How to chat with a guy you like

Author: John Stephens
Date Of Creation: 1 January 2021
Update Date: 29 June 2024
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What to Text A Guy You Like (Make Him Obsess Over You)
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Talking to a guy you have a crush on can be a stressful experience. You will worry about how you look, how you look and whether he will notice you. Making eye contact and talking about him will show him that you really care. Always be confident and honest with yourself throughout the conversation.

Steps

Part 1 of 3: Good looking

  1. Respect the beauty of the body. Each had a few outfits that made them feel more proud than the others in the closet; These are costumes that make them smile more brightly and stride more confidently than the others. Dress up like that in the closet as you prepare to talk to the guy you like. If he can't take his eyes off you, it seems he really notices.

  2. Don't overdo it. If a party dress is your number one choice — try out outfit number two. Please keep clothing appropriate for the context. He might get distracted if you wear a freakish outfit.
  3. Be comfortable. If you have thrown away your favorite outfit, that's okay. Go out to buy a new outfit, or pick another from your wardrobe. You'll want to be as comfortable as possible, while still looking good. This way, you no longer have to fidget with what you're wearing when you talk to him; you look like you're worried and make him feel uncomfortable. advertisement

Part 2 of 3: Talking to the guy


  1. Make a question. Ask open-ended questions to help him enter the conversation. Talk about all the topics that you are comfortable with. This makes him open to you and show off some of your interests. Have a few questions in mind before starting a conversation in case there is any silence.
    • "What do you think about last week's game?"
    • "Tell me your plans for the weekend?"
    • "What do you think about the end of that new movie?"

  2. Show interest. Pay attention to what they say. Show an interest in who they are and what they are talking about. If you bring up something he is interested in, chances are he will want to talk about it — with you — more. Don't act like you like something but don't. If you pretend, he may notice and react and no one wants to be deceived.
    • Don't be afraid of disagreements, but at the same time have an open view of their point of view.
  3. Always excited. Don't be a commentator and ask questions. Joking with him and laughing with his funny stories. Exciting his jokes will quickly attract his attention, even if they are boring. When you are happy and laughing, he will easily recognize that.
  4. Talk to the classroom. Do not curse or slander people. If he is talking about something he is genuinely interested in and interested in, cursing or defaming it will be an implicit automatic signal to him that he shouldn't like you. advertisement

Part 3 of 3: Be yourself

  1. Always uphold your values. Don't be so focused on impressing him that you have to lie about yourself. Do not deceive him about his interests and opinions. This not only shows him your bad qualities, but also puts you in trouble later. Share honest things about yourself. If your family, friends or personal interests are in your mind, talk about them. Don't be shy to talk about your strengths.
  2. Use eye contact. This is considered a non-verbal tool as important as your words. This method conveys confidence, sincerity, and respect. Eye contact will connect you and the guy.
    • You can even flirt with your eyes. Do this by maintaining eye contact for 2 or 3 seconds, then look away when you start the conversation. This will cause him to seek your eye once more, practicing this form of communication from time to time during your conversation.
    • You should know his eye color after the first conversation.
  3. Be confident. If you let your nervousness go, he will definitely feel uncomfortable. Be confident and proud of your unique and wonderful qualities. Express yourself in an upright position and speak clearly. Humping back and mumbling didn't look attractive at all. advertisement

Advice

  • If he cares, he will show it clearly through eye contact and body language. If that's the case, propose a date out together.
  • Don't overthink what you're going to say. That just adds tension.
  • If he doesn't like you, that's not the worst thing in the world. It is simply not your destiny. Keep your head up and look for another new person.
  • Make sure your breath smells like peppermint and you spray a few drops of perfume before you talk to him.