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• Advice
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Have you ever felt stressed when talking about kissing your boyfriend? Are you afraid you won't kiss well? Worried that you are doing it incorrectly? So do you want to improve your kissing skills? Read the article for a valuable kiss.

Steps

Part 1 of 4: Make Him Want To Kiss You

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   Flirt, promote relationship, and date each other to make fire. Never kiss your boyfriend if you don't understand each other. Talk, plan your actions, and spend "time together," creating charisma and connecting emotionally. Private time will give you more opportunities to kiss.
   • Since most people won't kiss in public, it's important not only for kissing, but also for your relationship to consider whether you feel comfortable in private.

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   Use body language to indicate that you want to kiss him. Give your guy the message by standing close, pointing your shoulders toward him, and leaning over as he talks.
   • Twisting your hair with your hands, undressing, and making eye contact will help a guy know that you're open to him.
   • Avoid crossing your arms, crossing your legs or looking down, as this makes you appear distant and unwilling.

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   Breaking down the "collision barrier". You will find it easier to kiss the guy you have touched before, so try to make physical contact before thinking about kissing him. Playing around with his hair, holding hands, or just gently stroking his cheeks are gestures that can signal that you're ready to "lock your lips."
   • The perfect first step is to just let your shoulders touch your shoulders when you're watching movies or TV.

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   Try to dress appropriately. While you don't have to go after the “look-change” trend, taking a little time to make yourself look prettier will let your ex know that you are interested and ready for romance.
   • Use a little perfume to give your body a mild fragrance. Scent is one of the most powerful subconscious senses for both men and women, but just spray a moderate amount of perfume on your body. No one likes to be overwhelmed by a scent.
   • Protect lips with oil or lip balm so they look soft and seductive.

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   Go to a quiet and private place. If this is your first kiss, go outside to find a comfortable space or get together on the couch. Get rid of stress in public and enjoy the moment together - more often and less then, so the time for a kiss will come. advertisement

Part 2 of 4: Seizing the Opportunity

1. 

   Place the right body position for the kiss. It can be easy to kiss if you're standing, but if you're sitting, turn around so your shoulders are straight with his shoulder.
   • Move your hips to face him.
   • Move a little closer so you don't have to face him suddenly.

2. 

   Say something to let him know you're interested in the kiss. This doesn't mean you need poetry to make the effect. Be sincere and considerate by saying phrases like, "I look so charismatic", "I really enjoy enjoying the moment with you", or "Would you mind if I come closer to me?"
   • If you can't think of any clever words, or feel really brave, ask him if he wants to kiss you. Many guys will love that boldness.

3. 

   Tilt your face closer to him. This obviously means you want to kiss him, and this is really a good thing! Laugh softly, and don't be afraid to be together for a few seconds. You can gauge his interest in how he responds to you.
   • If he tilts or looks away he may not like it.
4. Advance! If he is leaning forward, looking at your lips, and lightly touching your hair, lean over and kiss him first. There's no reason for the guy to be the first to act.

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   If he looks you in the eye, and then looks at your lips, he may want to kiss you. If he leans in, please follow him. advertisement

Part 3 of 4: Kissing Your Boy

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   Tilt your head gently so that your noses are not touching. Moving your head to the side a little will avoid the awkward impact.

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   Make eye contact so that the kiss doesn't go off course. Close your eyes once you get close to the person's lips. Not only does this keep the kiss from going off course, but it also looks more romantic.

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   Close your eyes once you make contact with your lips. At this point, staring at an opponent from a close position was normally very odd.

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   Kiss him! Keeps lips gentle and soft. Start by kissing him gently, but consider how you feel and how he reacts.
   • Don't squeeze your lips. Stiff lips indicate that you are really not interested or dislike. It should feel like your lips are pushed against a soft peach.
   • Kiss slowly, and let go of him after 2-3 seconds to see his reaction. If the guy responds positively, continue kissing for a few seconds.

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   Use the rest of your body to guide him. Pull him closer, put one hand behind the back of his neck, or put your fingers together.
   • If you don't know what to do, put your hand on his hip or shoulder.
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Part 4 of 4: Finding New Ways to Kiss

1. Try a different kiss. As you two feel more comfortable together, increase the intensity, rhythm, and duration of the kiss to discover what he likes.
   • Bring your lips closer to him.
   • Kiss him three out of four in a row but don't move his face too far in each time.
   • Continue with the kiss longer, hold for about 3-5 seconds, then 5-8 seconds.
   • Kiss on his neck, cheeks, or ears.
   • Don't change the kiss too quickly or too hard. Try each change slowly and slowly.
2. If you two seem ready, go for an open-mouth kiss. Kissing open your mouth, or kissing your tongue, is more fun and passionate than just kissing. Try to initiate an open mouth kiss by:
   • Gently lick the tip of his tongue, then slide it under his tongue.
   • Bite lightly on his lower lip.
   • Tilt your head slightly sideways. Kissing open your mouth is easier if your noses are not in the same direction!
   • Open your mouth a little bit to invite him.
   • Gently bring your tongue into his mouth.
   • If he responds or opens his mouth he is telling you that he wants to do the same, so keep experimenting with this kind of kiss.

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   Talk to each other about what you like. Communication is key in every aspect of a relationship, and kissing is no exception. Briefly saying "I like it", or "let's try it," will make sure your partner is doing the right thing to keep you happy. advertisement

Advice

• If your hair is long, don't let it touch your lips and keep it from falling down your face.
• If you are chewing gum, release the candy so that the candy won't end up in his mouth.
• Take your time with the kiss to keep it special.
• Don't forget to smile at him when you're done kissing, or whisper something sweet in his ear before letting him go.
• Don't let friends tease you out of the relationship. Kiss for each other, not for friends.
• Carry your mints with you at all times just in case there will be a surprise kiss!
• Don't kiss in front of your parents, siblings, and try not to kiss in front of your friends. Only the two of you in private is best, or in a dark room. Lifts, bathrooms, hallways, and other external locations all might be the perfect choice for you.

Warning

• Make sure you brush your teeth at all times!
• Don't let your hands drop when you kiss, put them around his neck, slide your hand over his face and hold it like that.
• If you think he can be a good kisser, give him a chance.
• As you approach him, you may start to worry. Keep calm. Just think about how much you like him.
• If you're not sure when to let him go then let him decide!