Content

• Steps
• Part 1 of 2: How to properly invite
• Part 2 of 2: The Invitation
• Tips
• Warnings

Have you already got your eye on the special girl you want to invite to the prom? Not only will you invite a girl to the ball, it will be a magical experience for both, but it can make the girl feel cool knowing that someone wants to go with her to such a special event. There are several steps you can take to make this invitation truly memorable.

Steps

Part 1 of 2: How to properly invite

1. 1 Find out if she has already planned to go to prom with someone. If so, it’s better to back off right away. Do not think that she will give up everything and agree to go with you, do not engage in self-deception. Your chances of her agreeing (suddenly she changes her mind) are slim.
   • Look at her behavior. If you don't want someone to know that you are interested in her, you can just wait and watch. Girls tend to like to show off their dates. You need to know if she goes on dates.
   • Ask your friends or a friend to ask her friends. Asking her friends what your chances are can lead to the girl eventually figuring out that you were interested in her. To avoid this, ask one of your friends to ask one of her friends. Coward!
   • Ask her yourself. If you’re that straightforward and don’t think you’ll be worried about the consequences, ask her directly. Just ask: I wonder if you have someone to go to the ball with?
     • If she says no and seems a little shy looking at you hopefully, go ahead and ask her head-on. If she says no, but continues to say that she should be invited soon and looks a little disinterested, it may take a little longer.
2. 2 Become friends with her if you haven't already. She will most likely agree to go to the ball with someone she knows. Use every communication opportunity without putting pressure on her or getting on her nerves: help with research projects, sit next to each other at lunch if you are going to invite her to a party. Take every opportunity to get to know her better.
   • Try to be discreet when talking to her. It's really hard to do when you like someone, but remember that your stakes will be low at the end of the day. If you ask her and she says no, this is not the end of the world. You will eventually invite another girl, who, in the end, may turn out to be even better.
   • When you are talking to her, try asking questions about her.This is an opportunity to talk about yourself, your interests and aspirations. Focus on her at the beginning of the conversation and over time the conversation will move to you.
3. 3 Flirt with her a little. This will increase your chances of getting her if she begins to see romantic interest in you. You can start to get romantic, start to flirt slowly but surely. Everyone flirts differently, but there are a couple of flirting basics that every guy should know.
   • Compliments from time to time. Compliment her personality and sometimes her appearance. When complimenting her appearance, avoid touching intimate areas and stick to:
     
     • Eye. "Your eyes match the color of your blouse. Did you dress like that on purpose?"
     • Smiles. "Your smile illuminates the entire room. Every time you smile!"
     • Style. "I really like your style. I think a lot of other girls are secretly jealous of you too."
     • Hair. "You have great hair. How did you do that?"
   • Break down the communication barrier slowly. Get in the habit of contacting her slowly and at her own pace. Girls don't like guys who constantly touch them every time they talk, so don't overdo it. Focus on these little things:
     
     • Touching her hand, arm, shoulder and in reverse order, accentuating your conversation on some points. If you don't know her at all, you will have to wait a bit until you start breaking the barrier.
     • Do not go into threatening or sensitive areas such as the thighs, abdomen, and neck. There are strictly off-limits areas while you meet.
     • Playfully touch it after you get closer. You can try tickling, for example, if you want to cheer her up. Make sure she's in a playful mood before doing this.
4. 4 Chat with other girls. Girls love guys who can impress other girls. On the one hand, this suggests that other girls trust you. Second, it will let her know what other girls think you are interesting. Spending time with other girls will highlight your potential. This is a good idea, especially because she will see that you have a choice.

