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• Steps
• Advice
• Warning

Lack of loyalty in a relationship is what destroys each other's trust. If you are going to cheat on that person, whether you think things are going to work out or not, you should first think carefully whether you want to keep this love. Maybe you have fallen in love with this person, or you are not preoccupied with a monogamous relationship at the moment; Either way, the best thing you can do now is break up with your crush before cheating on them. However, if you've really decided to cheat, here are steps you can take to both conceal your behavior and distract the person if they suspect it.

Steps

Part 1 of 2: Keeping the affair a secret

1. 

   Think carefully about deceiving the person. People often have many reasons for cheating: being angry with their spouse, feeling caught up in a relationship they aren't ready for, or the relationship is old and boring, or simply let out. get rid of troubles that are not related to "official" love. However, there are many consequences that deception can have.
   • You may think that you hide everything; even if that is the case, studies have shown that cheating on others gives you a high degree of shame and guilt for your behavior.
   • Although many couples can solve problems together when an affair comes to light, many other couples have broken up due to a loss of trust in each other.
   • Most importantly, you should consider the suffering that person has suffered when you find out that you are having an affair. If you are not willing to accept your role in the pain, stop deceiving them.
   • The trauma of an affair can haunt a person in their future relationships, negatively affecting their ability to find happiness even after leaving you.
   • When your actions are exposed, you will most likely lose the respect of friends and family, and that is a very tragic consequence. Try to live up to the expectations that people have for you.
   • If you are truly unhappy with your current relationship, talk frankly with your ex to improve the situation together or end things so that you can fall in love with someone else.
   • However, if you still have the intention of "opening up", you should consider the points written below.

2. 

   
   
   Create a new email address. One of the easiest and most dumb ways to expose an affair is to leave evidence in accessible places.
   • Create a new email address for third-party communications only. Do not tell anyone about it, nor use it for anything other than the love out there.
   • If you use this email address as a secondary account to receive news or spam, everything will be too normal. You should be a bit cautious when using this account.
   • This way, you will remember to log out after each use of it.
   • Only write to third parties through this account, never use your primary account.
   • Always keep your primary email account logged in on your computer as usual, so a second person will be able to access it when they feel suspicious and start searching for clues. They won't find anything there.

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   Delete browsing history - but only partially delete. Every time you do something online that involves a third person, take a moment to clear the browsing history of those things. Remember that this applies to things other than your fake email address; you should do this for every third-party website, such as websites that specialize in a restaurant you are meeting with, a map of directions to a park you plan to join. to, hotel reservation pages, and so on.
   • Don't delete the entire browser history because it looks suspicious - no one leaves browser history plain.
   • Instead, browse through your web history and manually remove suspicious websites as soon as you're done with them.

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   Use your browser's "private" / "incognito" mode. The best way to make sure you don't accidentally miss something is to use the "private" or "anonymous" browser mode when doing things you don't want to be caught up with.
   • If you use a popular browser, chances are they already have a privacy mode available for you. Safari, Chrome, Firefox, Opera and Explorer all allow you to surf the web without taking any traces of your computer.
   • Websites still get your IP address when you visit. As a result, you will still see advertisements that are presented to you based on your "private" surfing sessions.
   • To avoid being denounced by those ads, make sure you turn off all private windows when you're done. This will remove any cookies that bring suspicious advertisements.

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   Cell phone lock. If your phone is already locked and the person doesn't know the code to unlock, you're safe. However, if your phone is unlocked, or if the person knows the code, you will need to reinforce the security level of the phone.
   • Come up with a plausible and plausible explanation for the sudden lockout. You could say that someone at work turned on the phone and found out about their private pictures, or they sent a collective message to everyone on their contact list.
   • If that person knows your unlock code, it's suspicious if you suddenly ask for privacy. Don't try to change your password, but don't use your phone for suspicious activities either.
   • If you need to contact a third person by phone, use your private browser to log into your "cheating" email account. Remember to log out and close the private browsing window to clear all cookies when you're done.

6. 

