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Oral sex (or talking dirty, obscene) is a fun way to better connect with your partner in the bedroom. To practice this skill, just get into the habit of having a more open-minded conversation each time you go to bed. Speak provocatively about your movements while you are having sex. By practicing oral sex with your partner, you will soon be able to increase the intimacy and emotion between the two of you in the bedroom.

Steps

Part 1 of 3: Starting a prostitute

1. 

   Adjust the voice. Before you practice, think about adjusting your voice a little to better match the evocative type of talk. Try to speak a little slower and softer. Don't use the same tone as when asking your lover to take out the trash, but find sexy words in the bedroom.
   • According to a study by Albright University, trying to adjust the voice to be sexier seems to be more appropriate for women than for men. So for men, it's better to speak naturally.
   • Don't expect to be able to perfectly verbal the first time you practice. Let's experiment with this kind of talk. The more you practice, the easier and more comfortable you feel.

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   Start with soft sounds. Before you practice the full-blown oral sex style, practice letting out moans or sighs of relief to show your euphoria. Perhaps you've done these actions before, if so great. If not, get used to the use of voice and body in the bedroom.
   • Encourage your partner to make a sound if they haven't already; You shouldn't be the only one who makes whine sounds or pleasure.

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   Praise partner a little bit. Get started in moderation. Just say he looks cool or his bed skills are great. Say something like, "You look so cool without a shirt" or "It's great to be with you tonight." You can compliment a part of his body like "Your hands are toned" or "Your legs are muscular." Make your partner feel attractive and expected.

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   Start with a gentle lust style. Going a step further with gentle lust-style, but that doesn't mean you have to say something too lewd. Just say how comfortable and excited you are in a relatively gentle way. Here are some things to try:
   • "I want you so much."
   • "All day I just wanted to do it with you."
   • "The smell of your body is so hot."
   • "I've been looking forward to this moment for a long time."
   • "You look so charming now."
   • "I've always known how to excite me."

5. 

   Don't think it's a show. It will be easy to feel pressure and embarrassment when taking a sex off if you consider it a performance. There is no such thing as false, but it must be the expression of your true feelings. Don't say anything you don't want to say, don't say anything that upsets you, and don't use words that you don't feel comfortable with.

Part 2 of 3: Practicing sex more specifically

1. 

   Please say "I like my sister very much". This is the perfect recipe for arousing desire. There are many verbs and body parts that you can put into your sentence structure to make the person want. Here are some light-hearted examples, but as you can imagine, the others are more perverse:
   • "I really like you to kiss my neck."
   • "I really like you to touch my thighs."
   • "I really like you to lick my ear."
   • "I really like you to stroke my back."
   • Of course, you can always change the way you want to speak. For example, these sentences can be easily expressed in another way such as "If you come in, I like it very much".

2. 

   Practice direct commentary. Describe what was going on while you were having sex. Imagine you are a sports commentator in bed, in which only you and your partner are participating. Say "I like you (do something)" or "You (do something) make me love it" to increase pleasure in what happens next. Talking about what's going on while the two of you are in action will double your pleasure. Here are some things you can say:
   • "I like to sit on you."
   • "I like watching you take off your shirt."
   • "I like kissing your neck."
   • "I like to undress in front of you."

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   Ask if your partner likes what you're doing. While stroking and cuddling your partner, ask if he likes what you do. Don't just ask over and over again, "Do you like that?" Instead, change your sentences and be more specific, asking if he or she likes exactly what you are doing for them. Here are some things you can say:
   • "Do you like me to touch there?"
   • "Do you like me to kiss there?"
   • "Do you like the feeling when I claw there?"

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   Speak out how you feel. Don't be afraid to let your partner know how much they're making you feel like. Just a simple sentence "I'm so happy" can also have a huge effect. Your lover will be excited just by hearing you say it. You can talk more specifically about how you feel, even mention a private part to emphasize.

5. 

