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You may feel like you can't be yourself or feel comfortable around a guy you like. As soon as you see him, you start sweating, your knees feel stupidly stuck together, and you start babbling like a five-year-old - or worse, you find yourself talking about your favorite stuffed Pooh because you can't stand the quirky silence. Don't worry - it's okay to feel uncomfortable around someone you like. Once you've calmed down, recovered, and reminded yourself that he is just as tense as you, you will be able to act naturally and impress him all the time.

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Part 1 of 2: Getting His attention

Eye contact. Maintain normal looks, otherwise you will make him feel dizzy. When he catches your eye, smile sweetly and go back to what he was doing. If you just sit and stare at him all day, he'll think you're a bit obsessed. Even so, when you talk to him, try to confidently look him in the eyes instead of the ground, he will be impressed by how you stabilize yourself.
Ask him something. Ask him to change money. Or ask for hours, like if you're late for class. Ask him if he knows any of the students campaigning for the student union. Ask simple things, not too big a deal.
- If you are talking to him, you can also take a look at everyone. Staring into his eyes during the entire conversation can be somewhat stressful.
Make his friends notice you. This are not This means that you should playfully tease your friend until they can't help but pay attention to you. Instead, act delicately and happily with his friends, and try to get to know them a little. Making fun of these friends is acceptable behavior and will draw your guy's attention, but if you go too far, they may have a false impression of you. Instead, be polite and considerate, ask them about your favorite sport or weekend plans, and try to behave comfortably without making it too obvious that you really like your friend. surname.
- If his friends notice and like you, they can talk about you in front of him, and get him more attention.
- If you become friends with his friends, they may even invite you to a party, giving you the chance to meet him.
- Don't make his friend ask him if he likes you or not. He will think that you are trying to force a relationship. This action will reach his ears and he will think that it is not beautiful action. Even asking your friend what he is doing or what he likes can reveal that you like him.
Let him see that you have a great time too. If he is already in your orbit but doesn't talk to you, don't waste time getting upset or depressed and waiting for him to come to you. Instead, enjoy the time with the friends you are hanging out with, laughing, telling funny stories, integrating instead of hanging around with yourself, be the girl that others want. play with. Get him to come to you and talk because other people are also enjoying your presence.
- If he looks around you and is loved by everyone, he won't be afraid; Instead he will just want to get to know you even more.
- Guys like playful girls who can make them feel good around them. Let him see you smiling at ease instead of looking for something funny on your phone.
Don't act like someone other than yourself. If you're talking to a guy, but it sounds boring, then the best thing you can do is just be yourself. In the end you want him to like friendNot because of the views that you think the perfect person should be right? You don't have to tell him everything about you right away, but gradually act the way you would normally be with your friends, just a little less familiar. You may be shy at first, but the more you talk to him, the more confident you are of yourself.
- You might think that guys like girl-style idiots who just giggle and twist their hair or girls flatter them, but that's not true. Guys are often attracted to independent girls who are themselves and are comfortable with themselves, no need to pretend.
Avoid meaningless talk. You might think gossiping or saying horrible things about someone you both know will make him think you are interesting to be together, but he may actually be temporarily interested in any chatter. you can hear it, but then he will think that you are ordinary and unbelievable. No guy wants to be around a girl who always talks about nonsense because they make her look like the center of a drama and no guy wants to be within a 100km radius of a play. , especially that of a cheesy girl.
- Keep things positive. You should make him happy and have a good experience whenever he talks to you, instead of feeling negative energy from you.
Don't be jealous. This is worst manners if you're a girl who wants a guy to keep an eye on you. If you see him go with other girls, don't ask him if he likes them or talk about how stupid or weirdly fat girls are.Not only does it ridiculously unsafe, but it also looks extremely envious. If you seem jealous before you even date a guy, he will begin to imagine you as a particularly jealous girlfriend.
- If a girl you both know is coming, surprise him by complimenting her. He will find that you are truly calm with yourself and that you will not feel like you need to compete with other women.
Ask him about his hobbies. Let's face it: guys like to talk about themselves. Honestly, who doesn't like it, right? If you want him to love dating you, you have to make him see that you care about him without flattering or oddly twisting him. Instead, ask him about his favorite sports team, what sport he is playing if he is still in school. Talk about your favorite group, your favorite TV show, or even the Mexican food he likes. Of course, you can also share many things about yourself; Don't make him feel suspicious, like you're trying to get to know him.
- Some guys are often embarrassed and really don't like it about themselves that much. If the situation is clear to you, switch the topic so you both can talk, like your weekend plans.
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Part 2 of 2: Getting Your Attention

