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When you shop, go to sports shows, go to music, etc., have you ever wanted to get to know the girls you meet? Here are the steps to help you engage them.

Steps

Method 1 of 2: Make Her Happy

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   Get to know her. Talk to her and listen to her talk. Ask about her family and where she grew up, her beliefs and other politics, and ask her what she likes to do in her spare time. Don't be critical or rude at her responses: they are her own opinion, not yours! Respect her views, opinions, and beliefs. Girls often love to be respected. If you want to be charismatic, respecting her is the perfect start.
   • For example, ask about her hobbies, then ask her why she likes them. This is a great way to chat about her family and where she was born, ...

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   Find similarities. She likes Rock music ... you like Rock music ... and that's it! Now you both have something to talk about! Ask about the music she listens to, the movies she watches, and what she likes to do in her spare time. Find common ground as it will be a great opportunity for you to get acquainted and bond.

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   Be a good friend. Honestly, to be able to attract girls, you'll first have to be their friend. Making friends with her and letting her know how great she is is the best way to attract her. Show her how much happier she would be with you and how much happier you would be with her yourself.
   • Cheer her up when she goes through a bad day, help her stop thinking about it, be there when she needs it, and listen when she speaks.

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   Avoid acting eccentric. Don't stare at her and avoid looking into her eyes. Don't hang around her and then say nothing. Avoid staring .... parts of her body (though it sounds attractive). If you don't know her well, don't be tempted to have sex with her and avoid flirting with her. These will scare her off and will definitely make you less attractive. advertisement

Method 2 of 2: Be Great

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   Build self-esteem and confidence. Confidence and self-esteem are very attractive qualities. The girls will be "beaten" by the boys who have confidence in themselves and confidence in what they do. Build confidence by joining volunteer organizations, learning new skills, or traveling.
   • You can build your confidence by joining volunteer organizations like "Volunteers Asia (VIA)". This will be your chance to show yourself and others that you can do something to make a difference.
   • You can also increase your confidence by learning a new skill, for example learning a foreign language or two. You can easily learn a language inexpensively by subscribing to free sites like Livemocha.

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   Don't compare yourself to others. Because it doesn't make you feel better about yourself. The only person you can become is yourself and this is great! Let the world know how great you can be, and don't try to change yourself to be as great as others want them to be.
   • Do not pretend to be someone else, not yourself.Girls will find you fake, not attractive. Trying to be "sassy" while you are raised properly? This is not a good idea and she will know. Be yourself. The girls like that.

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   Take care of yourself and look. Don't neglect personal hygiene or neglect your wardrobe. Why do girls have to like a guy who doesn't care about himself? Take a shower regularly, use deodorant sprays, choose clean, beautiful clothes, and brush your teeth regularly.
   • Don't worry about using brand name or brand name clothing. She will pay more attention to you if the clothes you wear are flattering and in a color that suits you, not with any label on the bra.
   • Avoid taking too much care. Using a bit of hair gel is fine, but if you use it so much that your hair looks wet and hard, not good.

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   Becoming easy to get along. Don't be angry, sad, hateful, or dislike to talk. If you look angry all the time when you talk to her, why might she want to talk to you, let alone dating. Smile, be friendly, and make yourself easy to talk to by the fairly obvious way of talking to her.

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   Be a great guy. Be the person the girls want to date. You don't have to be smart but at least have to be a bit knowledgeable and curious. Be a kind guy who always tries his best to improve the life of everyone around you. And improve your own life. This is very important. Go out to work to create a better life for yourself.
   • You can increase your knowledge by reading books on topics of interest to you. Did you know that there are countless books about the evolution of weapons such as swords? Or about how dinosaurs hunted? Visit the library to improve your knowledge.
   • Take care of your dreams. What do you want to do? What is your passion? Girls are often attracted to passionate guys: they want to think that you will love them as much as you do… soccer.

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   Be kind and funny. Always try to help her and always smile at her. A smile can make her a better day. Avoid being cold, and avoid talking to your friends often when she's around. Try to spend some time alone with her and talk to her properly.

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   Do well in school. You don't have to get excellent grades, but at least try to get 8 or 9. Go for a high score, but don't become too "nerd". The girls don't like nerd boys and guys who are too addicted to sports. Do your best to do well in school, and get involved in sports too.
   • Being tidy is also important. You don't want to be like a slouch in class all the time when you have to search all the books in front of her. Most girls like guys who always finish their assignments on time.

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   Take part in sports. This is one of the most important steps in attracting girls, especially if they are on the school's cheerleading group or they also enjoy playing sports. Girls usually like guys with a well-proportioned and muscular body. Playing sports can make you stand out and they like guys who excel. Get involved in sports and try to get into your school sports team. advertisement

Advice

• Know that "attraction" is a part of starting a relationship.
• Girls like guys who understand them, it's important to listen.
• Complimenting her appearance will make her feel confident.
• Understand her thoughts and you will know how to interact with her.
• Always be kind, kind, and respectful of her opinions and feelings.
• Avoid texting or doing anything else when you talk to her. Instead, focus 100% on her and just talk to her.
• Jokes and jokes are only fun when you understand what you're joking about, so be careful not to go too far. Some girls love to be humorous! But don't go too far and turn it into a cruel and demeaning joke.