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Do you wish to make a lasting impression on a girl through just talking? Did you know that, once you've grabbed your audience's attention, your sweet, interesting personality is completely in control of the relationship? This article helps men understand how to talk to women to reveal their hidden charm.

Steps

Part 1 of 2: Getting Started

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   Starting a relationship, always initiate a conversation. Of course, this depends on each woman and the situation, if you do not want to step into the tracks of the majority of the boys, never ask a series of useless questions or try to find similarities between two people, this unintentionally puts pressure on the opponent. Conversations may take up 75% of the time, or it may be less. The purpose here is to define a unique personality as well as personal values. Try to keep the conversation fun, interesting, and positive. Is there any kind of "flirting" that you'd like to use during your outing? Take a look at the selection below:
   • Haughty but humorous guy:
     • "You may have heard this line so many times before, but you still have to say you're the most amazing woman I've ever seen ... in the last three minutes."
     • "Actually I don't want to go out with friends at all, but I have no regrets about tonight's outing because that way I have the chance to meet you right now."
   • The type of guy who is shy or shy:
     • "Sorry about the inconvenience, but I'm rather shy about dealing with lovely girls like you."
     • "I'm so glad you're still here. I've tried to draw the courage to talk to you for half an hour, and I'm pretty worried I'll cause embarrassment in front of you, a complete person. elegant. "
   • The bold, upright guy:
     • "Hello, my name is, what brought you here tonight?"
     • "This must be the part I introduced myself, then you laughed shyly and let me have a drink, right?"
     • "I'm trying to think of a good reason to talk to you, but nothing in mind. Or will I tell an interesting story that happened to me the other day?"

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   Avoid talking about serious topics like work, politics, or anything negative. Always master conversation, but don't try to overpower the conversation. Limit yourself from getting into interview situations by asking questions, like "Where are you from?" good "What are you doing here?" Instead, try to exploit the adventurous but also self-controlled side, and convey that energy.
   • If the other person has a topic that could steer the conversation in the wrong direction, skillfully turn the conversation in the other direction. Say things that are relevant to the main topic, but it should be fun, comfortable, and especially doesn't change what's being discussed.
   • In the event that the other person continues to address topics that distract your conversation, you have two viable options:
     • Exploiting all the elements of the topic, she seems to want to tell you the same.
     • Find the most polite way to get away from boring topics, rather than focusing on someone. A simple sentence like "It's fun talking to me" can also help you get out of this embarrassing situation.

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   Use a polite attitude to overcome past barriers. Most women say they already have a partner when they don't find themselves attractive enough. At the same time, the people who mentioned this issue actually have a boyfriend, by which point you are already close to the first obstacle. Don't get upset though, challenges are often created for us to overcome. Be selfless and let the past pass.
   • When a girl speaks "I have a boyfriend, you better not talk to me" Make a small smile, say that you are happy getting to know her, and look for another partner. Life is sometimes not as expected!
   • But if she does "I have a boyfriend" and stop there, you can continue: "No problem, I respect that. Would you mind if we kept in touch, like friends?" When consent is obtained, continue with the plan of pursuing the subject. Try, and you will be successful.
   • Never assume that you can get the phone number of someone in a loving or married relationship. In the event that a girl mentions her boyfriend, you should look the other way from that point unless it is your lifelong wish to get her number.

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   Not interested in the results. Don't worry too much about whether the other person is paying attention to you. If she gets attracted, it's your reward; otherwise, simply pass on to another object.
   • Not accepting hurt self-esteem, boys often stubbornly win the other's attention to the end, then even they will experience suffering, over and over again, because At any given time, they are bound to receive a rejection. Refusal is of course natural. If you fell down for just one opportunity now, you might miss out on many other opportunities in the future.
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Part 2 of 2: Determining Emotions

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   Do not pretend to begging for love. When a woman thinks, even for a moment, that she is more important to you than you are to her, you are at a disadvantage. Why? Usually, people want to show off a little before they get results, which makes the reward taste sweeter.
   • There are many ways you can show that you are not emotionally depressed, until now the best way is to get rid of the obsession with results (see above). Remember: the current girl, although quite beautiful, cheerful, and intelligent, is just one of the most beautiful, cheerful, and intelligent women on this planet. If the two of you are not able to move forward, there are still others waiting for you ahead.
   • Limit use of "sweet words" with the other party. In case you want to initiate the conversation with a compliment, let her know you are on her mind right now. In fact, women are so smart, they can even guess if you care about them especially without any clichéd praise. Therefore, it's a good idea to keep your flirty words and focus on impressing the other person with your intelligence, a sense of humor, and your point of view.

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   Use the "Release bait" method. How: Find out what is special about the person you are completely unaware of. Then, say you don't like that about a girlfriend. Because that's the thing are not She'll automatically explain it to you so you know she's not like that. This is called a standard, and we do this when we want to get someone's crush on. What you do is "lure"; Inadvertently she becomes more attractive in your eyes, maybe because you both share a similarity outside, or at least have similar views.

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   Calm before everything. Your priority is to remain comfortable, happy, because once you let go of your self-esteem (or try to forget) and your ego, when talking to an attractive, attractive target. , that is very wonderful. Flirt, tease, act carelessly if it's your own personality, and use sarcastic language (with a wry smile to let her know you're just kidding). Pretend you're having a discussion with an old friend.
   • If the person says something you disagree with, tell her straightforwardly. In other words, don't be shy. When disagreeing, do not be too harsh, do not be objectionable; you just need to give a valid explanation and state why you feel that way. Presented properly, politely, the conversation will become more interesting for both of you later. If you are confident, you can make fun of your partner if she disagrees with you (remember to smile at all times).
   • Be calm. Very, very calm. As a leader, you know exactly where you want to go and everything you say or do has a definite purpose. Nothing can falter you, not even be rejected. Obviously, you expect the best results but also prepare for failure. Why? You seem more flexible than the rigid poem by Keats!

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   Remember, when getting to know women, the key is time management. Does spending a fair amount of time in conversation bring you closer to your goals? Besides, the opponent may be attracted to the surrounding factors, so every minute is valuable. Instead with some realistic action, you will get his or her phone number in seconds.
   • You may find it completely helpful to say hello to a simple greeting before asking for a phone number, a dance, etc. That's because keeping a conversation funny, straight, or lively for long periods of time is difficult, no matter how dexterous you are. Don't drag your conversation on without stopping!

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   Finally, always evaluate the attractiveness and attractiveness of the other person. Pay attention to external body language, such as dilated pupils, relaxed smiling or emotional expressions. Based on the personality as well as the intelligence of the woman, they often display the above signs. With only experience, these symptoms can be easily recognized quickly. Listening to my hunch, the probability was quite high. Thank you for watching this article! advertisement

Advice

• Never force a girl to do what she doesn't like. This will cause immediate failure.
• Confident but not complacent.
• Always practice! Try to have a random chat with girls you come across on the street once a day. Remember that the right body language and tone of voice are the deciding factors for your charm!