Please treat everyone well. This is very simple, but effective. Be kind to him and the others. He will find that you are a very pleasant person. If you are rude and selfish toward others, but only being nice to him, then it won't really get you very far. Changing between kindness and coldness / complacency will make you a fake person. Playing wits will make you feel erratic and selfish.
- If he thinks about dating you, he'll find it easier to date you because you can get along with anyone. No guy wants to date a girl who has an unreasonable bad reputation or is unreasonably selfish with everyone.
Seductive guy. For some people, sexiness comes naturally. If you can do that, show off. If not, just show him that you care about him by making eye contact, smiling, and talking a little. You can turn your body towards him instead of standing too far away to send the message that you like him and you can even gently touch him if the conversation goes well. You can also tease him a bit if you get acquainted with him and know he will respond positively.
- Another way to get along is to be a little naughty. You don't have to be a serious person.
Praise him. Smart and simple compliments are both very effective. If you can see any point in complimenting him, go ahead. Choose a harmless aspect of a guy's looks or qualities that are worthy of praise. You could say something like, "I like your new hair" or "It's great that you can play basketball so well and still have a good time in school". The more personal the compliment, the better, you don't have to make him uncomfortable by saying, "You look so sexy in this shirt". Let those sweet compliments come when you are actually dating.
- Don't praise him more than once or twice in conversation. If you keep complimenting him over and over, he will either feel naughty or feel as though you are flattering him.
Body communication with him. If he teases you, gently push him or playfully hit him on the knee. Just make sure he responds to the action. If you are the only one who touches him, he either disagrees with what you have done or he feels embarrassed to be touched. If you are sitting or standing next to him, try to spontaneously touch his knee or sweep his elbow. Notice how he reacts to that simple touch. Maybe he will want more.
Call his name when talking to him. Everyone loves to hear their names, so call out his name when you talk to him. You don't have to call more than once or twice during a conversation, just that is enough for him to feel special.
Be a humorous communicator. Tell him the jokes you made on the weekends. Talk about the funny stories you hear on the news. Discuss your love for dancing or playing the piano. Keep the conversation going, don't be afraid to show your goofy side and make him laugh with sentimental stories. Just being a funny and proactive person, he will want to see you again for more talk.
- If the conversation is interrupted and you can't think of anything to say, that's okay. Smile and then talk about a certain topic, even if it's just any topic. Don't feel uncomfortable with the silence, if you and the guy both feel comfortable with each other, soon the two of you will share the silence as well.
Always be calm. Try to stay as calm as possible, even if you feel anxious inside. You can still be excited and happy without being stressed or talking too much or too loudly just because the guy is near you. If you find yourself getting too agitated, take a deep breath and calm down. Avoid looking at his face if you have to. You don't have to be completely cool if that's not really your personality, but try not to be overly excited or agitated around him or he will feel overwhelmed.
- There's a difference between staying calm and acting like you don't care. He should still be able to tell you like him a little without thinking that you have to have a private place for him in your room entirely.
Make him feel curious. Once you have his attention, all you should do now is pull him closer. You want to win his attention and let him see you as a special girl that he'll want to learn more about. You can act by being a bit mysterious and not turning all your cards up right away; Let him have the desire to learn more about you. When you talk to him, tell him you have to leave while you and he are having a good time, and don't wait until the stories settle to say goodbye; He will want to see you more and you can continue to have interesting conversations with him.
- If he's curious, he'll want to spend more time with you, maybe even just the two of you together. Don't get too excited if he asks you out, but let him know that you are happy about it.
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Advice

Pay attention to hygiene, and always look good: brush your teeth, wash your hair, avoid foods that contaminate your clothes.
Make sure your breath stays fresh - either chew mint when he isn't looking at you or chew some mint-flavored gum.
Smile. Behave with confidence. Use positive body language and eye contact.
Behave and dress in a way that makes you feel comfortable. Guys will immediately notice if you are uncomfortable.
Eye contact is the most important way to get a guy's attention; If either of you catches the other staring at you, try to look back at him for just a second or two. Look down and wink at him. One more trick is to keep his gaze on him, blink quickly and then slowly look back at him.
Remember important facts. Remember days like his birthday. He will think that you really care about him and will know that you really love him.
When you are with him, you can make fun of seducing him by laughing when he tells a joke even if it is not funny, but be careful, if you laugh too much it will distract him.
Be his friend. If he doesn't accept you as his friend, your relationship won't go well. Give him advice and stay there when he needs it.
Don't be too reckless, just take a deep breath and relax. It would be nice if you hang out with his friends then you will have a chance to talk to him.
Wear nice clothes to make him think that you care about yourself and your well-being.
Don't follow him or he will think you are a freak. Learn to behave properly.

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Don't overdo it just to impress him. Again, stress, be yourself and wear what you feel comfortable with.
Let the conversation harmonize. Don't just talk about yourself and don't just talk about him.
Don't do everything in life. A guy will like someone who is calm and in control of his emotions. Funny, but don't exaggerate.
Don't act like someone else. You need to make him like who you really are.
Don't follow him! Those who watched other people were all eccentric. Being with him or with him are two similar concepts. If the conversation falls into silence for about 30 seconds, then you can skip it without making yourself difficult. Try to be the one to leave first, this will prevent him from seeing you as too obsessive and will also let him know that you have other fun too.
Don't play "hard to please" games. You will get the wrong message and you won't be interested. But you should also give the guy his own space.
Make sure your friends rate him as a good person. Otherwise, you will have difficulty reaching out to him, and more importantly, the problem between you and your friends.
Do not hang around with him too much! That behavior will leave the impression on him that you are a stalker. Your goal is to let him move towards you. If you don't keep your distance from him, he will distance himself from you.
Do not praise him to everyone.
Remember, all men are not the same. Some people don't even like physical touch!