Content

• Steps
• Tips
• Warnings

This happens to many girls. You are chatting with your best friend, and at that moment her boyfriend comes along and you cannot contain your admiration. But what can I say? How to behave? Read on ...

Steps

1. 1 Not try your best to impress him or look great in front of him. Behave in a completely normal manner and dress normally. Talk to him the same way you talk to other guys, but never flirt or talk too much. It might sound daunting, but you don't want your best friend to be suspicious, do you?
2. 2 Try not to spend too much time with them. You shouldn't be doing this. All the beloved should be alone for a while. If you’re chatting with your best friend and her boyfriend comes, wait a little and then leave. If they invite you somewhere, politely decline. Don't do this all the time, or it will be too rude. Refuse only if they invite you to places where you will feel uncomfortable, such as for a walk or a romantic event.
3. 3 Don't be too close to him. You may get along very well with your ex-girlfriend's boyfriend, but remember to be careful if you like him. Try to be polite, but don't be overly friendly.Don't be rude or you will get into a fight with your best friend. Just be polite and more formal than usual.
4. 4 Try to improve your relationship with your best friend. Be as friendly as possible and spend a lot of time with her (but not too much lest her boyfriend think you are taking too much time). Have fun together. The closer you get, the less likely you are to have a relationship with her boyfriend, since you don't want to hurt her.

Tips

• Remember not to tell your best friend about your feelings while they are dating! It will be weird and embarrassed. If they ever disperse, do not come to her immediately to talk about it, otherwise it will be a betrayal. You have to give her time. Never keep anything (including the relationship behind her back) a secret from her.
• Don't tell anyone. Some people will find you weird and you’ll get a bad reputation, especially if you’re in a relationship with your best friend’s boyfriend. It's as if you were lying, so be sensible. Don't lie if you don't tell her anything.
• Give them space. Do not meet with him in private. Someone might tell your best friend about this.
• If your best friend ends up breaking up with him, don't try to be his girlfriend, wait.
• Keep reminding yourself that this is just falling in love, as friendship is more important and feelings will soon fade.
• Watch what you say. If you think this is your greatest love, you can casually say, "Do I love you?" or “You don’t want to date me?” so be careful.
• If you really trust your best friend, you can tell her; maybe she will help you.

Warnings

• If absolutely necessary, ask your friend's permission. Then wait. Even if she agrees, you still need to wait. People sometimes do not understand how painful it can be to another person about the fact that someone is dating his ex-boyfriend. This is just a sign of courtesy so as not to hurt your friend's feelings. She may get angry or take revenge on you.
• * If they break up, don't ask him out right away. It will be selfish and not good, and you will be acting against all the rules described in this article. If you do, be careful!