Content

• Steps
• Tips
• Warnings
• What do you need

After breaking up with your girlfriend, you may still have feelings for her. These tips will help you get her back.

Steps

1. 1 Don't expect to still like her no matter what. Maybe this thought will upset you, but remember: if it no longer harbors any feelings for you, it will hurt as much as when you break up (unless you start dating and break up in a new way). But it will be a pleasant surprise for you if the feelings remain. However, do not pretend that this surprised you.
2. 2 Try to stay friends, as embarrassing as it may be. If you were friends before you started dating, try to return to this stage of the relationship.
3. 3 Support her in difficult times and simply in some decisions. Give her more support than just a friend, but maybe just a little less than when you were dating. This will show that you still care about her. Experience and grieve with her.
4. 4 Ask her to talk privately. Don't explain what you want to talk about, let her intrigue her. Do not report anything by phone, SMS or the Internet. This should be a direct, one-on-one conversation.
5. 5 Keep yourself busy during the conversation. Walk up and down the hallway or something like that. Make sure you are alone, there is silence around, and you can hear each other well.
6. 6 Secure the basics, and then move on to the finale. Say something along these lines: “I’m sure you know that I still like you (even if you know you don’t), and it was an amazing time when we met. I would like to know if we can ever be together again. If you want, we could start from scratch or continue where we left off. What do you think about it? Will you give me another chance? " You can also add words like, “I know I messed it up the first time,” or “I am very sorry for the way I behaved.”
7. 7 Consider the upcoming conversation. Once you've met, you should at least have a little understanding of her train of thought. Get ready for her to start asking questions in return or to talk about the reasons why you broke up. If it was your fault, let her know how much you regret what you did.
8. 8 If you start dating again, always keep in mind why you broke up the last time, and avoid the same course of events. Try not to remind her of past mistakes in any way, or she may start to wonder and worry about it.

Tips

• Make sure not to blame your ex or her friends for anything after the breakup. Take full responsibility for what happened and do not attack her friends.You don't have to turn them against yourself just when you are about to ask her to start over. They have a huge impact on her decisions.
• Don't make the topic of conversation obvious.
• During the conversation, you can stop walking straight before you start asking her questions. Turn to her, take her hands and look directly into her eyes. Whether you stop or not, be sure to look at her when you ask about important things.

Warnings

• Girls can give answers that no one can foresee. Remember everything that happened between you, so that later you can find a connection with her words.
• Remember that this girl may already have time to move on. If so, don't forget: you can still be friends.

What do you need

• The ex-girlfriend you still like
• Time for conversation: for example, after school, work, etc. Tell her if you want to talk, do not take her by surprise with a sudden conversation.