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• To step
• Method 1 of 3: Kiss like a pro
• Method 2 of 3: Develop your skills
• Method 3 of 3: Rules
• Tips
• Warnings

It doesn't matter whether you are experienced or not, the first time you kiss your girlfriend can be scary and sometimes embarrassing itself. Do not despair! If you follow the steps in this article you will get through this moment without any problems.

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Method 1 of 3: Kiss like a pro

1. Good preparation is half the battle, so take a number of precautions. Make sure you have a good relationship with your girlfriend and that you know each other well before you try to kiss her. That way your kiss will feel better. You have to time your kiss right. Kiss her when the situation is romantic and there are no other people around.
2. Make sure your lips are smooth and soft. Your lips don't have to be perfect, but it is helpful if they are smooth and moist. Kissing is better when your lips feel good. Use lip balm during the days before your kiss. If you think you are going to kiss soon, you should use a lip balm with a nice flavor.
3. Get fresh breath. Your breath is also important, brush your teeth well (and regularly), don't forget your tongue, use a spray, and take a mint or gum before you kiss your hair. Use a flavor such as mint, other sweeter flavors such as cinnamon or fruit will not last long.
4. Sit / stand close to her and lean forward while cuddling her.
5. Gently grasp her face with your hands. Place your hands between her jaw and ear so that you have control over how this kiss is going to go. You make it easier for yourself to find her mouth, especially if you close your eyes during the kiss.
6. Lean forward and wait a moment. Take a good look at her lips before you kiss her. This may not sound like a good idea, but the idea is to give her the opportunity to decide if she wants to kiss you. She must have the opportunity to realize what is going to happen. Pausing will prevent her from hitting you after the kiss because you kissed her just like that.
7. Tilt your head and wait a moment. Before trying to kiss her, tilt your head slightly so that your noses don't bump into each other.
8. Kiss her. When you kiss, don't do this in the same way you would kiss your grandmother, try to get her bottom lip between your lips. Gently suck on her lip, like when you dig into a piece of banana.
   • Pay close attention to your hand. This is best for both of you.
9. By the way, you shouldn't forget to keep breathing! This may seem like a strange tip, but it is easier to forget than you might think. Back off for a moment and take a good deep breath just like you do while swimming.
10. Let your lips hang loosely. When you kiss her, don't do crazy things with your lips like tighten or frown.
11. Continue to kiss slowly until you feel comfortable. You are not in a hurry! Even the most experienced kissers need to find the right rhythm every time they kiss someone for the first time. Let everything happen calmly and sensually by itself. You can still do passionate kissing later.
12. Also touch her cheeks, you have put your hands on her cheeks before so you can now use them to gently move her cheeks. Use your thumb to rub her cheekbone, following the line of the bone. It is important that you do this gently.
13. Stop, then move on! Of course you have to stop again at some point, even if this is sometimes just to breathe. Don't worry, you can move on later but you don't want to create an awkward situation.

Method 2 of 3: Develop your skills

1. Kissing is harder than you might think, but you can get better at this.
2. French kissing is less complicated than you might think, as long as you've prepared well and have a few do's and don'ts in mind.
3. Passionate kisses. You don't want to be a bad kisser who almost seems to eat his girlfriend's head, so here are some simple tips to learn how to kiss with dignity.

Method 3 of 3: Rules

1. Emphasize consent. You don't want to force a girl to kiss, let alone do something that makes her feel uncomfortable. You don't do this out of respect, and you shouldn't kiss girls you don't respect, you deserve someone equal to you! Pay her attention often and listen carefully to what she is saying, and ask her how she feels about certain things. Make it your goal to make her happy.
2. You better not kiss in public. It is not very pleasant for other people to have people on the street kissing each other and in some countries you can even get in trouble for this! Only kiss when you are alone with her, remember this when you have a hard time controlling yourself.
   • If you're still single, you may be able to kiss her on the cheek quickly, but don't overdo it.
3. Do not leave any evidence. If you don't know what a hickey is, you should look up an example on the internet. Make sure you don't leave a hickey on her with your kisses. For a boy, a hickey is a kind of certificate, but for girls it can cause problems. There is simply a double standard when it comes to hickes, a woman with a hickey can be bothered or even fired.

Tips

• Brush your teeth or chew mints so your breath smells good when you kiss a girl.
• You need to keep your hygiene in order by using deodorant, lip balm, and perfume when you want to kiss your girlfriend. If you don't take good care of yourself, she may reject you and tell you she doesn't even want you around her.
• When the kiss is over, just smile at each other to make sure you both enjoyed it.
• You should also pay close attention to the location. If you want to kiss a shy girl, you shouldn't do it in public.
• Make sure both of you are attracted to each other or one of you may feel used or hurt.
• Kissing a girl does not mean that you are going to have sex, so pay attention to whether or not she kisses passionately with you.
• If she doesn't want to French kiss, you shouldn't try to do this either. She may just not like French kissing.
• If you have long hair, you shouldn't let this get between you every time. There is nothing more dirty than hair in your mouth!
• Don't let your hands go everywhere, you have to be careful where you place your hands. If you touch her inappropriately, she can push you away or leave you. During a first kiss, she will not be too enthusiastic and not too touchy.
• You shouldn't immediately push for sex, because girls don't like that.
• Also brush your tongue, because your tongue causes bad breath.
• Never kiss with food in your mouth.

Warnings

• Only kiss her when she's ready! Timing is very important!
• Do not rush.
• If both of you have never kissed before, don't try french kiss right away. Stay calm at first, you will get to that later.
• Especially during your first kiss, you should not be too arrogant and especially not go too far.
• You shouldn't be too pushy if you want to kiss your girlfriend. If she doesn't want to kiss you you just have to stop, such a forced kiss is not nice anyway.
• During your first kiss, you shouldn't try to French kiss right away. Most girls aren't ready for this on their first date with a guy.