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• Steps
• Method 1 of 3: Understand the meaning of her messages
• Method 2 of 3: Look for non-verbal cues in her messages
• Method 3 of 3: Ask her directly
• Tips

Finding out if a girl likes you can be tricky. It can be exciting, confusing, and even scary at times, especially if you really care about her. If you are texting each other, you may find hints of her real feelings in the messages. By paying attention to when, how, and what a girl is texting you, you can get a clear idea of ​​how she really feels about you.

Steps

Method 1 of 3: Understand the meaning of her messages

1. 1 Notice if the girl already knows a thing or two about you. If a girl is interested in you, chances are she has done some research already. Perhaps she spoke with your friends or studied your pages on social networks and in one way or another hints that she already knows a thing or two about your hobbies and interests. This is often a good sign that she likes you.
   • It could also be a sign that she is interested in you as a friend and wants to get to know you better.

   Example: If she asks you about the photos you posted on social media from a recent trip to a ski resort, you can assume she has a crush on you.

   
   
2. 2 Pay attention to messages with hints of connection and intimacy. When someone likes us, the person often tries to establish an emotional connection with us, hinting in the messages of closeness. Often, girls choose a nickname that they use when communicating with a guy. If she's texting you to talk about a shared experience or interest, she's probably trying to connect with you.
   • Does she write to you to remind you of a funny moment in school, or perhaps to sympathize with you about a particularly difficult task or test that you both got on? These could be signs that she is trying to connect with you on an emotional level.
   • Having such a connection can also be a sign that she is interested in friendship.
3. 3 Pay attention to compliments. Things like compliments and expressions of gratitude send a clear signal that your pen pal appreciates you.These messages can also hint to you about what she likes or finds especially attractive about you.
   • Does she compliment your looks? Your clothes? Does she thank you for doing something good for her on a certain day? You can learn a lot about how a girl thinks about you by paying attention to what she values ​​about you.
   • Compliments don't have to be direct. If a girl texts you to share good news, she lets you know that she cares about you.
   • If a girl is texting you to share something that made her think of you, that’s a good sign of her sympathy.
4. 4 Pay attention to the questions and details she shares. Messages are a relatively low risk way for two people to get to know each other better. If she's giving you details about her interests, biases, and biases, consider if she's trying to bring out your common interests. If she asks you a question after talking about herself, she may be hinting that she wants to know more about you.
   • Answer thoughtfully, and remember to keep the conversation going by asking her questions too.
   • In general, it is also a good way to befriend the person.
5. 5 Notice how often she writes vague and short messages. If a person likes you, they will most likely want to share their thoughts and views with you, and will also seek to get to know you better. However, if the girl you are texting with repeatedly gives short answers without much content or details about her life, she may not be interested in you.
   • If you often feel discouraged while texting, take a break. Try texting her again the next day to see if her attitude has changed. If her messages remain cold and distant, or she stops responding altogether, you should move on.

Method 2 of 3: Look for non-verbal cues in her messages

1. 1 Look at her emoticons. When someone sends you a string of heart emoji, it's a good indicator that that person likes you. The more emoji the better. By sending you these funny characters, she lets you know that she is smart and funny.
   • Certain emojis, such as the kiss or lip emoji, are often used to show interest in something more than just friendship.
2. 2 Take a closer look at memes. If a girl is sending you memes, she's most likely trying to get your attention and connect with you. By sharing memes that are usually meant to make you laugh, she may be trying to joke about something that only you understand, or playing up something that you both already find amusing. Humor is a great way to get closer and connect with the person, and perhaps the girl is trying to determine if you share her sense of humor.
   • Laughter and humor are important in many ways, including friendship.
3. 3 Note what time of day she texts you. If a girl texting you late at night or the first thing in the morning, she lets you know that you are the last person she thinks about before going to bed, and the first person she thinks about when she wakes up. She may also be trying to figure out if these feelings are mutual.
   • Regular messages saying good morning and good night are good indicators that a person likes you.
4. 4 See if she sends you images. Taking pictures of her or what she does during the day means she is trying to give you a glimpse into her world. She tries to spark your interest in her life by sharing what she does and sees. It's even better if she asks you for advice or asks for your opinion on what she's showing you.
   • Photos of the day are a way to show what she thinks of you and that she wants you to be involved in her life.

Method 3 of 3: Ask her directly

1. 1 Ask what her plans are and subtly suggest doing something together. By accidentally inviting her to do something together, you will relieve some of the tension and anxiety that you might experience if you ask her directly about her feelings for you. For example, you might ask what she's doing in the evening or next weekend. If she has no plans yet or is flexible enough, you can share what you would like to do and ask her if she would like to join you.
   • If she says she is busy, it may mean that she is not interested in spending time together, but it may be that she is really busy. Ask if she will have time to do something on other days and see what she has to say.
   • For example, you might ask, "What are you doing this weekend?" If she answers: "Nothing" - or: "I was thinking of watching a movie," - you can say: "I was planning to go to the cinema, do you want to go together?"
2. 2 Follow her when it comes to hanging out. If a girl texting you about a restaurant she really wants to go to, a test she's worried about, a movie she would like to watch, or some school activity like a party or dance, she probably wants you asked her about it. Continue this conversation, as if by chance inviting her to do with you what she wants so much.
   • For example, if she talked about how she would like to go to a new pizzeria nearby, say that you were going there too and offer to go together.
   • If she has written to you about an upcoming school event, tell her that you are looking forward to it and see if she would like to go there with you.
   • Perhaps she wrote to you about the upcoming exam at school, which you both will take. This is a great opportunity to invite her to meet in order to prepare for it together.
3. 3 Try to speak clearly and directly. If all other methods have not been successful and you are still not sure how the girl treats you, you can always ask her directly. If she really likes you, she's unlikely to say no when you ask her about it. Depending on how bold and confident you feel, you can first share your feelings with her, and then ask about reciprocity.
   • Taking the first step will relieve tension, and the girl may appreciate this act, especially if she is shy.
   • Be prepared for her to say that she is not interested in you. People are complex creatures, and even if she sent you explicit signals, she can still tell you that she doesn't like you.
   • Regardless of her answer, your straightforwardness will help clarify the situation between you.
4. 4 Take her word for it. Even if the girl herself is confused in her feelings for you or does not want to go beyond the playful correspondence, no means no. If she says she doesn't like you even though she seems to be sending you mixed signals, you just have to take her word for it and move on.
   • If you ask her a direct question and she doesn't answer at all, you can take that as a sign that she is not interested in you. It's not very nice to ignore, but people often do this if they feel uncomfortable, uncomfortable, or guilty about rejecting someone.

Tips

• Don't put too much emphasis on response times. Maybe she's busy or she just doesn't have a phone at hand. Typically, the content of her response matters more than its speed.
• If you don't like someone who likes you, don't just ignore that person as it can be very painful. Let him know, politely and bluntly, that you are simply not interested in him.
• If a girl is texting you, she may just want you to be friends. If you find it too difficult to understand her messages, asking her directly and calmly how she is feeling can help you end the game while waiting.
• In the correspondence, we document our interactions - it is not always possible to delete messages, and therefore the records can often be shared. For this reason, it is best to leave the most personal conversations for real life, so as not to worry that your words may go beyond correspondence.