Content

• Steps
• Part 1 of 3: Get the Courage
• Part 2 of 3: Express your feelings
• Part 3 of 3: Move Forward
• Tips
• Warnings

If you're in love with a girl, sometimes it's best to just tell her how you feel, even if you're not sure the feelings are mutual. Be brave and talk about your feelings. When dealing with a girl, be open and respectful towards her. Of course, it is very difficult to talk about your feelings, but after reading this article, you will learn how to do it correctly. You may feel intense fear and anxiety, but speaking about your feelings will make you feel relieved. Remember that you are not alone: ​​love is a feeling that does not pass by anyone.

Steps

Part 1 of 3: Get the Courage

1. 1 Build romantic relationships. Spending time together can help you get to know each other better. Remove any distractions such as your phone or similar devices. Turn off loud music and do your best not to be disturbed by strangers. Spending time together is essential to building a romantic relationship.
   • If you do not communicate, it will be difficult for you to understand which joint activity is better to choose. Choose activities that will interest both of you: learn new things, go hiking, or go to a cafe during your lunch break. Tell your girlfriend that you enjoy spending time with her and appreciate the opportunity to get to know her better.
2. 2 Don't let fear paralyze you. If you are afraid of rejection, the mere thought of a declaration of love can lead you to intense excitement. However, you also need to understand that regret can be just as intense. Try to understand that confessing your love and getting a response from a girl is the only way to overcome your fear of rejection and regret. You will feel relieved.
3. 3 Be honest about your feelings. Do you actually have deep feelings for this girl, or is it just a hobby? Could you lose your friendship with her? You shouldn't continue your friendship with the girl in the hope that you can change her opinion of yourself. This is unfair to her, since friendship must be based on trust and respect. If you really love her, you must first be a good friend to her.
   • While it's not always easy to analyze your feelings, there are scientifically proven signs that can help determine if your feelings are love or infatuation. Do you show any of these feelings?
     • If you think she is unique, it could be due to increased levels of focus and attention.
     • If you think she’s perfect and you’re only focusing on her positive qualities, this may be due to the increase in memory that arises as a result of the brain's need to adapt to a new feeling for you.
     • If you feel like you’re overwhelmed by your love, studies have shown that it’s because love is inextricably linked to mood swings.
     • As you go through life's hardships, you can fall in love as your brain releases more dopamine, a chemical responsible for reward and pleasure.
     • If you feel like your thoughts are only about your girlfriend, this may be due to a decrease in serotonin levels, resulting in obsessive behavior.
     • People in love also show signs of emotional dependence, so they strive to be together all the time and hope to stay together forever.
     • A young man in love is ready to do everything for his beloved. This is due to an increased sense of empathy for the woman he loves.
     • Research has shown that love is an emotional bond, not just sex.
     • Research has also shown that people in love have no control over this deep feeling.
4. 4 Don't try to read her mind. Be direct about your feelings. Don't assume you know what she thinks or feels.Always respectfully ask and thank her when she talks openly about her feelings. Being open is very important when it comes to declaring your love.
5. 5 Stay positive. Love is a very powerful emotion that usually develops over time. Analyze how your relationship has developed over time and focus on the positive emotions you share with each other. If you feel like your love for a girl has developed quite quickly, this may be the right time to talk about your feelings. You can always find a reason not to do something, so be courageous and follow your heart.

