Content

• Steps
• Tips
• Warnings
• What do you need

The goal of being physically attractive is vague and probably unattainable; moreover, attractiveness is defined differently by different people. “Being healthy” can be a more specific goal when comparing attractiveness to physical fitness. Different cultures define attractiveness in different ways, and those cultures often have groups of people who define it in a completely different way. Thus, it is impossible to give advice that applies to everyone or even most people.

Steps

1. 1 Believe in yourself. Otherwise, you will never think that you have reached the stage of "attraction", even if everyone else thinks so.
2. 2 Relax. Many, if not all, people are somewhat insecure about their physical attractiveness. Knowing that others are just as nervous about this will help you stay in perspective. Always relax your face and body, but maintain good posture. A good way to practice is to walk around your house with a book on your head. During this exercise, try to stay relaxed.
3. 3 Determine the type or types of people you want to attract. For example, honest sports men with well-paid jobs, or lesbian punk women who work as bicycle messengers are obviously different people and therefore different attraction.
4. 4 Find clothes that match your look. If you don't feel attractive the way you are, clothes and accessories can help you feel more confident.Whether your look is professional, casual, elegant, punk, emo, country western, urban, or a mix of these styles, your outfit will help convey who you are and who you want to be.
5. 5 Exercise. Health is universally attractive. Dancing, running, pilates, swimming and other sports are good choices. Take night walks for at least a mile (1.5 km). If you can't eat a good diet and exercise, choose exercise. It will make your body more attractive to men by improving posture, strengthening your legs and butt, and reducing stress.
6. 6 Maintain excellent hygiene. People make comments. Brush your teeth twice a day and floss once a day. Use mouthwash if you have bad breath. Keep your skin healthy with a moisturizer and spend some time in the sauna or steam room. Get a manicure and pedicure. Shave often.
7. 7 Make yourself comfortable with your sexuality and your gender role. If femininity is something that you value and those you want to attract also appreciate it, you can highlight your feminine qualities. On the other hand, some people are attracted to androgynous or women with a boyish touch, or just women who balance between masculinity and femininity. Only you will know what suits you best and what those you want to attract are interested in.

Tips

• Maintain a positive attitude. Many people are worried about their appearance - you are not the only one!
• Many people say they like the “good person,” so whether you feel physically attractive or not, this can be another way to attract other people to you.
• Decide if appearance is what you want to focus on mostly. If you are trying to attract people who pay a lot of attention to their appearance, they will provide you with a lot of requirements to maintain your own appearance. For some, finding attractive people is more satisfying, but don't think of it as the only meaning of life.
• Ask for honest advice from those you trust for opinions about your appearance. But remember that their ideas about what is attractive may NOT be the same as yours. It is more helpful to decide what you want to change and then seek advice on how to do it. For example, if you want to be more athletic, talk to a fellow athlete to get physically active. If you want to get rid of the informal image, ask a friend who has already gone through this - he will probably be happy to help you!
• Spend time in social situations. Even if you overcome obstacles alone, just check the events, but do not force yourself to meet people or even talk to someone. Do household chores and check out hot hangouts or good places to meet people. After you have formed, you can return to the known landscape.

Warnings

• Seriously, don't try to become who you are not. Everyone is beautiful in their own way and you need to work with what you have.
• Anorexia and bulimia are serious conditions to be wary of. Health is attractive and an eating disorder is not healthy. If you have an eating disorder, see your doctor.

What do you need

• Motivation
• Confidence
• Personality (just be yourself!)