Content

• Steps
• Method 1 of 3: Dress Attractively
• Method 2 of 3: Be Attractive
• Method 3 of 3: Like a guy
• Tips

You might think that getting a guy to talk to you and to like him is an impossible task, especially if he is shy. Nevertheless, you can draw attention to yourself if you behave positively, communicate with him and radiate self-confidence. It is easy to conquer a guy if you know what he is looking for in a girl!

Steps

Method 1 of 3: Dress Attractively

1. 1 Think about what style you would like to dress in. He will show people your interests and give them a preliminary idea of ​​your personality. There are many styles to choose from, such as preppy, sporty, avant-garde, hipster and more. Search the internet for clothes that you like and try to come up with a style that suits your personality.
   • If your style doesn't fit into any of the categories, that's fine. There is nothing wrong with being unique! The most important thing is that you are comfortable and that you feel confident in what you are wearing.
2. 2 Consider what you will be doing during the day when you get ready in the morning. Think about your plans for the day and any activities you have planned. Sometimes looking too smart can scare a guy off. Try to dress casual unless there is a special occasion (like a disco or a party).
   • If you play volleyball at the gym, this is probably not the best day to wear a dress to school.
   • If you're afraid to overdo it, ask your friends what they are going to wear. This will give you a better idea of ​​how others will look and help you not look like a black sheep.
3. 3 Wear clothes that fit you well and that you feel comfortable in. When it comes to fashion, you can find clothes that fit your body, regardless of size. The number on the tag does not matter as long as the clothes suit you and you feel comfortable and confident in them.When shopping, always try on clothes before buying and ask a friend or parent for the opinion.
   • Make sure the clothes match your school's dress code and are not overly revealing. For example, shirts and tops should not be too tight or very low cut, and shorts and skirts should be of reasonable length.
   • When choosing shirts, T-shirts, and sweatshirts, make sure they don't fit too tightly and that you can move your arms up and down freely. Be sure to check that the long sleeves end at wrist level and cover it.
   • If you are buying jeans, make sure the button and zipper are flat against your body when you zip them up. While in the fitting room, touch your toes and bend your knees to see if you can move around in your jeans. If they are a little loose at the waist, but fit perfectly in other places, get a belt.
   • When shopping for clothing for special occasions, such as dancing, keep in mind that dresses can usually be hemmed to fit better. Very few people have dresses that fit so perfectly that they don't need to be customized later!
4. 4 Style your hair in a way that makes you comfortable and makes you feel pretty. Wash your hair in the morning and dry your hair before styling. If you like the way your hair looks naturally, don't do anything with it after drying. Also, a great way to draw attention to your beautiful hair is with curls, especially if you usually go with straight hair! The most important thing is that you are happy with the way your hairstyle looks.
   • For a quick and easy solution, tie your hair into a high ponytail or braid if you have long hair.
   • If you have short hair, wear a headband to keep it from falling on your face.
5. 5 Apply makeup to highlight your natural beauty. Most boys don't really understand the meaning of makeup, but it can be useful for building self-confidence. If you have a blemish on your face, you can cover it up with concealer. To draw attention to your eyes, apply one or two coats of mascara.
   • Keep in mind that catchy colored eyeshadow or bright lipstick can turn guys off, so it's best to showcase your natural beauty.
   • Don't worry if you have skin problems like redness or acne. Many girls face these problems, but most of them can be eliminated by performing daily skin care routines. To do this, use cleansers, moisturizers, and spot-treat problem areas.
6. 6 Take care of your body. One of the best ways to attract a guy is to make sure you look fresh and tidy. Make sure to shower every day, wear deodorant, brush your teeth, exercise, and eat healthy foods. Getting enough sleep at night and drinking water will also help improve skin condition and mood throughout the day.
   • Men are attracted to different types of women, so don't desperately want to lose weight to match the pretty girl in your head. As long as you are healthy and confident, boys will love you!