Part 2 of 3: Express your feelings

1. 1 Choose the right time and place. Don't be distracted by external factors. Take a time to talk when no one is in your way and both of you are in no hurry. Choose a quiet place or offer to meet when both of you are mentally and emotionally ready to talk. A declaration of love should be a joyful experience, so make sure you choose a time and setting where she can fully control her thoughts and emotions.
   • You shouldn't talk to her about your feelings in the presence of friends or at a time when the girl is on an urgent project.
2. 2 Pay attention to your body language and how you behave in her presence. Chat with the girl whenever you have the opportunity. Start your conversation with a smile. Focus on your body position and maintain eye contact. Be friendly and joke when appropriate. Don't be rude. Remember that smiling and kindness will help build strong relationships.
   • Start your conversation with a simple phrase: "How are you?"
   • The girl will consider you strange if you remain silent in her presence. If you can't think of what to say to her because you're nervous, just say hello and keep walking or talking to someone else.
3. 3 Find out more about her and her friends. The girl's friends are her support and protection. You should leave a good impression of yourself by talking to her friends. Show a genuine interest in them. If you show interest in her friends, the girl, as well as her close people, will certainly notice your efforts and efforts to make the life of your beloved better.
4. 4 Remember that men are usually the first to talk about their feelings. Studies show that men are the first to confess their love because they don't want to lose a relationship, while women need time to make sure the relationship is worth developing. Therefore, they tend to wait a while, so before you talk about your feelings to a girl, prove that you are worth her love. The girl should understand why she loves you.
5. 5 Do your best to make your actions speak louder than words. There are many sources for examples of romantic gestures. However, love is a private matter. Only you know what needs to be done to make the girl happy, as well as how to express your love correctly. You can buy her flowers, sing her favorite song to surprise her, or just hold her hand as you walk home from school together. This will show that you love her. This is not just a one-time gesture. This is a state of mind that should be fully reflected in your actions.
6. 6 Communicate respectfully and openly. The best way to tell a girl about your feelings is through direct confession. There is no point in trying to manipulate her or waiting. Give her time to reflect on her feelings and emotions. She may say that she just wants to be friends with you. Analyze your feelings and emotions to determine its role in your future life.
7. 7 Remember that the word "love" evokes emotions in every person. It is very difficult for some people to hear and use this word.When talking to a girl about your feelings, make sure she fully understands your intentions.
   • For example, if you see that your sweetheart feels fear and embarrassment whenever you watch the end of a romantic movie where the main characters confess their love to each other, do not repeat a similar scenario. Instead, tell her in a sincere but casual way that you want to take care of her and take the next step to develop your relationship.
8. 8 Be prepared for any obstacle. Religious and cultural differences, as well as the opinions of her family members, can influence the attitude of your beloved towards you. Respect her for who she is, because if you truly love her, you can handle any obstacle.
   • If a girl hesitates, but still says "yes" when communicating with her, follow the rules that she established to calm her down. If you have different cultural backgrounds and a girl asks you to meet her parents, consider it an honor and follow her guidance. If she does not want to have an intimate relationship at this stage, do not pressure her.

Part 3 of 3: Move Forward

1. 1 Keep calm. Regardless of the reaction of your beloved, be tactful, especially if you are in a public place. Don't be stupid. Even if the girl refuses you, and you experience severe pain, control yourself.
2. 2 Respect her opinion. If the girl doesn't reciprocate with you, remember that she is the person with whom you have built a strong relationship, so continue to treat her with respect. You cannot force a person to love themselves.
   • Don't become unresponsive or taciturn. Women are sensitive to interpersonal signals in relationships, so empty phrases or silence can exacerbate an already negative situation.
3. 3 Rejoice in your maturity and fortitude. If you've met a girl and built a strong relationship with her that is based on respect and open communication, chances are she has tender feelings for you. Be proud that you were able to speak openly about your feelings and celebrate this event with her. Even if the girl limits your relationship only to friendship, rejoice in your personal growth. Share your experiences with others and know that you are not alone.
   • Take advantage of the help and support of friends and relatives in case the girl refuses you.
4. 4 Keep building your relationship. If you truly love someone, you will respect them, take care of them, and be with them in joy and sorrow. Love is all about ups and downs, but the most exciting stage is taking the first step and talking about your feelings.
   • Make a final point. If she has no feelings for you, don't insist. Nobody asks you to continue to be cheerful and joyful. However, remember that your happiness is just around the corner. Of course, this will be a very difficult stage in your life. So give yourself as much time as you need. There are many sad love songs and movies that can comfort you during a difficult period.
5. 5 Decide when you need to end your friendship. There is no point in trying to manipulate her or waiting for her to reciprocate. If you tell a girl that you love her, and you hear in response that she cannot reciprocate you, but wants to remain friends with you, respectfully refuse this offer.
   • It can be difficult for you to maintain a friendly relationship with a girl who said no to you. Friendship should be based on mutual support and respect. Ask yourself if you can treat her just like a friend after you've told her you want more than just friendship. Can you still be friends with her if she starts dating someone else?

Tips

• Be confident in yourself. Look into her eyes, don't slouch, and smile. The most important thing is to speak without hesitation or hesitation.You must be absolutely confident in your words and feelings.
• If you have been friends for a long time, then be prepared that perhaps she does not consider you as her boyfriend. You will have to accept her decision and attitude towards you. Also, don't try to change yourself for her. Losing a couple of pounds, changing her hairstyle or demeanor - these attempts, most likely, will not help and will not change her feelings.
• Don't tell everyone that you love her until you admit it to her. It won't be very nice if she doesn't know about it from you.
• Actions are worth more than words. It is better to show how you love her, for example, do some romantic act.

Warnings

• Don't tell the person that you love them if you don't have those feelings. Manipulating a person in order to have an intimate relationship with him is despicable and unethical.
• No means no. If a girl refuses you, remember that there are many beautiful girls around you. Persistence is a good trait at the beginning of a relationship, but you shouldn't keep pushing after you've told your girlfriend how you feel. Love is not negotiation.