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• Part 1 of 3: Improving yourself
• Part 2 of 3: Finding an emotional connection
• Part 3 of 3: Taking care of him

Every man is different, but men who fall under the Cancer sign of the zodiac often have the same characteristics and fall in love in the same way. Become the kind of woman a Cancer man could yearn for, if you want him to fall for you. Take care of him and address his sensitive side.

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Part 1 of 3: Improving yourself

1. Make sure you live a stable life. The Cancer man usually has his life well organized, and to some extent, he will expect the same from you. Your achievements don't have to be exactly the same as his, but your life should show some degree of stability.
   • Show him that you can take care of yourself without him. You must have direction and be able to provide for your basic needs.
2. Resist the urge to be materially dependent on him. Even though most Cancer men are able to support you materially, it is better to avoid such situations. If the Cancer man in your life has reason to suspect that you're after his money, he may start to shut himself off from you emotionally.
   • Unless he offers to pay for you on every date, you take turns or occasionally split the bill.
   • Don't make demands about gifts or things he should buy you. If he does want to shower you with material gifts, then you need to make sure you give him enough too. What you give doesn't have to be expensive, but it should show about the same amount of affection.
3. Stand up for yourself. You may be concerned that your sensitive Cancer man will get upset when the two of you argue, but a healthy discussion can increase the esteem he has for you.
   • The key is to make sure your arguments are reasonable and sound. Do not lash out at him, target his weaknesses, or make unfair accusations. When it comes time to reconcile, don't hold back.
4. Take care of your appearance. In general, Cancer men may be a bit superficial about the appearance. You don't have to be a beauty queen, but making yourself beautiful for him every now and then can certainly support your cause.
   • You don't have to do anything extreme, but you do need to take good care of your hygiene, wear a little make-up and wear clothes that look good on you.
   • Scent can be another powerful tool. Look for a feminine floral perfume, body wash, or shampoo. Make it your typical scent and let him associate that scent with you.
5. Behave gracefully. Since Cancer people are sensitive beings, they can appreciate inner beauty as well as outer beauty. Try to live life in a balanced, graceful way.
   • Losing your temper every now and then is natural and not a bad thing, but it should be the exception to the rule and not your standard behavior.

Part 2 of 3: Finding an emotional connection

1. Be empathetic. Become an expert in his moods and emotions. Cancer men are usually among the most emotional, sensitive men in the zodiac. If you can decipher his moods and respond accordingly, you can find your way to his heart pretty quickly.
   • Ask him what's wrong when he's upset. If he's hesitant, let him open up at his own pace, but make it clear that you're willing and eager to listen.
   • Make him laugh unless he is sad. The typical Cancer man loves to laugh, so a woman who can put a smile on his face is very attractive to him.
2. Seek emotional support from him. Be less defensive and dare to be vulnerable. Most Cancerians are very capable of supporting you emotionally and appreciate the opportunity to do so.
   • Share your secrets with him. If you've had a bad day, go to him first. He craves affection from those he cares about and longs to give it back.
3. Appreciate his thoughtful side. You will need to appreciate his thoughtfulness to you and you will also need to accept and encourage his thoughtfulness to others. Even though most Cancer men are loyal, there may be times when they prefer to help someone else instead of spending time with you.
   • Don't be surprised if he rushes to a sick friend or offers to help a neighbor with a difficult task, even if it means canceling an evening with you to do so. His sense of obligation can take over at awkward moments, and you need to learn how to deal with that.
4. Temper your words. Healthy discussions can be beneficial, but that cannot be lashing out or throwing out hateful insults. If you attack his weaknesses, you can cause him to build a barricade between you and his heart.
   • He may be more sensitive to criticism than most others, so comments that put him down will shut him down. You can bring up constructive criticism or concerns when needed, but don't engage in criticism that just insults him.
5. Make a thoughtful gesture. When your Cancer man can feel how much you love him, he may be more likely to love you in return. Do something nice for him for no reason. A little well-chosen kindness can go a long way.
   • When you say "I love you," make it meaningful, passionate, and genuine. Don't just say it just to say it.
   • Gifts that remind him of your relationship can be very effective. Think photo albums, love poems, and travel to important places that have sentimental value, such as the place where you first met.
   • Gestures to take care of him are also a plus, so you could give him a home-cooked meal or a home-knitted scarf.
6. Don't play games to make him jealous. You might be tempted to make your Cancer guy jealous by flirting with other guys, but that will inevitably work against you. Most Cancer men tend to be on the possessive side so they can get jealous quickly and not handle the emotion well.
7. Address emotional issues immediately. It doesn't matter who feels hurt, you or he, but the two of you need to sit down and resolve your emotional issues as soon as possible. His negative feelings probably won't go away on their own, and he can also expect your negative feelings to linger until they are resolved.
   • If he feels hurt, he may withdraw from you until you offer him a sincere apology.
   • On the other hand, if you withdraw emotionally, he can become tacky and demanding. The only way to calm him down is to open your heart to him again and make amends.
8. Look for signs of affection. Since Cancer tends to be very sentimental, you might know when he loves you before he even said a word. Notice a change in his behavior. If he becomes significantly more affectionate towards you, his heart may very well be yours.
   • Increased levels of affection and attention are good signs. If he wants to cuddle a lot, ask about your day, and sense your moods, he might fall for you.
   • Likewise, if he pulls back or seems clearly hurt when you upset him, it means he has become attached to you.

Part 3 of 3: Taking care of him

1. Give him time. Cancer men are usually intuitively aware of how sensitive they are so they know they can get hurt if they deal with the wrong people. It may take him a while to open up to you, but if you keep showing your affection often enough, he will eventually open up to you.
   • His need for emotional security can be quite strong, so you will have to invest in him to some extent emotionally before he can feel that way too. However, once he's confident about your feelings, he's more likely to be open and honest about his feelings.
2. Talk about family. If he fits the picture, your Cancer man will be quite family oriented. Talk about your family and encourage him to talk about his. If he notices that family is very important to you too, his affection for you may grow.
   • His idea of ​​family can be broader than yours and include aunts, uncles, nephews, nieces and other distant relatives.
   • In fact, some Cancer men can go a little too far and rave about family members more than necessary. However, if he gets along with your family, he can also come to love them as his own.
3. Create a cozy environment. Partly because of his love for family, a Cancer thrives in a warm, cozy environment. It feeds his mind and opens his heart. Creating that environment for the Cancer man in your life can encourage him to open his heart to you.
   • Welcome him into your home and show an interest in being part of his. Spend time with him at home and enjoy your time together to the fullest.
4. Spend time in nature. An interest that most Cancer men share is an appreciation for nature. When spending a day or evening together, consider going somewhere where the two of you can appreciate nature at its best. Take him to a place he will love - this is a strong sign of your consideration for him.
   • A weekend camping trip probably means more to him than a weekend trip to a big city.
   • Parks and other locations with scenic views are ideal for quick dates.
5. Plan for the future. Don't be afraid to talk to him about the future. Cancer men are successful because of their forward-thinking ability, so they usually worship women who do likewise.
   • Talk about your dreams and goals.
   • Since most Cancerians have no problem bonding, conversations about a future together are usually safe too.
6. Dedicate yourself completely to him. When your Cancer man gives his heart to you, he will fully do this. You must be willing to do the same. Before you let him fall in love with you, make sure you can fall in love with him too and continue to love him.
7. Pay attention to him as an individual. Keep in mind that every man is different, and the ideas offered here are just guidelines.
   • You need to pay attention to who your man is as an individual and act accordingly, regardless of whether or not he fits into your image of a Cancer.