Content

• Steps
• Tips
• Warnings
• What do you need

It's not easy to figure out how to deal with guys. You might not be sure if you need to be super cool, super social, super serious, or super flirtatious. Stop thinking so deeply about it. Instead, concentrate on being natural, and then you can easily connect with guys!

Steps

1. 1 Remember that guys are more likely to I want to chat with you. They think the same way, so the more you communicate with them, the more they will communicate with you.
2. 2 Take a deep breath before you walk up and speak to the handsome guy. This will take a couple of seconds and will allow you to calm down and act more naturally. If you feel a new bout of anxiety, repeat this several times.
3. 3 If you're too nervous talking to a guy you like, try practicing with a regular guy first. It is unlikely that any of the guys will refuse to just talk to you.
4. 4 Compliment him and ask questions about himself. If he talks about himself, you don't need to talk. If you know about any of his interests, start a conversation about this topic. Ask how the basketball team played last night.
5. 5 Ask him about the clothes you see on him. If he has the Beatles on his T-shirt, say something like, "I love the Beatles! This is my favorite band!" ... But if you don't like this group, don't lie. Guys like sincere girls!
6. 6 If you cannot look him directly in the eyes, concentrate on another part of the face, such as the lips. This way you show your attention without getting overly nervous.
7. 7 Consider learning how to just be friends with guys first. Many romantic relationships began with friendship. This will give you time to get to know each other better without admitting physical attraction.
8. 8 Concentrate on other things in your life. Find hobbies and interests. This will make you a more interesting person in the eyes of guys, as well as give you a topic to talk to, especially if they share your interests.
9. 9 Be sure to show confidence. Guys like confident girls. If you lack confidence, portray it. Smile and keep straight. Learn to chat with them about anything.
10. 10 Be pleasant to talk to. Guys don't like rude girls. So do not show sternness on your face and do not swear. Always smile and try not to make sarcastic jokes that might hurt them.
11. 11 Don't annoy him. Don't push the guy, stare at him, or talk too loudly. If you feel that he is irritated, it is best to stop.
12. 12 It is clear that it will take time to feel comfortable in the company of guys. Many adult women, who know how to enjoy comfortable relationships with men, struggled with similar feelings as teenagers. The older you get, the more confidence you gain.
13. 13 Be fun. Don't say "I don't know what I want to do" or "Whatever, I don't care." Smile, laugh and find an opportunity to play!
14. 14 Remember, guys are as nervous as you are. Chances are that they are not really listening to you, as they are focused on themselves and on how to behave correctly with you. Unless you make some gross mistake, chances are they won't notice.
15. 15 Smile. Guys like to date girls whose smile they like. At the same time, don't smile every second. Their goal is to see your beautiful smile. Also, don't show that you are upset about something. When a guy says something funny or funny, give him a generous smile. Thus, he will feel that he has made an achievement and will melt inside at the sight of your smile.

Tips

• Don't wander around or give the impression of being unapproachable. Wear clothes that you like and that highlight your figure, but not overly. If you come across as calm and open to communication, it is very likely that the guys will start a conversation with you.
• Speak clearly and distinctly! Don't mumble, say exactly what you want to say.
• Less is more. Always leave guys wanting to hang out with you a little more. Talk to them a little and step back. Don't chase them everywhere; wait for them to come to you themselves.
• If a guy wants to talk to you, don't push him away. This is not pleasant to anyone.
• Just imagine that he is one of your best friends, so you will feel more comfortable in his company.
• The main thing is self-confidence. Guys like confident girls. You will not be attractive to them if you are embarrassed to even hug when you meet.
• Try to leave him a little bewildered. Don't overplay it, but make it a little nervous. If he is not worried around you, then you are doing something wrong.

Warnings

• Let him talk! Don't talk endlessly about yourself, this is the most repulsive.
• Remember that even if he's not interested in you (which is usually the case in middle school), he probably doesn't think about girls at all yet. Perhaps you could be the perfect match, but he is still immature and his head is busy with completely different things, like going home and playing a game console or making a bomb. Boys grow up an order of magnitude later than girls, so it would be nice if you give him time and freedom, rather than pushing him against the wall like a cockroach in the corner of the kitchen, since it will bring little result. So stay calm.
• During conversations, do not be too clever, talk about simple and understandable topics.
• Show your interest, but don't be overly excited. If you seem uninterested or bored, he will miss you too. If you show excessive interest, he will feel pressure from you, and this will push him away.

What do you need

• confidence
• smile
• sense of humor!
• ability to have fun
• Big breasts are not needed!
• You don't have to look like Carmen Electra!
• You don't have to have a tan or a specific hair color!
• You don't need to change yourself and your preferences
• someone special
• best friend who will support your decisions