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It's awkward when you want to invite someone out of the house or from a home party. But don't worry, there are some delicate ways for you to handle this. In addition to hinting at the person that it's time for them to leave, you can also ask them to leave in person, but graciously. Remember to consider the situation and be mindful of others' feelings when deciding what to do.

Steps

Method 1 of 3: Suggestions

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   Suggest to move the party to another location. If you just want the guests to leave the house without being afraid to stay with them, you can suggest that everyone move to another place together. For example, you could ask people to "Let's go to the bar for a drink", or "Anyone want to go bowling?" Your friends will talk to each other and will eventually agree to the next point.
   • If you don't want to move to another location, you can say something like “Heard that the corner bar has special deals for guests every Thursday” or “Go have a drink to sleep well at night. people!" Hopefully your guests will understand and go away to party.

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   Pretend they are preparing to leave. When you want to end the party, you can say something like “Oh, we've been keeping you guys here until midnight! Now I have to clean up while you guys get home to rest! ” or “God you guys have been kidnapped here for a few hours! Surely everyone is tired, just want to go home to rest, right? " They probably won't object or insist on staying, so it's likely that you'll be released soon.

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   Mentioning the time with surprise. Deliberately looked at the clock in front of everyone and looked amazed. You can say, "Oh my God, it's already past midnight?" or "Oh my God, I don't know that 6 hours have passed!" These statements will prompt your friends to understand that it's time for them to disband.

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   Let your friends know you have a busy schedule. People are more likely to leave if you remind them that you have other duties and responsibilities. Say something like "I have a ton of clothes to wash before I go to bed," or "I have a lot of work to do tomorrow so I need to take a break. Hopefully they will understand your implications and decide to go.

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   Ask a close friend for help. If one of your best friends is also present, you can ask them to take the guests out of the house. Talk to your friend privately and let them know when everyone needs to go. When the time comes, your friend will get up, stretch, and announce that everyone is going out for dinner. Usually the rest of us will understand.
   • That friend might say, “Tonight was so fun! It's too late, I have to go. ”

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   Yawning constantly. Yawning is an indication that you are sleepy and want to close your night out. This suggestion is especially effective late at night, but during the day it is not very convincing. You can also appear sleepy or distracted to alert your guests that it is time for them to leave.

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   Pretend to be busy with household chores before going to bed. Clean the table or go to the kitchen to wash the dishes. You can also turn off music, blow out candles or turn off lights in rooms not being used. All of those moves will alert your guests it's time to end.

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   Pretend to be sick, such as a headache or a stomachache. If you don't mind resorting to harmless lies, this is very effective. However, you should only use this tactic when there is no other way, because frankly is still a better way. Almost nobody wants to get sick, so maybe they will quickly leave to avoid getting sick.
   • You can say, "Looks like I'm sick," or "I don't feel well. Can we get together tomorrow? ”
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Method 2 of 3: Ask people to leave

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   Make a joke about this dilemma. If your guests are jokes, say a joke to tell them it's time to disband, then laugh to show you are joking. Often people will pick up the signal and go home without waiting for you to repeat it.
   • For example, you could say "People don't have to go home, but you can't stay here!" Or you could also say, “Well, I'm going to sleep. Whenever you come back, please turn off the lights and lock the door for me! "

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   Ask if they need anything. Invite your guests for a final drink, any leftover food from the party, or a snack to take home to alert them that the fun is over. This will also make them feel like they've received a gift and won't be angry with you for being invited, even indirectly.
   • Tell them "Do you need anything else?" or "Would you like a bottle of water to drink along the way home?"

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   Inform guests that the party is over. If you're hosting a party or event and it's about time for the guests to leave, you can let everyone know that the time is up. Say “Sorry everyone, unfortunately the party is over! I had a great night and hope to see you again soon. ” This is a direct but polite and effective way of speaking.

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   Tell your roommate that you need your own space. If you share a room with another person and you have ownership or ownership of the lessor, you can ask them to move. Make a time to talk to them privately. Stay calm and consider their feelings.
   • You could say “We had a great time living together, but now is no longer appropriate. I'm sorry, but I have to ask you to move out. ”
   • If the tenant refuses to move, you may need to seek police assistance.

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   Explain to the occupier said that they were over the period. Inviting a friend or relative to stay home can be a difficult situation. Tell them the specific reasons why they have exceeded their deadlines.
   • You can say “We cannot afford to help you stay here any more” if you have to pay the person and they will not contribute to the cost of utilities and real purchases. Products.
   • If that person occupies a room in your house, say "Lan is in need of a private room", or "Anh Dung needs to use his office every day, and he can't do it here."

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   Offer to help people in thanks to find a new place to live. When asking people to move, you should also offer to help them find a place to move! For example, you can go online to find affordable room rental ads, or go with them to see properties they are interested in. advertisement

Method 3 of 3: Handle the situation well

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   Show knowledge and respect. The situation is quite sensitive, so do your best to not get angry at the person you are on. Avoid being sarcastic or acting rude with words like "Oh my God, don't you have anywhere else to go out?". Instead, say “We have been very happy during your time here. I hope I keep in touch. ” or “Thank you Ngoc for coming. Let's go have lunch together. "
   • Avoid offering to keep in touch or meet again if you really don't want to. In this case, simply say, "I'm sorry, but it's time for you to go."

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   Prepare them to be upset. Sometimes your guests can get angry when asked to leave, even though you said it gently. This is a risk that you must accept when you desperately need them out of the house. Remind them that you care about them and that this is not personal.
   • For example, say “This is not a personal matter, Giang. Tomorrow I'm busy all morning in the office. This weekend we meet to have a few drinks, what do you think? "
   • You can also say “Wow, I think you sound angry, but I don't mean anything. We agreed that you will be staying for a week, ten days already. I can help you find an apartment if you want. ”

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   Notice the time to leave before the event. You need to be clear from the outset about how long your guests stay. Enter a specific time in the invitation, such as "from 6 p.m. to 10 p.m.". If you invite by phone or in person, mention your departure time by saying something like, "We'll end the party at 9pm because Phuong has to go to the meeting early tomorrow morning."
   • Alternatively, when the guests come, you can say, "The party ends at 11:00 pm", or "We are busy tomorrow so the party won't last until late."
   • When dealing with occupants, make clear your intentions, such as “You can only stay with us for 2 weeks”, or “You need to arrange new accommodation before April 1” .

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   Don't fall for it when they ask. When you invite your guests out of the house, they may try to convince you to let them stay. However, if it is to the point that you can tell them frankly, then you clearly want them to leave. The occupant may ask to stay for a few more days, and the party guests may try to convince you that it is still early. Be definitive with your decision and repeat the request or give a reason if necessary. advertisement