Method 2 of 3: Be Attractive

1. 1 Smileto appear open and available for communication. It is scientifically proven that guys find girls with a smile more attractive, especially in situations where you want him to come up to you. If you want to talk to a guy, smile at him to let him know that you like him and that you will be happy to talk.
   • However, don't feel obligated to look happy all the time. It's okay to experience other emotions, and there is no need to smile if you don't want to.
2. 2 Exude confidence through behavior, intelligence and appearance. Sitting up straight and making eye contact with your guy will show him that you are confident.When communicating, speak clearly and loudly enough so that he can hear you. If you share your passion, demonstrate your knowledge!
   • If you are shy when it comes to meeting new people, focus on listening and reacting to the words of the guy you like. Don't forget that you are smart and funny, and he can see it too!
   • Don't brag about your accomplishments or skills to a guy. This can scare him away and make him feel inferior. Sure, you can mention your accomplishments, but be sure to let other people take part in the conversation!
3. 3 Express an open mind and respect during the conversation. Everyone is attracted by people who are open to new experiences and information. If you talk to your guy about something you disagree with, listen to his position and encourage him to listen to your point of view. Open-mindedness is especially important when it comes to meeting new people.
   • This does not mean that you should change your mind if you disagree with the guy on a certain issue. The main thing is to show respect for his position, even if you strongly disagree with it.
4. 4 Avoid drama and gossip between friends and other guys. Guys find gossip and dramatic relationships unnecessary and incomprehensible. If you are having a fight with friends or if you don't like one of your exes, try not to talk about it at first. Many guys think so - if a girl finds out relations with other people, then the same fate awaits them.
   • Having a positive and happy friendship is a sign that tells your guy that you are capable of having a healthy relationship. Even if you have a tense relationship with your friends right now, try to focus on the positive aspects of your friendship!

Method 3 of 3: Like a guy

1. 1 Compliment him based on what you like about him. Being nice is a great way to make your boyfriend feel more comfortable around you. Give genuine and specific compliments and say them with a smile so that he understands that you are not teasing him. Sometimes it's best to let go of compliments when you’re spending time alone so that other people don’t scoff at it.
   • For example, if you both love sports, you could say something like, "I like your Artyom Dziuba shirt, did you watch the match last night?"
   • If you're working on a school project together, let him know you admire his intelligence by saying something like, "This is a great idea, I would never have thought about it!"
2. 2 Ask him questions about his hobbies and interests. Focus on questions that require explanation, not simple yes or no answers. If you know you have common interests, such as music or sports, ask your boyfriend questions to engage him in the conversation. Let him talk while you listen and insert comments from time to time.
   • The best way to get to know a guy is to try to figure out how you would like him if you weren't in love with him.
   • Letting him talk will show that you want to get to know him better and that you are a good listener.
3. 3 Show your best side during the conversation. Think about how you behave with your friends and how easy it is for you to communicate with them. Try to act the same way with the guy you like when discussing things that both of you are interested in, such as music, sports, or movies. Feel free to share your opinions and thoughts so that he can get to know the real you.
   • If your guy seems to be showing less interest after you started hanging out with him, don't worry. It just means that it doesn't suit you.
4. 4 Think of an excuse to touch his hand. Body language and touch is a great way to communicate to a guy that you like him without words. Sit next to him with your knees touching, and reach out to touch his arm or leg when he says something funny.This will send a signal to the guy that you see him as someone more than just a friend.
   • Do not make too explicit gestures, for example, do not grab his hand for no reason. He may be scared or think that you have the wrong impression about your relationship. Better to make small gestures to find out how he is feeling.
5. 5 Send him messages or like him under his Instagram and Twitter posts. It might sound like a little mundane, but guys are surprised when girls are confident enough to show interest in public places, including social media. Just write that you saw a thing that reminded you of him, and this already guarantees that he will think about you too!
   • The message you send can even be the start of a full-fledged conversation that brings you closer and provides topics for a live conversation. Send uncomplicated and flirty messages until you spend time with the guy and understand how he is feeling.
   • Be careful not to overwhelm it with notifications by sending multiple messages in a row or by “like” more than two posts at a time. When replying, send one or two messages, and then wait for a reaction.
6. 6 Take time to be alone. Sometimes the behavior of guys changes when they are alone with the girls. Invite him to do a project together, or even just chat with him in between classes. This will give you time to understand how he treats you when no one is around, and it will give him the opportunity to ask you out on a date.
   • Most guys hesitate to ask a girl out in front of their friends because they will feel embarrassed if they are turned down. Some time alone will give the guy the opportunity to talk to you without any pressure.

Tips

• If a guy doesn't show interest in you, don't take it personally. This does not mean that he does not like you! Perhaps he does not know how to show it or hesitate to express his feelings.