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Dating with bisexual people is quite scary. They have always solicited everybody? Will they leave you when they realize what they really want? Actually, these are not true when first exposed to this type of person. Dating with bisexuals is like dating a Catholic, a racing driver, or someone with dark skin. Hence this is not a big deal. Read the article below to dispel any worries and relax in a relationship.

Steps

Method 1 of 2: Get to know your partner

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   Understand that many bisexual people aren't just inclined to a relationship with people of one gender over another. Many of them, even married, can switch depending on their feelings. When you're in a serious relationship with bisexuals, you should be prepared to accept that they are attracted to someone of another gender, just as heterosexuals or homosexuals are attracted to someone who belongs one gender. Bear in mind that if this person recently dated you, this is because they are attracted to someone special like you.
   • Even though bisexuals like both sexes, this doesn't mean they are attracted to everyone. They have the same limits and standards as anyone else. So you shouldn't ask the other person "like having sex with men or women." If you are in a relationship with them, always make sure they like "you."

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   Respect for your androgynous personality is part of the person of your partner. Most bisexual people identify themselves as being androgynous, no matter who they are dating now. Do not assume that they are heterosexual when having a relationship with someone of the opposite sex, or that they are homosexual if you are acquainted with someone of the same sex.
   • So don't ask your partner if they are attracted to anyone they come into contact with. Instead, accept the person they are if you want to stay in the relationship.
   • Some people make a distinction between bias and behavior. Their penchant for hermaphrodite, but the behavior (at least currently) is heterosexual or homosexual. This is normal and belongs to a diverse distribution of sexual orientation.

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   Realize that a bisexual is not "in transition."Not long ago, homosexuality was not socially accepted. Therefore, many homosexuals try to simplify the disclosure of their true gender by admitting they are bisexual, so they are dealing with This has been a problem for real bisexuals, as homosexuals change the notion of bisexual as a transition from bisexual to fully homosexual. However, the reality is not so. Indeed, there are some people in transition, slowly realizing (or letting themselves realize) that they are homosexual. to be yourself and know that they are bisexual without a doubt.
   • It is common to worry about the other person "becoming" gay or "heterosexual." While this can happen, it should not be thought that it always is. They care about you right now, and that's great.

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   Know that a bisexual is not a bisexual. They are like ordinary people. Homosexuals (and bisexual people in this group) are often thought to have multiple sex partners. Most of the time it is true; Many gay and bisexual people have relationships with many people. However, heterosexual people are no exception. It is not about sexual orientation, but human personality. The androgynous character is not a matter of having multiple partners or being loyal to one person or any individual.
   • Many gay and bisexual people in the past were unable to express their feelings, otherwise people would reject them. Now society is more open, so some people try to replace the "lost time" after revealing their true gender. At last a new world opened before their eyes. Don't you want to take advantage of this opportunity? Although the promiscuity has nothing to do with sexual orientation, they can be caused by being held back for a long time.
   • If your partner is unfaithful, it's because of their personality, not their sexual orientation. A person with good morals will not deceive you whether they are bisexual, gay or heterosexual.

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   Understand that bisexual people are not hesitant, unreliable, or unclear. Most people think that they just want to have fun, are not sensitive, or are immature and selfish, so we cannot believe it. These are completely not true. Bisexuals are heterosexuals, not intentionally, but just attracted by the sexes.
   • The sexual orientation that determines people is an outdated concept. Many homosexuals use their sexual orientation to shape people and develop their personalities, but the social notion of the nature of sexual orientation is not the right thing. Liking a man or a woman or both is part of who you are, but it's just like having brown hair or two arms. This is not a big deal, but simply a hobby. Some people like sweet, others like salty, hot, or spicy, men, women, or both. This phenomenon should not be exaggerated. Focus on the things you enjoy about the other party and the fun of being together.

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   Know that bisexuals can also be loyal to a partner. People who are considered androgynous are often attracted to two sexes, but this doesn't mean they need to be with a man. and a woman at the same time. Just like heterosexuals or homosexuals, most bisexual people want to be faithful to their partner. They can marry people of any gender.
   • A woman married to a man is not necessarily heterosexual, and so marrying a woman does not mean she is gay. Your partner is someone they love and may not be gender-related.
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Method 2 of 2: Strengthening the relationship

1. 

   Building a serious relationship with your partner is the same as it would for others, regardless of their gender or sexual orientation. Understand that if they like someone else or are of the same sex as you, they are not cheat on you. The same is true for heterosexuals or homosexuals who are attracted to people of the same sex. Remember that your ex likes you because you are special, and once you understand that he or she wants to stay in the relationship, you will be able to build a stronger relationship.
   • In a serious relationship, a spouse is not only a lover, but also a good and trustworthy friend. If not, you should not enter into this relationship. Bear in mind that this is no different from heterosexuals who always like the opposite sex, but they choose to come with you over others they like.

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   Don't let jealousy affect a relationship. Of course the world is very open and brings many opportunities together. However this is only one part. They still have their own set of standards, and bisexual people have many choices than to like both men and women, just like you are one of them.
   • And of course don't let your sexual orientation affect your perception. Don't try to be more masculine or feminine. At first you show who you really are, and still be yourself. They like both sexes doesn't mean they want both at the same time.

