Content

• Steps
• Tips
• Warnings

Are you shy about girls? Don't worry, you are not the only one. Many guys feel uncomfortable around girls, and that's okay. Girls don't bite! They are the same people as the guys.

Steps

1. 1 Don't put them on a pedestal. Many men elevate women to the rank of goddesses, which is wrong, because they are living beings just like men - they eat, sleep, go to work, etc. See them as ordinary people, and remember: they also have their fears.
2. 2 Spend as much time as possible with the girls. You need practice! Start a conversation yourself, and there is absolutely no need to talk about higher mathematics or the discoveries of Einstein. Even if you say something stupid, don't worry, it happens. Perhaps the next day they will not remember it. If you want to feel comfortable around the girls - spend as much time with them as possible - you can't do without it.
3. 3 Take your friends to help. If they meet girls anywhere (unless it's a romantic date), then go with them, as you need to practice spending time and chatting with girls.
4. 4 Try to find out a girl's phone number. A girl shouldn't think that you want to ask her out on a date (unless of course you're really going to ask her out). It is often easier to start communication just when people do not see each other in person (especially if they don't know each other very well).

Tips

• The more you communicate with girls, the faster your shyness and insecurity will disappear.
• Keep calm.
• Try hanging out with girls who are several years younger than you.
• Talk about topics that are familiar to you best.
• Chat with girls outside the school grounds.
• To improve your eloquence, you need to talk as often as possible, try not to close your mouth at all - at first it will seem strange to you, but then you will get used to it.
• Remain yourself.
• Imagine that you are not talking with girls, but with guys, but only without obscenities, and then they will definitely not think that you are showing your interest in them.
• Talk to girls with the same confidence you use with women and girls in your family - mom, sisters, aunts, etc.
• Do not get angry and do not harass yourself with the thought that other guys easily communicate with girls - each of us has his own character and temperament.
• Always be polite and friendly.

Warnings

• When you talk about things that are familiar to you, make sure that the girl is also interested in it.
• If you are too kind to a girl, she may think that you like her. If you do not have this intention, then do not give this girl more attention than you give other girls.
• Do not chase the girl - she may become afraid of you.
• Of course, if you are very humble by nature, then all this will be a real challenge for you, but it will be worth it!