Part 2 of 2: The Invitation

1. 1 Try inviting her in person. Asking her in person creates a real and physical bond between the two of you and gives you a better chance of getting consent from her. This is because (for better or worse), when the person is standing in front of you, it is much more difficult to refuse. If you can muster the courage to ask her in person, you will increase your chances of getting the answer you want.
   • If you can't ask her in person, consider writing a letter and delivering it to her. Do it romantically, don't overdo it. You want to let her know that you like her, but you don't want her to think that you are the creepy and obsessed type. Give the invitation to her in person or put it in her locker.
   • As a last resort, invite her via chat or message. This option is really not ideal, but sometimes life prepares you for surprises. Try to find out her answer if she has already been invited to the prom. If she doesn't answer, go up and ask her. Beware, as your chances of success by chatting or using a message are much lower than a personal invitation or even a letter.
2. 2 Look presentable. She cannot go to prom with you if you have bad breath, disheveled hair, and / or oily skin. Don't change too much in yourself to please her, but remember to practice good hygiene:
   • Brush your teeth every morning before school, but especially before inviting her. You must have a fresh breath when you talk to her.
   • Take a shower if you are dirty. If you have rowing or soccer classes before school, for God's sake, don't miss your morning shower. Cleanliness is next to godliness, do you understand?
   • Don't spray yourself with cologne too vigorously.Contrary to popular belief, spraying herself with a huge amount of cologne won't be winning in her eyes. One spray, no more, or even better - your natural shine of purity.
   • Clothes to impress. You don't have to wear a suit and tie when you invite her, but you want to impress! Try to look really good, but not like you came straight from the 50s.
3. 3 Smile at her when making eye contact. You smile when you are happy, but did you know that smiling can also be the cause of happiness? Researchers have found that smiling can actually improve mood organically and make painful moments less painful. The happier you are, so she will be happier too. And if that doesn't make your chances higher, what then?
4. 4 Be yourself, breathe deeply and relax. If you're an ordinary funny guy, you don't have to play super serious. If you are an ordinary serious guy, don't try to be a joker. Nerves are likely to get in the way of yourself and things can get a little out of control, but usually things aren't as bad as you think.
   • Consider the situation in terms of risk and reward. You want the lowest risk and high reward, and that's exactly what you get. (You must be a bettor). The risk is that she will say no. You will be embarrassed for an hour and then you will move on. The reward is yes, and you don't have to read to go down the list of why it's good!
5. 5 Ask her. This is the moment you've been waiting for. Depending on your personality, you can ask her in different ways. Here are some ideas for you:
   • Be creative. Especially for the girls who are close to you or may be waiting for your invitation:
     • Candles on her road, which are laid out "Ball?" Be there when she goes outside.
     • Write "Ball" on a piece of paper, laminate it and then cut it into a puzzle. (Alternatively, you can buy pre-disassembled puzzle pieces to write on). Let her collect.
     • Make your own brand of soda by inviting her to the ball. Then stick the label on the soda bottle and give it to her.
   • Be honest. These are more emotional options for inviting a girl to prom. These are old book tricks and this is why they work very well:
     • "I know we're just friends right now, but there's no one I'd rather take to prom. Will you come with me?"
     • "I just wanted to ask you for a long time, but I am so embarrassed in the company of beautiful girls. Will you go to the ball with me?"
     • "I've been waiting for this day so much, and now, probably, I'll ask directly: Will you go to the ball with me?"
6. 6 Accept rejection in stride. We all deal with rejections. If you have never been refused, then you have not tried. If your hopes are not met, do not get angry, do not be sad, and do not try to condemn her. She probably has a good reason for her answer, and if she doesn't, you probably didn't really want to go to the ball with her yourself.
   • Try to keep a smile on your face, look into her eyes and say something like, "This is perfectly normal, I understand, I hope we can still be friends." You never know that good old decency can still be useful to you.

Tips

• If you are not sure if she will say yes, then ask her when there are not too many people around. If she says no, you don't want everyone to see it.
• If you are nervous, take a few deep breaths in and out, be nice and polite, and remember that it is not the end of the world if she brings you down from heaven.
• Remember that the girl is looking forward to prom, and she will probably never forget how you invite her.
• Be relaxed. When you are feeling good and relaxed, this is the best time to invite a nice, friendly girl.
• If you find it helpful to ask in a creative manner, it shows that you have put in the extra time and effort to invite (this adds personality to the approach).
• If you know she will say no, do not invite her. This will be embarrassing for her, especially if you are friends and it can ruin your friendship.
• Don't invite a girl to a ball just because you think she is "hot." She would rather be around someone who loves her personality, and only then her looks.
• You can make an impressive gesture in a public place, but only if you are sure that she will respond well. If she's the kind of shy girl you shouldn't try, because she'll probably get embarrassed and reject you.
• Don't overdo it or humiliate yourself.
• Be considerate and flirty. If she sees that you are nice and sweet, she will most likely say yes. If you are stingy, she will most likely refuse you.
• If she says she needs time to think, just smile and back off. Give her time and do not rush to answer - she will return to you.
• Look at examples of other guys. If they match all the tips in this article (charming, cute, romantic, affectionate, nice, kind, flirty, etc.), then maybe you should follow them.

Warnings

• Don't pester her if she says no or she might ruin your chances by telling everyone her friends that you are desperate.
• Don't brag about your "hot" date if and when she says yes, she doesn't want to be a trophy girl.
• Don't lose your temper and don't get upset if she says no. Remember, there will always be someone else to go to prom with.
• Be yourself. You don't want her to fall in love with someone but you?
• Do not ask - it is childish and annoying, and most importantly, it will not convince her to go with you.
• Don't act like you're sorting things out, like you want to get it over with as soon as possible.