How to dress modestly and attractively (for girls)

Author: Florence Bailey
Date Of Creation: 26 March 2021
Update Date: 1 July 2024
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If you have recently decided to start dressing more modestly, you may feel a bit distracted at first, not knowing how to dress to look fashionable as well. Contrary to popular belief, "modest" and "fashionable" are not mutually exclusive. Decide what standards of modesty you want to adhere to, and find trending items that meet those standards. Add a few layers on top for a more modest look and decorate yourself with the right accessories to add flavor to your look.

Steps

Method 1 of 4: Define Your Modesty Rules

Every girl and woman has different ideas about modesty. For some, religious beliefs may require that a girl's entire body be covered in a public place. For others, modesty simply means avoiding plunging necklines and skirts that are too short. If your own notions of modesty are still taking shape, consider seeking some basic advice as you design your wardrobe.


  1. 1 The neckline of the dress should be at least four fingers from the collarbone. Anything below will showcase your neckline.
  2. 2 Avoid thin materials and fabrics that will fit your body, such as spandex. Such fabrics are considered too revealing, and others can see your bra through such fabric.
  3. 3 Draw attention to your face, not your chest. Let the jewelry be on the collar, not on the chest.
  4. 4 Keep your back closed. Avoid items with fully or partially bare back.
  5. 5 Cover your shoulders. Try to wear tops that cover your shoulders.
  6. 6 Check the buttons on your shirt. Make sure there are no gaps between the buttons to show the skin.
  7. 7 Wear pants that fit you well, but don't get too tight at the back or hips. If you pull on the fabric, then it should move at least a little from your leg.
  8. 8 Hide the visible linen line. Tights, slip-ons and "shaping shorts" will help if you need to hide everything.
  9. 9 Choose shorts and skirts that are below your arm level. Stretch your arms out to your sides. Straighten your fingers, keeping them in this position, and make sure that the bottom line of your pants or shorts is longer than your fingers.
  10. 10 Look for dresses that have sleeves or shoulder straps that are at least five centimeters wide. If yours are thinner, then cover your shoulders with a shawl or sweater.

Method 2 of 4: An outfit with multiple layers of clothing is now your best friend

You can wear a pretty top or a ruffled blouse and still look modest. Find out how to make your wardrobe more versatile.


  1. 1 Wear a cute top under a sweater or jacket. A trendy cut-out top can go well with a cardigan or trendy denim jacket. Add some style to yourself by choosing a top with a funny print or embellished collar.
  2. 2 Disguise the low neckline by wearing a tank top or top under a shirt. If you fall in love with a top or a dress that has a deep triangle or square neckline, do not despair. A simple tank top or top with feminine lace that adorns the throat can transform a dressing item into an outfit that matches your modest wardrobe. Many tank tops have adjustable straps so you can raise the neckline to cover your chest and leave a neckline that you feel comfortable with.
  3. 3 Stock up on cute outerwear. Slim shawls, denim jackets, leather jackets, cardigans, blazers, military style jackets, etc.The more varied your wardrobe, the more outfits you can come up with. Outerwear is a great piece for outfits with deep back cutouts and thin straps.
  4. 4 Cover your legs with tight jeans or leggings. If you want to wear a skirt or dress, but are worried that it is too short for you, compensate for this effect by wearing something under the bottom. Skinny jeans or leggings go well with many things. But keep in mind that many leggings can look completely out of fashion and will most likely fit snugly around your body. To avoid this, wear skirts that cover most of your thighs. Don't wear super-short skirts that completely lift up when you just sit down.

Method 3 of 4: Avoid Bad Taste

Modest does not mean tasteless. Avoid wearing clothes that don't suit you, but choose clothes that highlight your best features.


  1. 1 Choose things that fit you well. Fitting well does not mean that it will fit like a second skin, but that it will accentuate the natural curves of your figure. You don't have to completely hide your figure in order to remain humble. Clothes that flatter your shape will look better and more appropriate.
  2. 2 Try a knee-length skirt with a versatile fit. A-line skirt and pencil skirt are two timeless styles that suit all body types. The bottom edge of the skirt, which reaches the knee or descends below, is also considered a universal cut.
  3. 3 Wear jeans and pants that fit your figure. Go for the classic flare cut or straight trousers. They will give your legs enough room to breathe while still looking good on almost all body types.
  4. 4 Try different necklines on yourself. If you like a high neckline, try some mandarin collars, some with turtlenecks and a high neckline. Or choose a V-neck that won't expose your chest too much. Don't be afraid to try on outfits with a deep cut, as many things can look quite modest if you wear a tank top or a top underneath.
  5. 5 Try things with sleeves. There are many more options than just long or short sleeves. Look for short sleeves in the style of cap sleeves, puff sleeves, bell sleeves or lanterns. Choosing a trendy sleeve style, you can look modest and stylish at the same time.
  6. 6 Take note of the nylon tights. If your dress or skirt calls for more modesty and you still feel uncomfortable, hide your legs under nylon stockings. Solid or colored tights work best, but you should avoid mesh and pattern on them.
  7. 7 Extend your legs with heels. If you have a knee-length or maxi-length skirt, consider wearing heels to visually increase the length of your legs. Long legs look attractive, but that doesn't necessarily mean they look immodest. The right heel will help you look confident and beautiful, not slutty.

Method 4 of 4: Add personality by wearing jewelry

You can experiment with your wardrobe and still look modest. Accessories are an easy way to do this.

  1. 1 Try on heels, stylish boots, and flats. Look for style in vibrant colors, ornaments, or embellishments.
  2. 2 Prefer shoes that look classic over shoes that look sexy. Choose open or closed shoes over strappy shoes.
  3. 3 Think about heel height and heel thickness. Thin high heels are usually associated with sexuality. Choose a low, thin heel or other low heel options to maintain the lady's look.
  4. 4 Find a trendy scarf. Scarves are always in fashion. They come in different colors, types, patterns.They will help cover your neck and top of your chest even more.
  5. 5 Put on your hat. There is a large selection of different styles, from felt hats and caps to panama hats. Look for one that suits your face shape or your personal taste. Buy a few hats in the style you want and wear them when you go for a walk - this will add style and modesty to your look.
  6. 6 Wear colorful jewelry. Wear only one large piece of jewelry at a time, or choose a few small pieces that will brighten up your outfit. Unleash your imagination by choosing watches, necklaces, bracelets, rings, earrings. But stay away from unconventional jewelry like lip rings, eyebrows or tongue rings.
  7. 7 Slip on a stylish shoulder bag. Almost any bag will fall within the standards of modesty. Look for a medium-sized bag in a neutral tone for a variety of outfits, or opt for a large, bold crossbody bag.

Tips

  • Try on clothes in front of a full-length mirror. Bend over, sit down, jump and swing your arms. Make sure your clothes don't bulge too much.
  • Don't throw away old clothes just because you think they are out of fashion. Try to think of another use for it by matching outerwear to it, or give it to a thrift store where someone else will find a use for it.
  • Ask your mom for help in this matter. She may be able to help you choose clothes.

Things You’ll Need

  • Tops
  • Bottom of clothing
  • Dresses
  • Scarves
  • Hats
  • Decorations
  • Handbag
  • Shoes