Author:
Laura McKinney
Date Of Creation:
6 August 2021
Update Date:
1 July 2024
Content
You care about your girlfriend but worry that you haven't done the right way to show it. She doesn't look happy. Here are a few steps you can take to spice up your relationship and prove she's the most important person to you, regardless of whether you've been together for weeks or months. years.
Steps
Method 1 of 3: Take action every day
Straight. Don't assume your girlfriend knows your feelings for her. Be clear with her about your feelings. Ambiguity can create a feeling of uncertainty, and that can strain the relationship.
Ask her how things are going. You are her spiritual support, listen to everything she shares with you. Make her more comfortable by talking about the problems she is having. Sympathize with her, share joys and sorrows. This creates a strong bond between the two of you.
Listen. In a relationship, don't take the importance of listening lightly.- Even if what she says may seem boring, you should focus on listening because it is her concern.
- Learn to listen to her "implications" and figure out what you can do to help her.
- Listening shows you want to be a part of her life and helps you build trust
- In addition to listening, give her feedback on what she has to say. Join the conversation, but don't try to gain control.
Give a simple compliment. Always be sincere, because other people will feel a lie when you're not being honest.- Saying she looked full of life today.
- When she changes her hairstyle, compliment her on the change as well.
- Praise for the work she did in class / office.
- Be positive about the outfit she's wearing.
Trust her. If you don't trust your girlfriend, she won't trust you either. All good relationships are based on a solid foundation of belief.
- If she's hanging out with friends, don't call or text her every 20 minutes. Let her have fun without you.
- Avoid jealousy. Don't interrupt and defend when she's talking to other guys. Just because you are dating doesn't mean she can just chat with you.
Respect her. Always treat her with respect, even when you have a fight.
- Be respectful even when she's not around. Don't talk badly behind her.
- Frankly exchange any concerns with her. Do not chew on the problems you have, be frank, do not roll around.
- Respect her understanding. Don't assume she needs help with everything.
- Don't quench all of her ideas. Each individual is completely equal in a relationship.
- Never insult or abuse your girlfriend.
Method 2 of 3: Create a sweet surprise
Write a love note for her. A handwritten love note shows that you care enough to share your feelings with her. However, make sure it's a handwritten message; don't type it on the computer and print it on paper! Here are some suggestions for content:
- "I've been thinking about you all day ..."
- "I wish I could be with you now, but this message will do it for me ..."
- "I'm looking forward to seeing you again ..."
- Place your message in a place that generates strong emotions. Ideally, let her suddenly find the message. For example, if you know she has to read a few pages of books before class, you would put the message in the middle of those pages. If you live together, write a note on the bathroom mirror with soap, or put a note on her nightstand.
Don't forget to say that you love her because the moment you express your feelings will be deep in her mind.
Talk to her before going to bed. Call or text when she's getting ready for bed. This is a very important call to show your interest.
- This call is a way to tell her she's on your mind.
- She will think about you one last time before she falls asleep.
- In addition, she also has someone to talk to about her problems during the day, which is something that helps her sleep better.
Surprise her with candies.
- Chocolate comes in many varieties, from inexpensive to expensive. You don't need to empty your wallet, but avoid giving her just a regular bar of chocolate at the confectionery. Choose premium chocolates and remember that a little can be effective.
- Using imported confectionery is a "fancy" way to show your interest, and it's also fun to try. These items are not too expensive either.
- Bake some crackers. This shows your thoughtfulness as well as ingenuity in the kitchen.
- If she doesn't like candies, surprise her with her favorite snack.
Give her flowers. This is one of the traditional ways to show affection and is also very effective. The vibrant, vibrant and cheerful flowers are a meaningful spiritual gift. However, flowers can be very expensive, and should be saved for really important occasions.
- Most flower shops sell bouquets for flowers starting at 300,000 VND.
- If you know your girlfriend's favorite color or flower, talk to the florist and ask them to design a bouquet.
- If you can find wild flowers, you can pick them up and make your own into a bouquet for her. Just make sure you don't pick flowers in someone else's garden.
- If she has a bad day at the office, book her a flower delivery service. The service can be expensive, but show your care and she can show off to her co-workers.
- A single flower has the same effect as a bouquet. The most important thing is how you give flowers.
Give a simple gift. A surprise gift can change the mood of the day and can really help her understand how much you care. Some suggestions are as follows:
- Love gift vouchers. Give her vouchers to redeem for something you will do for her. Such as romantic dinners, going to the movies, you will hug and kiss her according to her request, etc.
- Accessories. Clothes can be expensive, but a lovely accessory can make a great gift without going out of business. Choose a hat, shawl or bag.
- A bottle of wine and a pair of glasses to drink.
Show affection when she least expects it. Take the action when she's not paying attention and you'll make a strong impression.
- Hiding behind while she's working and giving a surprise kiss.
- Give her one more hug before she goes to work or school.
- Pull her closer while walking together on a cold day.
- Hold her hand while walking in public.
Method 3 of 3: Go further
Get to know her family and friends. Do your best to get along and get along with these people. They are an important part of her life and you should show respect for them. This will let her know that you are serious about the relationship.
Plan a treasure hunt game. This is a fun afternoon activity, and your ideas and your plans will show you care for her.
- First, choose a treasure. You can have anything from jewelry to dinner out or something personal.
- Plan your search. Decide the duration of the treasure finding and where you want to host the game. Popular places for romantic treasure hunts include "where the two of you first met" or "the first place you two had dinner together".
- Write your messages. Place the first message where you know she will see it. Write something like this: "This is a little game for you, you can find your next message at".
- Don't make the quest too difficult, just have fun!
Prepare a meal for her. This is not just a date, it shows your cooking skills. Don't worry too much about messing up, the execution won't be as complicated as you might think.
- Plan your meals. Find a simple recipe that doesn't have too many steps. Try to time your preparations so that all the ingredients are ready at the same time.
- Make sure the meal is balanced. Extra veggies are needed and don't prepare a large serving.
- Pasta is a safe choice because it's easy to make and most people love to eat.
- The dining area must be cleaned before dinner. Light a candle or two and make sure the utensils are in place.
- Have dinner with a bottle of wine that fits your budget if you are old enough to drink.
Give her a multi-track compilation CD or a playlist.
- The making of the CD is inspired by the compilation of previous music tapes. Mostly, you'll burn songs she likes and songs that show how you feel about her. Music often leaves a profound effect on memories and a unique compilation music CD will give a lasting impression.
- Creates continuous playlist. The goal is for her to listen from beginning to end without getting bored or moving on to another song.Make sure that the first song catches her attention and that the songs that follow go on naturally.
- Most music software lets you burn your content to a CD. See how to burn a CD for specific instructions.
- If she uses a service like iTunes or Spotify, you will create a playlist on it and share it with her. That way, you can create a playlist longer than the CD allows, but since this is an intangible gift, it reduces the level of specialness.
Plan a picnic. Similar to cooking meals, planning a picnic shows that you care about her and are thoughtful.
- Make sure the weather is good. Weather forecast is always changing; therefore, be prepared to change plans if it rains heavily the day before your picnic.
- Prepare a snack. A picnic needs to feel light and airy, so food needs that feeling as well. Prepare sandwiches, cut some fruit and add a packet of crackers. Make a little lemon tea as a drink.
- The picnic must be held somewhere interesting. Depending on where you live, it's best to look for a place with a nice natural view. River banks, beaches, and lawns are ideal places for picnics. Find the place first and choose a quiet place.
