Content

• Steps
• Part 1 of 3: Start with the basics
• Part 2 of 3: Know what to say
• Part 3 of 3: Get creative
• Tips

Attention:this article is intended for people over 18 years of age.

Everyone wants a little romance. It is very useful for relationships because it brings you closer and allows you and your significant other to get to know each other better. Getting more romantic isn't hard, and good results can only be achieved by mastering a few basic movements.

Steps

Part 1 of 3: Start with the basics

1. 1 Hug your soul mate. Hugging is a wonderful romantic part and doesn't require any skill, preparation, or extra effort from you. Hugs are also a great transition to almost any activity in the bedroom, from foreplay to serious conversation. Don't rush at this stage. Cuddle longer, about 20 minutes, before moving on to something else. Use this time to talk to her, gently stroke her body, hair, or run your finger along her collarbone.
   • A hug is great for starting up a conversation about your relationship and the future, which can be a very romantic moment for partners who have been together for over a year.
   • In fact, you can talk about anything.However, be aware that talking about going to the store on Saturday will not be so romantic. Don't forget this.
   • Don't plan romance in bed or say directly that you want to have sex. Being romantic means being gentle, so you'll either have to wait until you're in bed as usual or find another way to get her into bed and set the tone for romance. Flirt, then take her hand and take her to the bed.
2. 2 Kiss or make love. If you think you've completely mastered the kissing technique and have nowhere to improve further, think again. Everyone can improve their technique, and as we know from practice, execution is everything. Don't underestimate the importance of kissing and lovemaking, as they can both be very romantic. Break the stereotype about your kissing in favor of something new and exciting.
   • When it comes to kissing, you need to be creative. Kiss every freckle and mole. Paint your lips with lipstick and "draw" a heart of kisses.
3. 3 Give your soul mate a massage. Massage is an old but sure way to get more romantic. The massage is not only very relaxing but also leads to other romantic pursuits. The massage doesn't even have to be very strong. Light touches in the right places will be just as pleasant.
   • Pour a bottle of massage oil (or baby oil if it's easier to get it) into a bowl of warm water and warm your hands in it before applying the oil to her skin. The warmth of the hands will make the massage more pleasant.
4. 4 Surprise them with what they find under your clothes. The vast territories hidden under our streetwear belong only to us and our partners. Letting them look underneath their clothes can really take them by surprise, especially if you're the kind of person who doesn't usually do this kind of thing.
   • You can wear sexy lingerie, write a love message with a marker, or get creative with shaving (such as shaving your pubic hair or heart-shaped chest hair, although this isn't for everyone).
   • This means that the length of your clothes and underwear should be slightly longer. Forget about nondescript things with holes and blemishes and choose what suits your mood more.
5. 5 Take part in foreplay. If you haven't participated in foreplay up to this point, now is the time to start. If your foreplay was a little ... one-sided, now is the time to switch roles. By giving all your attention to satisfying your soul mate, you will thereby receive their attention and their gratitude.
   • To help men read this article. Oral sex is a good form of foreplay for women, as this is the most effective form of stimulation for her anatomy.
   • To help women, read this article. If you want to turn on your boyfriend, then put on sexy lingerie and let him slowly reveal it, like a New Year's gift.

