Content

• Steps
• Method 1 of 3: Take the Appropriate Action
• Method 2 of 3: Control Excessive Jealousy
• Method 3 of 3: Enjoy the attention
• Tips
• Warnings

Demonstrating attraction to each other between a man and a woman is a natural part of everyday life. It has always been and will be so. But if your wife is very attractive and you are tired of the constant attention that other guys surround her, then there are many ways to fix this problem.

Steps

Method 1 of 3: Take the Appropriate Action

1. 1 Ask your wife for her opinion. It is necessary to attach importance to what your woman thinks about the current situation, and understand how this affects her directly. If she is tired of prying eyes, then in this case, you should discuss the possibility of your interfering in the conversation and conducting the discussion on her behalf.
   • If you have raised this issue in the past, then you know exactly what your wife thinks about the attention she is receiving. Therefore, in this case, make a decision in advance about your possible reaction, so as not to go too far.
   • If the wife doesn't acknowledge the problem, then she may not really be there, so try to just enjoy the time together.
2. 2 Come closer to her. Holding hands, demonstrate to everyone around you that you are a couple. So you show others that this woman is not just a friend to you.
   • Showing affection with a kiss on the lips is a great way to demonstrate that you are in a relationship.
   • Surely your wife is proud of you and appreciates every manifestation of your feelings, letting other people know that you are together. The same goes for the situation when someone is staring at you and you want to demonstrate that you are already in a relationship. This trick works in both cases.
3. 3 Flaunt your wedding rings. Sometimes, when a man finds a woman attractive, he does not take the time to pay attention to the ring finger, because he is completely absorbed in her beauty. If you personally, your wife, or both of you show off your wedding rings, then this will remove all questions about marital status.
4. 4 Use eye contact. Let the other guys know that you've noticed the way they glance at your wife. If you are, for example, in a restaurant, take a close look at the person who is staring at your wife in order to demonstrate to him that he does not accept such actions on his part, which cause obvious discomfort.
   • Another way to make eye contact is to look straight into your wife's eyes to demonstrate a bond between you that no external factor can break. Also, this approach can be used in case of signs of attention from an unwanted fan who has laid eyes on you.
5. 5 Demand respect for yourself. Politely ask the troublemaker to stop staring at your wife. Tell him that you will be grateful if he shows a little respect for you and your spouse. Most decent people will stop staring right away.
   • Encourage her to express her opinion to the person who is looking at her, but only if she herself intends to speak. Your wife can do this without unnecessary scenes, easily explaining that she is already busy.
   • If you are still worried about attention to your wife from a stranger, then you should discuss your inability to protect from such signs of attention and ask for support from her.
6. 6 Laugh at this together. As in many situations in life, having a sense of humor will always come in handy. Sometimes you just need to laugh it off and understand the inconsistency of the very idea that your spouse could even remotely show interest in other men.

Method 2 of 3: Control Excessive Jealousy

1. 1 Apply self-control. Proper management of any impulses of jealousy or possessiveness that a person experiences will help prevent unnecessary drama. Before you say or do anything, make a decision never to allow a situation in which the other person's actions will negatively affect you.
   • Sometimes the inability to maintain control over your feelings is the result of experiences when you could not fully trust your partner. If you are deceived once, you will be afraid that this will happen again, and this will lead to the emergence of feelings of jealousy. Try to realize that what happened is in the past, and that is why jealousy is not justified in this situation.
2. 2 Trust your wife. By reacting to the actions of another person who is staring at your wife, you demonstrate a lack of trust in her, as well as low self-esteem and weak self-esteem. Do not let the views of others influence you, as this will show that you trust your spouse and do not perceive other men as a threat. Remember that she decided to marry you, and she probably has an emotional connection with you that she does not share with anyone else.
   • By building a relationship based on love, trust, and respect, you can smooth out feelings of jealousy and maintain self-control when someone glances at your spouse. You must trust that she will not do anything to break your bond, and know that everything that happens between you is something special.
   • Most wedding vows involve “giving up others,” so remember that this woman has dedicated herself entirely to you, and that means a lot to her.
3. 3 Show self-confidence. Whether it's a firm gait or correct posture, confidently stepping into a room can eliminate a potential problem, as all bystanders will know they can't compete with you.
   • Sometimes feelings of inferiority cultivate possessiveness, because you want to completely control the person so that they don't have the opportunity to break up with you. Self-confidence will reduce the need for control.
   • To build confidence, you need to make a list of all the qualities that you like about yourself, and supplement it with those for which your wife loves you. This exercise will remind you that you are a great guy, however.
4. 4 Show discretion. It's not uncommon for a man to admire a woman. There may have been times when you yourself watched an attractive stranger and caught yourself staring at her. It's reasonable to expect your pretty wife to have fans, but that doesn't mean any of them will give vent to their feelings.
5. 5 Ignore it. Noticing a guy who glances at your wife, it is difficult to understand what kind of person you are dealing with. He may have anger management problems or be known to be aggressive, which can eventually lead to conflict. So instead of getting upset or jealous, just ignore him. You cannot influence the actions of other people, but you can change your reaction to other people's actions.

Method 3 of 3: Enjoy the attention

1. 1 Recognize your wife's beauty. Make sure she gets enough of this kind of attention from you. If you don't, then someone else will express their admiration for your spouse.
   • Be sure to take into account the fact that in addition to its stunning appearance, it has other important features.
   • If a woman likes to hear words of admiration for her appearance, then your intervention may be perceived negatively.
2. 2 Enjoy your wife's youth. Over the years, the appearance of women changes. This does not mean that your wife will stop being attractive, but it does mean that she will not receive this kind of attention forever.

Tips

• If you know for sure that your wife does not like attention, then you should protect her from scrutiny from people who are socially dangerous from her point of view.
• Say that she herself encourages men to look at her and it worries you if your wife dresses seductively or provocatively. This allows your spouse to make her own decision whether she wants to change her dress or change her outfit to a slightly more conservative one. In addition, it will not at all look like you are trying to prevent a woman from showing her dignity.

Warnings

• Just leave this place if you decide to ask the other guy to stop staring at your wife, and he continues to do so. You should not escalate the situation or get angry, as this provokes the emergence of a verbal skirmish, which can be avoided and which you can regret in the future. Always try to defuse the situation before it escalates.
• Do not under any circumstances provoke a quarrel or fight.
• You will look like a weak and petty person if such a trifle can throw you off balance. A "correct" wife probably knows how to calm her man down so that he does not feel threatened by another person.