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• Method 1 of 3: Talk and respond
• Method 2 of 3: Using body language
• Method 3 of 3: Create a romantic atmosphere
• Tips
• Warnings

Some people may find the idea of ​​a romantic conversation a bit scary, but it is not necessary. A romantic conversation can be pleasant and fun, and even a little naughty, and there are several ways to improve your romantic conversation skills. A romantic conversation with your partner can strengthen your bond and rekindle the fires you had in the beginning.

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Method 1 of 3: Talk and respond

1. Ask open questions. As with any other type of conversation, the best way to keep the conversation going is to ask open-ended questions. That means asking questions that cannot simply be answered with "yes" or "no", prompting your partner to elaborate further. That way you keep the conversation going. There are even certain questions you can ask that will bring your partner and you even closer. Examples of this are:
   • "What does your perfect day look like?"
   • "What are three things you think we have in common?"
   • “Do you have another dream that you have not been able to live up to? What is that then?"
2. Confess something cute to your partner. Once you start the conversation with some romantic questions, you can keep the conversation going by increasing the intimacy between the two of you. A nice way to do that is to confess something to your partner in a cute way, so that he / she has even stronger feelings for you. You can say something so romantic without overdoing it. Make sure that what you "confess" is something light and romantic. For instance:
   • "I have to tell you something. I wanted to hold your hand from the first moment I saw you ".
   • "I always wanted to know how you got that scar on your knee".
   • "I've wanted to tell you for a long time that I love your aftershave smelling so good."
3. Keep the conversation positive. As the conversation progresses, make sure the topics of conversation remain light and positive. If you start talking about things like money, work, or problems in your relationship, you are ruining the romantic atmosphere. Stick to romantic topics like your future, what you love about your partner, and intimate aspects of your relationship.
   • Tell your partner what your goals and dreams are, and ask if he / she wants to tell you that too.
   • Also focus on showing your positive qualities. Are you spontaneous? Fair? Hardworking? Whatever your positive traits are, try to find opportunities to show them to him / her.
4. Use "I statements" when you talk. By using "I statements" you prevent the conversation from coming to a standstill. Tell your partner something surprising about yourself to keep the conversation interesting.
   • If the conversation threatens to stop, you can say something like, "I would really like to go to Antarctica one day."
5. Tell stories. Good stories can bond, so choose some of your best stories to share with your partner.Good stories are stories that reveal something about you, such as how you ended up in the city where you now live, why you chose a particular study or how you met your best friend.
6. Interrupt your partner to let them know you agree or to underline what they have said. While you shouldn't interrupt your partner too often, it is good to say something briefly now and then so that he / she knows you agree with what he / she has just said.
   • For example, if your partner mentions a bond that he / she likes, you can just say: "Oh yes, I love that too!" Then be quiet again and listen to what your partner has to say.
7. Show your appreciation. Appreciating your partner's experiences and opinions can also be a great way to enhance the romance in a conversation. Make sure you acknowledge your partner's interests and achievements during the conversation.
   • For example, if your partner says he / she likes to do something, or if he / she has recently accomplished something, you can say something like, "That's great!" or "How good of you!".
8. Be sympathetic. Sometimes your partner may tell you about something bad that happened to him / her or about something he / she has struggled with in the past. When that happens, answer these statements from your partner with sympathy.
   • For example, if your partner tells you that he / she finds something difficult, you can say something like: "That seems really difficult to me", or "How terrible for you".

Method 2 of 3: Using body language

1. Show confidence. A romantic conversation requires self-confidence and trust in the relationship. You want to let your partner know how you feel and give them the opportunity to do the same. When starting a romantic conversation, it is important to be open and confident. If you hold back yourself too much, your partner will find that you feel uncomfortable and may turn off.
   • Avoid aggressive body language such as crossing your arms or making too many hand gestures.
   • Keep your body language relaxed and inviting by keeping your arms at your sides and facing your partner.
   • Smile at your partner so he / she knows you enjoy talking to him / her.
2. Give your partner your full attention. If you are having a romantic moment with your partner, you need to make sure of your body language and your words convey your message convincingly. Your partner won't believe you if you talk to them while looking at the menu, even if you say the most romantic things you can think of.
   • Make sure to give your partner your full attention during the conversation. Do not look across the room or fiddle with anything, as that will appear uncomfortable or uninterested.
3. Make eye contact. Eye contact with your partner is one of the best ways to strengthen intimacy and bond without having to speak up. Make sure you maintain eye contact when your partner is talking to you, and look at him / her when you say something as well.
4. Hold his / her hand or touch your partner every now and then. Touch is an important factor in enhancing the romance between two people. Make sure you and your partner touch each other from time to time during the conversation.
   • For example, you can touch your partner's hand or stroke his / her arm while he / she is talking.

Method 3 of 3: Create a romantic atmosphere

1. Make sure you look good. Grooming is an important factor in whether or not they are found attractive. That means that when you take good care of yourself, your partner is more likely to be attracted to you. Before starting the romantic conversation, take the time to do the following:
   • go exercise
   • eat a healthy meal
   • shower
   • style your hair
   • brush your teeth
   • put on nice clothes
2. Light a few candles. Dimming the light is a good way to create a romantic atmosphere for conversation. When dining out, choose a restaurant with dim lighting and candles. If you stay at home, light some candles yourself to create a romantic atmosphere.
3. Put on some soft music. Music can also make the atmosphere romantic, as long as it doesn't distract from the conversation too much. Choose something without lyrics and turn down the music very quietly. Some good options are:
   • classical music
   • quiet jazz
   • new-age music
   • nature sounds
4. Offer your partner a piece of chocolate. Chocolate is an aphrodisiac, and it can enhance romantic feelings. Eating chocolate, especially dark ones, can make you feel euphoric. Buy a box of good quality chocolate and keep it handy during the conversation.

Tips

• Be yourself. You don't want your partner to fall for you pretending to be someone else!
• Don't be afraid of silence! Silence is always better than rattling on because you are afraid of the silence. For example, say, "It's so nice that I don't necessarily have to talk to you."
• Allow your partner to talk. Do not overwhelm him / her and make him / her feel that you appreciate his / her input.

Warnings

• Don't talk too much about sex. You can give a hint now and then, but don't talk too openly about it right away.