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   Don't let fear spoil a relationship's potential. If you are heterosexual and are dating bisexual people, don't fret about them in the transition to homosexuality. And if you are gay and are in a relationship with bisexual people, you shouldn't be afraid that they are "going through a special period." They want to date you, and won't suddenly become gay or heterosexual. There is no reason to be afraid.
   • Sometimes you will get in trouble if you try to find them. If you don't trust your partner, they may find out. Then a good relationship can be broken if you do. You should relax and any fears are just fantasy.

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   Maintaining a healthy relationship with someone special is the same as with anyone you like or even to love. Be honest, open, and share your thoughts with them. When there is a conflict, you should forgive and tell the truth. Learn how to appreciate the other party instead of lashing out strongly. Help them when needed, and have an open conversation about everything like communicating with people of the same sex.
   • If your partner doesn't try to make you less jealous, the reason isn't because they're bisexual but because they don't pay attention to your feelings. If you feel constantly anxious and anxious, talk to the other person. If you are unsure and insecure, the relationship may need to end.

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   Make a question. You can ease your anxiety as this is normal. You need an explanation of their sexual orientation and they are more likely to be happy to do this. However, this is also your problem. Ask questions clearly and confidently. They are always by your side.
   • "Do you want to have sex with a man / woman?" other than the question "Are you sexually attracted to men / women?" Some bisexuals readily admit that they like bisexuality, but having a relationship with one of them is not what will happen in the future or is captivating imagination. When you talk to your partner, make it clear and clear. Knowing about them helps you relax and trust your emotions and relationships.

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   Open. Some argue that being bisexual is a bad thing, and there are certainly distinct challenges. However, hermaphrodite is only one manifestation of human sexual diversity. You do not discriminate against people of the opposite race or religion, so what difference does this make?
   • Some people claim that they have the right to ask questions about your dating bisexuals. They may openly express distrust about the legitimacy of the relationship or exhibit inappropriate levels of surprise or pessimism. These people have a traditional definition of a relationship and aren't worthy of your attention. If you feel happy, you are. That is what you should care about.

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   Learn yourself. If you're still worried about dating a bisexual, it might be about yourself, not your partner. Have trouble believing? Maybe you fear they will leave you, not because they are bisexual but the reason comes from you. This makes your mind not clear. Don't worry but instead realize that the other person will be with you.
   • Think of it this way: They choose you over the rest of the world. How great is that feeling? You must have something attractive!
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Advice

• Bisexual people need their partner to acknowledge their gender. It should not be ignored or intimidated by it. This also applies to homosexual or heterosexual relationships.
• Do not be wary when in contact with them. This only makes them feel unsafe or uncomfortable. Just treat them like normal people, and don't shy away from specific topics just because they're bisexual.
• Bear in mind that for bisexual people, a person's gender is the same as hair color when it comes to attractiveness and desire. To them, being attracted to men and women is no different from liking blond and brown hair.
• It should not be assumed that bisexual people can make an easy choice, or that they do not understand the suffering of being gay in a heterosexual society. They are also not willing to extend their relationship with the opposite sex. Bisexual people cannot choose their sexuality with the opposite sex, or they cannot deny that they are homosexual; they have the same choice of attraction or love as anyone else.
• If the motivation to date a bisexual person is simply to want a new experience in sex, be honest with your potential partner before you let the relationship develop.
• A bisexual person may be a little confused about your inability to be attracted to the sexes.This doesn't mean you have to show yourself as gay or heterosexual.
• Bisexual people may want to type relationship with one gender, and another relationship with the other. (Examples: long-term child relationship with one sex, and short-term physical relationship with another.) This may not be entirely related to their sexuality.
• Be honest with yourself.
• Bisexuals may prefer one gender over the other, but if you are in a relationship with them, don't assume that they will love you less or more if you are of a different gender.
• Being bisexual means being attracted to two or more genders. This means being attracted only by the specific aspect to which they associate a particular sex, or by general attractiveness to people regardless of gender, etc. Some people are attracted to because all genders are called omniscient.

Warning

• Never tease their hermaphrodites. They may laugh and laugh on the surface, but on the inside they are feeling hurt or unsafe. Hence unless they really are to speak that this is okay, otherwise you shouldn't be teasing them.
• Don't assume, or assume that a bisexual person wants to have triplets or is sick more than anyone else. Bisexual does not mean indiscriminate relationship (attracted by some men, and some women). Also, it should not be assumed that they are more promiscuous than others just because they are bisexual.
• Don't tell them that their bisexuality is fleeting and that they'll eventually find their sexual orientation. They know their sexual orientation better than you do, and it's your job to just accept who they are.
• Likewise, you shouldn't assume that bisexuals will be more or less attracted to transgender people. Transgender people often view themselves as a fixed gender, and not "suitable for both genders". Allusions that the other person might like transgender people makes you feel insecure and hurts the people involved.
• Some bisexual people appreciate a few specific traits just about one sex. For example, bisexual people may prefer the curves of a woman's body and the muscles on a man's body. Don't be in a hurry to imitate what they consider sexually attractive that without consulting the other party. This means don't try to create curves if you're male, or muscular if you're female. Bisexual people are not alike, and many people want you to be yourself. However, you can change your appearance for your own benefit; The relationship needs equality, and you don't right changing, or maintaining, just to please the other person.