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Do you find that you bother too much about your boyfriend? Is your mind constantly occupied with thoughts about him? Do you love him or do you want him in such a way that it hurts? If you answered yes to the above questions, and you want to change the current situation, then read on.

Steps

1. 1 Remember that you were born as a person. Realize that you were born alone and not with your boyfriend. You lived your life before he appeared on the horizon, and everything was fine with you, but never forget that you were born as a person.
2. 2 Don't let your past relationships and previous experiences influence your present, as the past refers only to the past, and the present moment around you is a completely different situation, so act accordingly. It is not entirely wise to behave meticulously, idolizing your boyfriend and adjusting to his mores just in order to maintain a relationship with him.
3. 3 Know that men enjoy their personal space. If you are constantly around him, he may feel like a prisoner. Let him go for a walk with friends and spend the time as he wants, so that he then comes back cheerful and cheerful.
4. 4 Be more confident in yourself. Men like women who are confident. When a man sees a woman who can stand up for herself with grace, he considers her a healthy partner with whom he can build a favorable relationship.
   • Men like women who look after and take good care of themselves.
   • Remember to be confident, not presumptuous. From time to time, ask him for advice on how to act in a particular situation, and sometimes share your feelings so that he can feel like a part of the relationship.
5. 5 Pamper yourself once a week (or more often). Go to a massage or beauty salon for a manicure, pedicure, or new hairdo. If you want to save some money, light some candles and take a hot bubble bath while listening to relaxing music, then cover your body with toning cream.
   • Remember, if you stop caring for yourself, then you risk losing your attractiveness and charm - something that made him liked you in the first place.
6. 6 Take time for yourself. Take a day off and spend it alone. Use this time to connect with your inner self. Turn off your phone and go wherever you want in private. Loneliness can sometimes help us know ourselves. You can pamper yourself, listen to your favorite music, watch TV or your favorite movie, read a book, go for a walk in the park and watch the sunset. It will help you realize that you need to love yourself before someone else loves you.
7. 7 Find a hobby. We all have talent, but we also need to develop it to get better. A hobby will not only allow you to take a break from your relationship, but it will also increase your self-esteem and self-confidence, which will give you health and happiness. Do anything like painting, playing a musical instrument, fishing, pottery, knitting, reading, and more.
   • If you find it difficult to find your hobby, then you can try out many different areas of art or sports to determine what you like best.
   • Sign up for a dance, singing, or book club to make new acquaintances while you do your favorite thing, which will make the process more interesting.
8. 8 Don't forget about the people who were in your life before you met your boyfriend. You were most likely surrounded by friends, family, and family before you entered into a relationship with him. Do not forget about them and do not break the connection with them, as these people will always love and respect you much more than your boyfriend.
9. 9 Meet new people and make new acquaintances. Don't devote all your time and interest to your boyfriend. Set goals and objectives, surround yourself with new people, and be friendly.
10. 10 Make a schedule. Plan times and dates ahead of time to find time for yourself.
11. 11 Remember your other roles as well. You are now someone's wife, girlfriend, but you are also daughter, sister, mother, cousin, aunt and, most importantly, yourself.
12. 12 Find harmony between your life and your relationship with him. Do not devote all the time to yourself, as this will not help. You are in a relationship, and therefore share love and attention with your partner.
13. 13 Check your self-esteem. The most common cause of a boyfriend craze is low self-esteem. Think if this is true, define the problem and find the answer to your question. Believe in yourself.

Tips

• Keep a diary of your feelings, which will help you make changes where necessary, which will help you identify all possible reasons for not having a healthy relationship.