Content

• Steps
• Part 1 of 3: Understand What's Really Happening
• Part 2 of 3: Offer your help
• Part 3 of 3: Be Friendly
• Tips
• Warnings

Do you like your ex-boyfriend again, but he hates you? Or are you in love with a guy who doesn't pay enough attention to you? The "popular" girl (who everyone loves) hates you, but do you have mutual friends? So how do all your haters like you?

Steps

Part 1 of 3: Understand What's Really Happening

1. 1 Find out if this person really hates you. Ask why they treat you like they harbor a grudge, or why they just decided they don't like you. This can be done with a simple phrase such as "I noticed that you don't like me very much; did I do something that upset you or made you feel anxious?"
   • If they feel embarrassed when they try to explain why they were acting so hateful towards you, just smile and say, "It's okay; let's be friends."
   • If they tell you the reason for the hateful attitude, then answer: "Okay, I will try to correct myself; I will try to no longer do what you dislike."
   • If the reason for the hateful attitude is not justified, then answer: "I do not understand why you hate me for this; no one is perfect, but we can still become friends!"

Part 2 of 3: Offer your help

1. 1 If you are sitting next to this person (in any of the classes in your school), then offer him / her your help. Find an opportunity to support this person and help him, especially in those areas in which you are most powerful.
   • If they ask you to answer a question, then give them the answer.
   • If they have nothing with them to eat at lunchtime, offer them something that you have.
   • If they joke about something that they and their friends find amusing, then laugh together.
2. 2 Play along without slavish humiliation. If you demonstrate to them that you are willing to be useful and not pay attention to their rudeness and anger, then it is quite possible that they will soon realize that they are relying on you to solve some issues. Over time, it can even lead to friendship.
   • Do not try to be helpful in something beyond your ability or contrary to generally accepted rules. Trying to win someone's trust by hurting yourself or doing a disservice is pointless, and any person who expects such a sacrifice from you is not worthy of your concern at all.

Part 3 of 3: Be Friendly

1. 1 Try to call them. Take the first step towards renewing your friendship. Invite them for a cup of tea, go to a movie, go on a double date, or suggest some other time together. Meet and talk to each other. Eventually, you will find that you do have something in common.
   • If they do not pick up the phone because they have fixed your number on their phone and really do not want to talk to you, then, if possible, try to contact someone else (whom you trust) in order for him / her to talk to them directly with the aim of correcting relationships.
   • For children: if your parents are on good friends, then you will see each other much more often. You can even ask your parents to talk to their parents.
2. 2 Compliment the other person sincerely. Say something good about your hair, your bag, your clothes, your shoes, anything that you can give positive attention to.

Tips

• Don't overdo it in your desire to make a good impression on the other person. Behave naturally, be yourself. If you are in complete despair, then perhaps you should look for other friends you can rely on; because even if you make friends with this person, you probably won't be able to trust him as much as you trust your real friends.
• Try to find out what this person really is. Find something in common that you can push off from.
• Be polite. When this person visits you, it is necessary to follow the rules of polite communication, for example, asking the questions: "would you like to have something to drink?", "Are you cold?" or "are you hungry?"

Warnings

• Never share any negative personal information about yourself in order to appear "natural"; the other person might look down on you. Be positive and show your positive sides - those traits that will make this person want to be around you for as long as possible.
• Don't betray your personal principles. You can change bad habits and look after your appearance with any means available, as well as work on improving your natural character traits, but never try to drown out your real personality just to fit into your social circle. A delicate balance must be struck between self-improvement and self-deprecation.
• When you try to make a good impression on them, they may feel like you are showing off. Try to smooth out this moment.
• For children: if your parents do not like this person, or his / her parents do not like you, then they may not want you to see each other; so it might be a waste of time.
• Another tip: try to send her a gift, you can even leave it on the doorstep. Send her a message in which try to clearly explain why you behaved the way you did it, because she also wants to understand it. And above all, try to be honest, people can feel it.