   Continuously change the sentences. To make sex work work, remember to refresh everything with fresh phrases to evoke your partner.Don't just use one technique - try to make use of every single technique if it gets you excited. Try to be as specific as possible when you want to refresh your speech.
   • Don't just say something great - say what part of your body feels great. If you feel your whole body shaking with pleasure, let him know.

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   Reveal your odd thoughts. Disclosing odd desires is the best way to have sex. Let your partner know your weirdest sexual desires, and see if he or she can accommodate it. If you and your partner are really comfortable with each other then go ahead. Tell them everything you wanted and see how excited it was.
   • Proceed with caution. If your thoughts are really weird, then you should consider making sure you and your partner are really comfortable with each other before expressing that profound thought.

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   Indicate when orgasm is coming. Just let your partner know that you are about to have an orgasm or that you feel like you are going to climax, and you'll both be more excited. This will increase your pleasure and make you both feel more excited when it happens.

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   Order your lover. Don't be afraid to give orders to your partner when you get into bed. Let her know what you want her to do for you and be the boss so that she can satisfy your wishes. You can simply say something like this: "Take off your shirt" or "Take off your pants" and give a more detailed order when the two of you start making love.
   • Don't be afraid to be a bit aggressive. Be the boss and let your lover know exactly what you want them to do.
   • You can take turns giving orders. After being the boss for a while, you begin to submit to do what your lover wants.

Part 3 of 3: The smart way to rape

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   Make sure both of you are comfortable with sex. Although sex is an attractive part of many couples' sex life, not everyone accepts it. If your partner doesn't like it, don't force it. If you force them, they'll get angry instead of feeling excited.
   • It's fine if your partner likes to hear rape but isn't comfortable talking again. Of course, if you only like sex when you are talking, then you better forget about it. However, it is perfectly acceptable to have sex in the bedroom even if only one of the two people speak.

2. 

   Discuss limits. You might not sit down and talk about your expectations in this matter before trying, but you should set a limit. Maybe you will randomly rape the first time, but at a certain point you should be clear about what words make you or her uncomfortable.
   • If your partner says something rude or offensive while in love, don't stop or get angry. Just say, "Don't say that next time". If they don't understand what you mean, you can stop the fun.
   • If you are afraid to admit to a word that makes you uncomfortable during sex, you can say it after it is done. Just your lover understands what you mean.

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   Don't confuse sex games with life outside the bedroom. Remember that the things you and your partner say to each other in bed are part of the sex game, and cannot be taken seriously in real life. If he / she lets you say something to them in bed or calls them something, this "no" means they accept the word when they get out of bed.
   • You and your partner can play a role when it comes to sex in bed. This is "no" to mean that the roles are a reflection of your true role in the relationship.

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   Choose your words wisely. Use your intuition and avoid using words that can offend other people until you have set boundaries, what you like and dislike when it comes to sex. Start slowly and at first you should follow his / her lead to understand what is right for them. You shouldn't be distracted by saying something that offends or demeans them.

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   Watch adult movies to find ideas for lust. If you want to have sex but have no idea, you can watch adult movies to see what people often say to each other in bed. Of course, the way the lust in movies can be too heavy for what you can think of for your bed movements, but it should give you ideas.
   • If you two feel good, you can watch adult movies together. It will give you good ideas on this topic and get you both excited. You can comment on the words the actor used.

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   Talk your way. Even though lust is part of the sex game and doesn't reflect reality, you should still be yourself. You should say it your own way, just like the bad version of you. Speaking in your own words will help you feel more comfortable, and you will have a chance to explore your sexual potential.

Advice

• Oral sex is not difficult. Start simply by thinking about the parts you like about your partner, then tell him exactly what you think. That is a good start to a hotter ending!
• Remember, it only works if you are both attractive to each other. Using verbal sex to flirt makes you look like a pervert.
• Can't find words to say or still feel uncomfortable about rape? Talking "dirty" does not necessarily have the word "obscene". Just groan or gasp to let the person know how you feel, or try saying something as simple as "Oh, I love it!". Let the emotion in your voice do the rest.