   Use the phone to the minimum. If the person sees a spike in the number of calls or texts to a third party's phone number, they will be suspicious. Make short calls and text only when needed. Most communications should be done through that secret email account.

7. 

   Buy a prepaid cell phone. A prepaid mobile phone will allow you to communicate with your lover comfortably without the bill being shown on the monthly bill. However, this is quite risky when the second person encounters you with a strange and secret phone.
   • If you have a prepaid cell phone, be extra careful not to get caught.
   • Prepare an excuse in advance to be prepared to find out. You could tell that it was a colleague's phone left behind at the company that you hadn't brought over to their house on the way home.

8. 

   Don't use your credit card to pay for shady things. Any suspicious expenses such as hotel rooms, trips out of the city will be shown on the monthly statement. Suspiciously large fees like dinner for two at a fine restaurant can also be noticeable. Every time you make a purchase without anyone looking for it, use cash instead of a credit card to avoid documenting evidence.

9. 

   Buy separate birth control devices. There is no reason why the number of condoms or other contraceptive devices fluctuates erratically in monogamous marriage. Missing or excess condoms are all very dangerous signs. The contraceptive devices you use in the airflow must be kept separate from the devices you use from your "home".
   • Buy a separate condom when you sleep with your lover.
   • Buy small packages of condoms or buy them individually instead of using the whole box, so you won't be found having condoms in your car.
   • Throw away unused condoms before going home instead of storing them somewhere.
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Part 2 of 2: Quit doubting

1. 

   Laugh out loud when they suspect rather than get angry. When you get angry, you are showing that you are reacting negatively to your partner's accusations rather than looking bewildered. Anger quickly turns into an argument, and arguing will last forever and keep people warm.You need to avoid bringing nagging negative memories into debates like this, and it's best not to escalate the tension.
   • Don't laugh in a mean way, and don't make fun of the person for suspecting you.
   • Just act surprised or bewildered when you hear them, as if you didn't expect your behavior to make the person suspicious.

2. 

   Talk to them about your suspicions. After your indifferent reaction, don't avoid talking to the person, as it will make you feel like you are not taking their feelings seriously. Warmth can also be persistent and tiring, so you should resolve the problem right away.
   • Tell them that you are sorry that they were feeling that way and that you did not know that you were making them very uncomfortable.
   • Allow them to voice their doubts and be a good listener - don't interrupt or become defensive.
   • Pay attention to their specific suspicions as they will help you figure out where you went wrong.

3. 

   Promise that you will work hard to build trust. A good spouse feels bad for making the other person nervous, so reassure them that even if nothing is worrying, you will still work hard to notice them.

4. 

   Change in some suspicious behavior. If you let the other person tell the truth, they may come up with a specific list of what they are concerned about your actions. If you change your behavior without notice, they'll become even more suspicious. However, if you openly talk to them about your promise to change your behavior, they will see the changes in you as an attempt to improve the relationship.
   • Enthusiasm to completely change your behavior will make you feel like you are acting or have something to hide. Don't change too drastically.
   • You only need to make enough changes to show that you are trying to maintain trust in the relationship.

5. 

   End of adultery or temporarily stop. If the second person can't get rid of your doubts, maybe it's time to stop the affair, or at least temporarily stop working until the danger is over. Even if you have discussed your ex's fears, even if you have made a promise to make them feel more secure, he or she may still be suspicious of you. Don't take unnecessary risk. advertisement

Advice

• After all, the best way to stay undetected is to not cheat in the first place. Remember, if you can't be honest, you may be suited for an uncommitted love lifestyle or more open relationships.

Warning

• Lack of loyalty will cause a relationship to break down. If you want to stay with your spouse, don't cheat on them.
• Adultery would seriously jeopardize the person's feelings if they caught it. Chances are you don't really "hate" the person. If you cannot think of them, instead of cheating, you should end the marriage when you no longer feel happy.
• The shock of your affair can haunt your partner in their future relationships. Don't ruin their beliefs. Getting through a breakup is still easier than being betrayed.
• Even if you are still together after the affair, you will have to do a lot to rebuild your trust. This relationship will likely never be the same again.