Part 2 of 3: Know what to say

1. 1 Be open about your feelings. The best place to start is with how you feel. Don't think about speaking eloquently or making your words sound corny. As long as you speak from the bottom of your heart and are honest about your feelings, your partner will be touched. Tell your soul mate what she means to you and what your life has become with her. This will help them feel good and set a truly romantic mood.
   • For example, you might say something like this: “Without you, I felt completely lost. But when we are together, I feel that I have found my place, and now I will never be lost again. "
2. 2 Borrow words from others. You can also take the traditional route and use romantic songs, poems, and quotes to make your partner feel warm and pleasant. This works especially well if you use words from something that is very important to them.A quote from a favorite romantic moment in a movie, a favorite verse, or a favorite love song are all great things to add to the moment even more romance. Most importantly, don't be tasteless.
   • Good examples of classic poems include "Sonnet 116" by Shakespeare and "Somewhere I've never been, even overwhelmingly" by E.E. Cummings.
3. 3 Talk about the things you want for your soul mate. Talking about all the good things you want for your partner will help you express your love in a way that emphasizes them. It is very romantic and will warm their heart with feelings of love and affection.
   • You can talk about how much you want them to make their dreams come true, or about not worrying about the things that are happening to them now.
   • For example, you can say something like this: "I really want you to be able to see the world and see all the things that you told me about ... and I will do my best to make it happen."
4. 4 Tell them how sexy they are. Phrases about how sexy your partner is can be incredibly romantic. This is especially important when your partner does not see himself as an object of sexuality or someone to desire. So when you show them that you think of them that way, they start to feel better. By hearing how sexy you think they are, they will feel more comfortable and be able to spend more time in the bedroom.
   • Say something like, “You're so sexy about that. I feel like a teenager again ... "
5. 5 Talk sexy and dirty. We often think of sexual conversation as not very romantic, but it can be. Dirty and sexy conversations open up boundaries and bring you closer together, allowing you to freely talk about what you want and the things you like. This can be the key to making your relationship more satisfying and longer lasting.
   • Say something like this: "I love it when you do it with your tongue ..."

Part 3 of 3: Get creative

1. 1 Transform your bedroom into a retreat. You can truly surprise your partner by turning your bedroom into a romantic getaway. This is a great idea for birthdays or anniversaries, or as a very mundane gesture. Scatter flower petals and use scented candles for a more traditional look, or use props and decorations to create a themed evening.
   • For example, you can take incense, different fabrics, pillows, and perhaps apply a new coat of paint to give the room an Indian touch before you show your partner what you can learn from the Kama Sutra. You can also play music to delve deeper into this topic. Try including Ravi Shankar or Anushka Shankar for something more modern and sexy.
   • You can also buy fabrics with different patterns and hang them from the ceiling and from the walls, thereby turning an ordinary room into a love nest.
2. 2 Buy some chocolate body paint. Chocolate body paint is a great way to get more romantic (and delicious) with your soul mate. This paint can be easily purchased at sex shops or online stores. She lets you write love messages and play games using her skin and tongue!
   • You can even make your own chocolate body paint at home.
3. 3 Feed your partner. Prepare a sexy picnic in your bedroom with plenty of food to feed your partner in a fun way. You can indulge them with peeled grapes, chocolate covered strawberries, or spiced chocolate. Feed each other in turns and listen to sexy music. Before you know it, you’ll be ready to eat each other.
4. 4 Prepare a mini cinema. Going to the movies is romantic, but watching movies alone will be even more romantic.However, not everyone can afford to rent an entire movie theater for one date. So forget this idea and instead create a movie theater on your bed. Drag your TV into your room, or use your computer or laptop as a movie screen. Don't forget to make popcorn or candy so that your other half feels like you are in a movie theater.
   • It's a good idea to choose a movie that matters to both of you. For example, you might find the first movie you watched together.
5. 5 Prepare a photo session. A unique way to create a romantic atmosphere in the bedroom are ordinary and erotic photos of couples in love. This is when you are photographed in the bedroom, in a romantic setting. During this, you can either be completely naked or fully clothed. It's up to you, but you will enjoy having some of your sexy and romantic photos. It will also create associations for you. When you are in bed, you will remember the excitement and the feelings that you experienced while shooting.
   • You can find photographers specializing in this type of photography, or you can do it all yourself. Of course, it will be difficult for you to take photos of the two of you, but you can take many sexy photos of each other without feeling the discomfort of having another person in the room.

Tips

• Hug your significant other after making love.
• Kiss your partner while he or she speaks.
• Make the bed and clean the bedroom. Also, don't forget to turn down the lights.
• Prepare some light food and cuddle before making love.
• Play romantic music.
• Bring something delicious to bed: chocolate, strawberries, grapes, or even ice cubes.