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It is normal to have a crush on someone. Getting to know the person and making them like it again takes a lot of effort. You cannot force someone to love you, love is very wonderful. However, there are a few ways you can increase your chances of getting someone you like to love you too.

Steps

Method 1 of 3: Communicate with the person

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   Talk to the other person. Talking is a great way to get to know the person and see if they share the same interests as you. Starting a little conversation or gossip can also tell if they like you. Don't be too hasty, keep the story interesting.
   • Communicate with them regularly, but occasionally talk about more serious topics or have longer conversations. If the story naturally deepens, when the two begin to share a dream or secret, the two will bond. Listen to them more, respond enthusiastically, don't just chatter about yourself.
   • Dose, eat more. Consider when the time is ripe, you can tell your ex how you are feeling. Roll all the cards you have, but make sure there are only two of them at the time and make everything as natural as possible.
   • Try to join a group if you are in the same school. Laugh at them often, but don't push too hard, just make them smile back and come to you. Ask for Instagram, Snapchat, or Facebook because it will be less obvious than asking for a phone number, but also know more details about them.

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   Send flirting signals to the person, and see how they react. Turn on verbal or body language signals. These signs will let the person understand (unconsciously or intentionally) that you like them, and may make them more or less vibrate.
   • Give small hints through body language. This can happen on its own. Watch for signs from what the person is doing. Open your heart and don't be afraid to show them your fragile side. Quietly let the person know how special they are.
   • Laugh a lot. Show off swinging a little. Call out their names because people love to hear their names. Praise the person. Don't forget to be kind and play nice with them.
   • Touch the person in a flirtatious fashion, but not a pervert. Touch their arm that shows you like them, but doesn't make them think you want to date. Just lightly touch the person's shoulder, or pound each other's hands, even hug goodbye. Biting his lips, grinning shyly when poked at him, stroking his hair (always effective) and blinking more than usual.

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   Make eye contact. Let's make it natural. Getting someone's attention is not easy, nor is it easy to keep that attention. If you want someone to remember you, use eye contact, but don't look too long. This game is like playing with a pet, you swing, swing the toy back and forth to attract their attention.
   • This doesn't mean you should constantly stare at the other person. That looks terrifying. To make eye contact with someone you like, glance at them, smile, then lower your head or shyly look away. This will help the person feel like you like them without scare them.
   • Eye contact also shows confidence, which is an attractive feature for most people because it is a way to build intimate relationships. Research shows that people who love each other often make eye contact.
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Method 2 of 3: Interacting with the person

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   Build friendship with them and appearing with them more. Moving from a friend or close friend to a lover after a while is normal. Knowing the person's interests, hobbies and dislikes boost their chances of being a lover.
   • Talk to them like a friend first. If you approach your crush as someone who secretly loves them, they will only see you as someone planting a tree. This will create problems if they avoid wanting to get to know you and thus fail to see the lovely spots in you. Be friends first, then follow them later.
   • Try to make them comfortable with you, by communicating. Get to know them and let them get to know you (your interests and dislikes, for example). This will help you both understand each other's harmony.

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   Spend more time with them. Go out with someone you like. No need to go out separately, but invite a friend or two to go to the park or play video games or do something. This way, you can meet and interact with the person in the most natural way.
   • Join activities together. The more you interact with each other, the more they think of you, extremely understandable.
   • But you can also invite your ex with you to do something two-to-one, like playing a sport or watching a movie. Find out what the person likes and recommend them.

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   Don't rush too fast and too far. In addition to forced unhappy relationships, pushing things too quickly and far away can ruin a nascent bond and possibly lose friendships. Please be patient!
   • Clinging is the thing people hate the most in a relationship. Give your partner some space and let the relationship develop naturally.
   • Don't follow people. Not only is it indecent, but it's illegal, and it's not as effective as getting them to like you. Do not flirt uncontrollably, listen to everything about the other party. Don't try to appear continuously by their side. If they didn't like you, these actions will only make them more disinterested.
   • Going out together, having fun talking. If the two of you are for each other, the need will come. Otherwise, the ocean is still full of fish. Don't try to make them love you, love is not the game.

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   Be someone they can rely on. It is said that a beautiful love encompasses a beautiful friendship. You have to understand the person and he will understand it for you too. More important is to make them trust and reach you when needed.
   • Help the person when they need it and be there for them at the right time. Focus on what they need and want. If the person you like to forget about lunch, you can treat them to a snack or share your meal, they will appreciate the kindness and kindness.
   • Make them a priority and be there when they really need it. Be a kind person they can count on because you can always do what you say. Be firm, don't forget to make the person feel good about themselves.

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   Learn about the other's interests. Pay attention to the things they like, for example the person you love sports, then watch many sports programs so that when they talk about the topic, you can still understand.
   • If the person likes old songs, ask what their favorite song is. Then listen to the song and find more similar songs they might like.
   • Be yourself when you are with that person, and see how it will be. Remember, even if you pay attention to what the person likes and dislikes, and you care about their feelings, you shouldn't take in all the hobbies you find bored.
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Method 3 of 3: Focus on yourself

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   Dress better for that person but also keep your inherent identity. Be honest with yourself and think: How neat and caring do you look? Do you take good care of your body? Don't be too self-centered and selfish, but look a little nicer.
   • Have a fashion sense. You don't have to be a fashion star, but keep up to date and be up-to-date, which will capture the person's eye. Wearing a fresh look won't hurt anyone. You can choose a fixed date to show off a bit, but feel free to go overboard.
   • Look decent and friendly. If you dress dirty and plain, the person won't want to talk to you. If you're shopping for something to add to your closet, make sure it's your style. Find outfits that match your personality but also highlight your best spots.
   • Make sure you are fragrant and clean. You may want to spray some fragrant oil on it. Look for a distinct smell. Anointing perfume, deodorizing, brushing and chewing gum.

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   Laugh a lot and keep a positive attitude. People want to be with the happy ones, not the negative naggers. Attitude determines everything.
   • Your crush may be kind to you if you open up, smile and greet them warmly, whether it's waving or laughing mischievously. Being happy when you meet them, but not too happy will make them think you are following them. Animals treat humans like that. They are happier seeing you, and people are happier seeing them. Humans even look forward to meeting their pets. This really works.
   • Be kind and don't speak badly of others. His cane hit his back because someone you liked could see how you treated people. Ego and arrogance are not appealing at all. Connect yourself to more positive things.

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   Be confident in yourself. Don't change into someone else or make excuses. Most people don't like people who turn themselves into someone else and that makes them bored. Humans like a little bit of mystery and confidence.
   • Having a private life isn't just about that person. That will make you more excited. Don't forget to look cool but also interesting. The more interesting you are, the more fun you evoke.
   • Whether it's for a sharp look or a response, look strong. Learn yourself, show your personality.
   • It is not worth changing yourself for the person you like. Usually those crushes last about a month, and then someone better will appear before your eyes. If someone wins over that person, you don't need to be angry.
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Advice

• Make fun of them, but don't go too far.
• Step out of his snail shell. Become more comfortable with the person you like, and be yourself!
• Absolutely NOT follow them around school, especially if they are with friends and do not appear to want to talk to you. That makes you look annoying and sometimes weird.
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• Make sure you really like the person. How well do you know them? Take the time to find out who they are.
• Do not always be with them. Humans like the feeling of chasing a bit.
• Be confident and beautiful
• Know when to give up. Remind yourself: you cannot force someone to love you. In fact, the more stubborn you are, the less likely that person will respond to you.
• Don't cross your arms. That gesture will make you look unfriendly.
• Always smiling and happy, your ex will feel the energy you radiate.