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• Steps
• Part 1 of 2: Preparing for Contraception
• Part 2 of 2: Choosing a contraceptive medication

Contraception is a method to prevent unwanted pregnancies. Although it is effective against pregnancy, not all contraceptive methods protect partners from sexually transmitted infections. If you are sexually active but do not want to tell your parents about it, there are several ways to practice safe sex without your parents knowing about it.

Attention:the information in this article is for informational purposes only. Talk to your doctor before using any medication.

Steps

Part 1 of 2: Preparing for Contraception

1. 1 Find out about your rights. Check the laws in your country or region. Contraceptive pills often require a prescription from a doctor.Teenagers under 18 often need parental permission and a doctor can notify the parent. In some countries, adolescents are allowed to visit doctors from the age of 16 without parental consent.
   • Some private clinics do not require a passport and parental presence, which means that you can visit a doctor and get a prescription (or even the contraceptive pills themselves) without your parents knowing.
   • You may be able to visit a free clinic without informing your parents. Before taking contraceptive pills, be sure to see your doctor, you have the right to medical attention.
2. 2 Find the right clinic. Once you are familiar with the laws in your country and region, find the right clinic, clinic or medical center.
   • Even if laws do not allow minors to purchase contraceptive pills without parental permission, you can most likely go to a private clinic and your doctor will advise you on your options.
   • Call a clinic or health center and inquire about juvenile rights. Remember that you have the right to ask for this information.
   • Be sure to inform the clinic that you want to maintain the confidentiality of all information. This can be important to keep your doctor's appointment a secret, and if you ask again and make sure everything is confidential, you can have peace of mind.
3. 3 Think about payment methods. Contraception (and doctor visits if you go to a private clinic) is not free, so be prepared for some financial expense.
   • Some private clinics from time to time hold promotions that allow you to get a doctor's consultation free of charge or at low prices.
4. 4 Be aware of the risks. Since many contraceptives must be injected into a woman's body, side effects are possible. Contraception must be used properly to prevent pregnancy.
   • If you are taking pills, take them as directed by your doctor. If you miss even one pill, you risk getting pregnant. The more pills you miss, the higher the risk.
   • Some birth control pills have side effects. To understand the potential risks, ask your doctor or read the relevant information in the drug label or on the Internet.
5. 5 Consider talking openly about contraception with your parent or guardian. Consider telling your parents that you are sexually active and asking them for advice on contraception. Many teenagers are embarrassed to admit it - moreover, they are embarrassed to even mention any mention of sex. They think they will upset or anger their parents. Think about the reactions of your parents or guardians - do you really think that you will have problems? Or will they accept your choice?
   • One way to understand how parents will react is to give hints. Say that there was a sex education lesson at school, or that free condoms are available at school. Tell that your girlfriend (or boyfriend) has had sex and say that she has some questions. Just ask about sex. The parents' reaction will help to understand how willing they are to accept and discuss issues related to sex.
   • Think about how your parents feel about your boyfriend (or girlfriend). How strict are they? Are they glad you started dating? How will they react when you kiss?
   • If you are willing to talk to your parents, then be honest. By discussing the topic of choosing contraceptives, you will show that you have a responsible and mature sexual attitude.

