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• Steps
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Are you worried about an upcoming date with a girl? In this article, you will find helpful tips on how to properly conduct this meeting.

Steps

1. 1 Decide which wife you want: caring housewife who thinks about the needs of the whole family, business woman, etc.
2. 2 Be sure to read your bio two or three times before meeting your girlfriend.
   • Biography facts will help you formulate questions to ask your girlfriend. Examples of questions: Do you like to cook, travel? What do you like to do?
3. 3 Respect the girl's parents. Your attitude may depend on local traditions. For example, in Hindu families, it is customary to touch the feet of the parents.
4. 4 The girl will most likely be nervous, so try to calm her down. Do your best to make her feel comfortable.
5. 5 Ask a few simple questions such as the girl's name and what her name means.
6. 6 Ask her why she wants to start a family. Do your best to make the girl feel comfortable so that she can open up to you and tell you the truth.
7. 7 Ask her how she envisions the role of wife. Does she want to be a housewife, a businesswoman, or can she both work and do household chores?
8. 8 Also, ask the girl how she represents her future family: with or without children?
9. 9 Discuss religious beliefs if it matters to you in your marriage.
10. 10 Talk about each other's hobbies and habits. Many girls say that they do not accept a relationship with a young man who smokes.
11. 11 Ask the girl if she is ready for a change. Perhaps at first she will have to work, after 3 years she will become a caring mother and daughter-in-law, when the child is born and your parents grow old, and after 5 years she will become a housewife.
12. 12 Girls are often interested in your family's attitude to clothing. Be honest and only tell the truth. Tell us what is allowed at home, in the community, on excursions.
13. 13 The girl may ask how much you make. Explain to her if you have a fixed wage or a piece wage. If you have your own business, tell the girl if you have any hired workers. You can mention your estimated income. If you have a part in the family business, you should explain to the girl that if things do not go well, then you are ready to pledge all your assets in order to save the family business and pay the workers' wages.
14. 14 Never ask a girl about her past.
15. 15 There could be different circumstances in the girl's life, so there is no need to ask her about the past.
16. 16 Tell the girl that you expect her to have multiple responsibilities. If you have elderly parents who need help, be sure to mention this fact during your meeting. Likewise, a girl should let you know if she is caring for her parents or child. Be sure to discuss this issue.
17. 17 Avoid monologue. There should be open mutual communication between you.
18. 18 Try to find her page on Facebook, or in contact. You will be able to find out some details about her personality.
19. 19 Don't agree to get married after the first meeting. Before making a final decision, you should meet several times.
20. 20 Many girls hide the truth on the first date, and can only open up after the second or third.
21. 21 Make sure your family treats your lady with respect.
22. 22 Ask your family to respect your girlfriend's dignity and not cross personal boundaries.

Tips

• Speak softly.
• Never argue.