you will support her as much as you can.
7. 7 Make eye contact. Seriously. This is one of the most underrated tricks to make a girl feel really special. When she talks to you, look her in the eyes. It may seem completely obvious, but you will be surprised at the number of guys who barely make eye contact with a girl, either because they are too shy or too busy looking at their cell phones to really pay attention to their girl's eyes.
   • This does not mean that you have to be creepy and constantly look a girl in the eyes, but when she is talking to you and you are actually listening, look into her eyes to show that you care.
   • Eye contact is easier if you're really interested in your girlfriend's feelings. If you look past her face, you may not be able to notice in time that she is upset or worried.

Method 2 of 3: Make her feel loved

1. 1 Show affection. Although you may think that your girlfriend already knows how you feel, because you tell her from time to time, physical contact can last for a long time until you fall in love with her. You don't have to hug her or hold her hand 24/7 (you might be surprised to find out that many girls don't like this), but you should touch affectionately or give other gestures of attention often enough to make her feel loved. Here are some things you can do:
   • If you come to the movies, then hold her hand, at least part of the movie, if she likes it.
   • If you're on the couch together, remember to cuddle with her to make her feel special.
   • If you speak and she is upset, place your hand on her knee, stroke her hand, or just hold it to let her feel you care.
   • When you greet her and kiss her, touch your hands to her hair.
   • Remember to touch her playfully. When you meet, do a flirtatious "fight" or just playfully pat each other - this is a great way to show warm feelings.
2. 2 Support her. If you really want to make her feel loved, then you have to go beyond compliments and touch her. You have to support her, both while watching her play football, and by being with her after her grandmother's death.Love is not always just fun and fun, to really conquer it from head to toe, you must have the full range of qualities and be with it when it needs you.
   • If she really does sports, attend her games when you can, at least remember to ask how things went.
   • If she's going to have a tough exam, help her prepare, or support her by bringing her lunch, or offer to do some nice little things for her while she studies.
   • If she's having a busy week at work, calm her down. Help her relax by preparing a pleasant evening and do not raise any serious issues during this period.
3. 3 Make unexpected kisses. Of course, kissing in the middle of a hot relationship will be pleasing to her, but these unexpected kisses are considered the most important. If you're just hanging out in the middle of a date or walking in the park, kiss her and say: I just had to kiss you right now. You look so beautiful. It will really blow her up.
   • If you’re already kissing, make sure you blow her a kiss every time you meet, and don’t let her feel neglected.
   • Not every kiss has to turn into a French kiss. A gentle kiss on the lips is a great way to show you care and mix things up.
4. 4 Take time for romance. If you really want your girlfriend to feel loved, you have to plan dates and stick with them. If you want to win her heart, then you cannot just be Casanova for the first three weeks and then tell her that Sunday - sports day forever and ever. Make sure you have weekly dates, no matter how upset and tired you are both, and you will continue to make the girl feel loved.
   • Romance doesn't have to mean red wine and chocolate. It just means taking the time to show you sympathy for each other.
5. 5 Let her know what you think of her when you are not around. If you want her to feel loved, then you have to let her see what you think of her, even if you are not together. Send her a message once a day to let her know what you think of her, or send her an email from work with a link that made you think of her. Don't bother eight times a day if you don't want to sound annoying, but if you start dating seriously, don't let a day go without a quick phone call or text message.
   • While it is important for her to see how much you care when you are together, it is equally important for her to know what you think of her when you are not together.
6. 6 Do the nice little things for her. While big, sweeping gestures like life-size teddy bears or a diamond necklace can show her your sympathy, other little things can do the same. It might not be so glamorous when you bring her groceries, when she's in trouble, when you fix a broken table leg in her living room, or go to the vet with her when her kitten is sick, but these are the things that will bring her to thinking, "wow, he really cares about me."
   • Of course, she also has to do all sorts of little things for you. You don't have to become her errand boy to give the appearance of caring for her.

Method 3 of 3: Final touches

1. 1 Be spontaneous. While constant dating, walking, and going to the movies can help build affection and make relationships meaningful and healthy, that doesn't mean they will always be. cheerful... Do spontaneous things sometimes. Make an effort not to do the expected and common thing all the time, and she will love hanging out with you even more.
   • Organize a casual weekend trip to a place you've never been before. Try food from a country you've never even heard of. Make a wheel in the middle of the street.
   • And don't underestimate the spontaneous hug, kiss, or compliment.
2. 2 Be adventurous. If you want to conquer a girl, then you must bring adventure and excitement into her life. This does not mean you have to skydive or climb Everest, it means that you have to stick to your path to do interesting things, push each other out of your comfort zones, and do things that you never intended. All the innovations that you bring into her life will keep the girl's adrenaline level, she will be delighted with your relationship.
   • This could mean running a marathon together, learning to scuba dive, or even learning a new language.
   • When a new task is presented, you need to mentally say yes, instead of the word No and coming up with all sorts of reasons why this would not be a good idea.
3. 3 Enchant her friends and family. You may ask, "What should I do with her friends and family?" Well, the short answer is everything. Of course, you can start a hot and exciting romance without ever meeting her friends and family, but if you want to continue the romance, then you should make an effort to get to know her friends and be polite and kind when it comes to meeting her family.
   • Even if you didn't get along right away with her friends, give them a chance. If you are with this girl, then, most likely, they will be a part of your life forever.
   • Of course, family events aren't always the funnest, but don't complain about that. If you care about her, then you will have to make time for her family - even if you prefer to watch the big game, instead of idle chatting at her uncle's birthday.
4. 4 Maintain your independence. While you may think that maintaining your independence has nothing to do with subduing a girl, the opposite is true. If you want her to feel your sympathy and that you can make her hold her breath, then you must allow her to be herself and do her usual things from time to time. She will be amazed that you are not an owner or a jealous person who wants to be around all the time, and this will please her even more.
   • If you both have separate friends and interests and relationships with people that don't overlap, your relationship will grow stronger when you spend time together.
5. 5 Don't take it for granted. After you have conquered it, you must continue. You might think that everything is going great anyway and that there is no need to continue making your girlfriend special and loved - and you would be completely wrong. You need to keep the relationship fresh if you don't want the girl to lose interest in you. Bring her flowers, keep complimenting her, and come up with new activities you can do together, hike, or learn to cook to keep the relationship interesting.
   • If you have already reached the phase I love youmake sure to say this at least once a day to keep showing your feelings.

Tips

• Joke with her. If you can make a girl laugh, she will remember you.
• Don't forget to have your own life. Most girls like guys who have their own friends, opinions, and their own time.
• Be confident in yourself.
• Girls love laid-back, relaxed guys. They don't want someone who is always worried. Always try to be calm and cool around her. Try not to look nervous when you talk to her. Do not stutter or hesitate when talking to her, otherwise she may think that you are afraid and embarrassed.
• Never force her to choose between her friends or you, some friend doesn't pretend to be your girlfriend's feelings.
• If she is not interested in you, just move on. At least you tried.
• Be specific about your compliments, especially if they are genuine. Say "you have a nice summer outfit" instead of "you look hot". If the first is true, then she will easily accept such a compliment.
• If she asks you how she looks, always respond with a positive comment like “fantastic” or “great,” so she will know that you appreciate her appearance well.
• As you start to get closer, say something like “hello sweet” and “hello baby” to let her know that you have noticed her.