Part 2 of 2: Choosing a contraceptive medication

1. 1 Get a prescription for your drugs. Anti-pregnancy pills, also called oral contraceptives, are taken by mouth and contain hormones. When taken correctly, oral contraceptives are 99.9% effective against pregnancy.
   • Hormonal contraceptive pills must be taken daily, and preferably at the same time.
   • If you are trying to hide from your parents that you are taking hormonal contraceptives, take them while you are alone, such as in the morning or evening. If you plan to spend the night away from home, take the tablets with you so that you don't forget to take them.
   • Find a safe place to hide your pills. Some parents are in the habit of checking cabinets and tables, bedside tables and even under the mattress, so come up with more original places to store your pills. Put them in a DVD box or old tutorial. You can put them in a coin purse, in a small pocket in your purse, or in socks in your closet. Above all, you need to make sure that this place is not too trivial or obvious where parents can check.
   • Many oral contraceptives are quite expensive (RUB 1,500–3,000 per pack). If you plan to use your pocket money to pay for drugs without informing your parents, ask your doctor to recommend cheaper alternatives.
   • Ask your doctor for free sample packs, sometimes reps bring doctors free samples that can be used for one to three months.
   • Oral contraceptives do not protect against STIs, and this is extremely important to keep in mind. Protection from pregnancy does not mean protection from STIs and HIV.
2. 2 Select the IUD. An intrauterine device (IUD) is a small T-shaped device that is inserted into the uterus. The IUD should only be inserted by a doctor. IUDs are extremely effective in preventing pregnancy.
   • It is easy to hide the presence of an IUD from parents. The only person who will know that you have an IUD installed will be your sexual partner.
   • The IUD is a long-acting contraceptive. They can be installed for 5-12 years. They can be removed, but it is not recommended to remove the spirals just like that, without a real need. Installing an IUD is a serious step, so think carefully before deciding on a procedure.
   • The cost of an IUD varies but is generally quite high. Be sure to talk to your doctor about the pros and cons of installing an IUD.
   • IUDs do not protect against STIs or HIV.
3. 3 Consider a patch, ring, or injection. In addition to the pill, which requires punctuality and consistency, and the IUD, which is expensive, there are other methods of contraception. Perhaps you will find them more convenient.
   • The patches are applied to the arm once a week for three weeks in a row. During the fourth week, the patch is not applied. A prescription from a doctor is also required to buy patches.
   • Band-aids are not the best choice if you want to hide it from your parents, because if they see the band-aid, they will probably ask what it is. If you want to hide the use of contraceptive drugs from your parents, then you should choose patches only as a last resort.
   • In the case of an injection method of pregnancy control, hormones are injected into the arm. The effect of the injection lasts three months. This is an extremely effective method of contraception, as long as you are injecting regularly. This is the most confidential way to protect yourself from pregnancy, because neither your parents nor your partner will know that you have given the injection unless you tell them yourself.
   • A contraceptive ring is a ring that is inserted into your vagina. The ring is left inside for three weeks and then removed for one week. The ring is completely safe and effective, but it requires a doctor's prescription to get it. Parents will not know that you have a ring installed if you carefully hide the packaging and discreetly discard the used ring and box from the new ring. However, your partner will know that you have a vaginal ring installed.
   • The cost of these methods varies from 100 to 5000 rubles.
   • None of these methods protect against STIs or HIV.
4. 4 Buy condoms. One of the easiest contraceptive methods is the use of condoms. There are male and female condoms, they may differ in other parameters, but you can buy condoms at any pharmacy and in most supermarkets.
   • Hide condoms in a safe place. For example, you can put them in a DVD cover, in an old book, in a closet with socks, or in a wallet. Avoid placing condoms in obvious enough places, especially where parents might check, such as under the bed, in the pillow, or in the bedside table.
   • Condoms not only protect against pregnancy, but also against STIs and HIV.Even if you use other contraceptives, you must use condoms. Protecting and preventing STIs and HIV is critical to your safety, as responsibility is the first thing to remember when having sex. Condoms protect you and your partner from many infections.
   • Use condoms correctly to avoid pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases. Condoms should be worn before exchanging any body fluids. Do not forget to check if the condom is well-worn, otherwise there is a high risk of rupture, and this, in turn, is fraught with pregnancy and infection with STIs.
   • Use a condom only once. Never reuse a condom. This means that you always have to have condoms on hand, otherwise it will be irresponsible.
   • Don't think that only the man is responsible for buying condoms. Women who think about their safety always carry condoms with them, and this is completely normal. Do not believe those who say that sex without a condom is much more pleasant, in fact, sex is only pleasant when it is safe. Be responsible for your own body and sexual health, whether you are a boy or a girl. Practice only safe sex.
5. 5 Keep your doctor's appointments secret. Regardless of which contraceptive method you use, you need to see your doctor. This circumstance greatly increases the risk that parents will find out about everything. Be especially careful when going to the clinic, try to do it in such a way that you are not asked unnecessary questions.
   • If possible, visit a clinic in another city, especially if you live in a small town, because rumors spread very quickly. The doctor and the medical staff of the clinic are not allowed to tell anyone about your visit, but in a small town there is a high probability of meeting someone they know. If you live in a big city, you are unlikely to have problems with this, however, it would still be better to see a doctor in another area.
   • Hide all documents related to your doctor's appointment. Remove all papers from the clinic in a book or in a folder with other documents.
   • Do not give your doctor your home phone number. You can give your mobile number if you are sure that no one will take your phone, but you hardly want the doctor to call your home number and accidentally tell your parents about your visit.
   • While you don't have to go to a doctor to buy condoms, be careful when buying them. Buy them in a store or pharmacy, where acquaintances will not see you. If you know that friends of your parents or the parents of your friends can visit this or that store, go to another store or pharmacy for condoms, because you hardly want someone to see you with a package of contraceptives and tell your parents about it.