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The funeral is a bleak event, and you should honor the moment with the right clothes. Funeral attire should generally be dark and discreet. You need to choose dark colors and limit wearing accessories. In some cases, families may request to wear special colored clothing. At this point you can skip the usual custom. At funerals, keep in mind that the request of the deceased's family matters most.

Steps

Part 1 of 3: Choose the right outfit

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   Choose black or dark clothing. Usually funeral costumes are black. However, not everyone complies with this convention. You may see people bringing dark gray or navy blue clothing to the funeral. If you don't choose black, wear dark and sad clothing.
   • Choose a neutral dark color instead of black. Blue, dark gray, dark green, and brown are suitable colors.
   • However, you should find out the type of funeral ceremony before choosing the outfit. For a traditional funeral, you should be especially careful and choose the classic black.

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   Avoid vibrant colors. Don't wear light colored clothing to funerals. Primary colors such as blue, red, and yellow can be offensive or show disrespect. In some cultures, red is seen as a color of celebration. It is especially important that you avoid red.
   • Absolutely not incorporate vibrant colors into the outfit. The black dress with pink hem hem, or the black suit with red shirt underneath, is not for funerals.
   • However, the above rule does not apply in rare cases. Family members can request light clothing, or a color to honor the deceased. Always follow the family's wishes in this case.

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   Try to comply with the etiquette unless otherwise stated. Funerals are often traumatic events. You should wear clothes for the interview instead of outfits. In some cases, the family may request less formal clothing in honor of the deceased. However, if there is no other request, you should follow the prescribed form.
   • Clothing in black, dark gray, or navy blue is a good choice.The tie and pants should be similarly dark. Alternatively you can wear a dark colored shirt and tie.
   • You should wear long dresses and skirts to the funeral. Avoid tight clothing, as it looks more like a hangout outfit instead of going to an important event. You can choose a long coat and dark pants.

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   Note the sleeve length. In general, you shouldn't be too revealing when you attend funerals. It's best to avoid underarm clothing, or short sleeves. Wear long sleeves instead. If you want to wear a black armpit dress, you can cover your arms with a scarf or a long-sleeved jacket.

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   Choose plain colors instead of textures. Patterned outfits are fine for funerals, as long as they're not too flashy. Floral printed dresses, or dark striped tops may be funeral. However, you need to avoid bright and flashy color patterns, especially if they are also bright in color. For example, black shirts with red polka dots are not suitable for funerals.
   • However, you need to remember to always respect the wishes of the family of the deceased. In some cases, you may be asked to wear special patterned clothing.
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Part 2 of 3: Selection of accessories

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   Choose shoes that are formal yet comfortable. This is especially important when you are preparing to watch for the deceased or go to burial before or after a funeral. During funerals, you can stand and walk a lot, so choose comfortable shoes. For example, high heels are not the right choice. Choose shoes that are formal and dark in color.
   • Black shoes or sandals are good choices. Also try to wear shoes that are dark green, navy, gray, or black at funerals.
   • If the funeral isn't too formal, wear dark sneakers. However, you should always be more formal.

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   Choose a normal tie. Do not wear a prominent tie. In general, you should avoid ties with bright colors or colorful patterns. It's best to choose a plain, or patterned tie for the funeral. You need to choose a dark color such as dark green, navy, or gray.
   • However, there are some exceptions. If you wear a new tie that the deceased gave to you, family members can appreciate the move. You should test first to avoid errors.

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   Gentle makeup. If you have makeup on, you should keep it minimal when you go to funerals. Funerals are generally a solemn event. Like when you go to work, you should not wear makeup that stands out when you go to funerals.
   • Applying a thin layer of foundation and applying nude lipsticks (skin color) is best. Apply light blusher if desired, as well as light eye shadow and mascara.
   • However, there are always a few exceptions depending on the wishes of a family member. For example, if you go to a theater employee's funeral, the family might ask for more colorful and striking makeup.

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   Wear traditional jewelry. If you are unsure about the right jewelery, it's best not to wear it when you attend a funeral. In fact, not wearing jewelry will make the outfit look darker. However, if you want to use jewelry, you should choose the traditional one. The pearl chain fits very well compared to the necklace sparkling and clinking.
   • If you wear earrings, you should choose formal designs. Large-sized pendulum earrings, or circular earrings that stand out from a funeral. Instead, you should choose earrings with loose buttons.

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   Choose a bag of the right color. If the suit has a pocket scarf, the scarf should also be dark. Choose colors like navy, dark green, and gray. Pink brooches are generally not suitable for funeral attire. advertisement

Part 3 of 3: Remember other factors

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   Note religious beliefs. Religious rituals apply some specific principles regarding dress. You need to get to know the religion of the deceased in advance and notice if there are any dress codes for funerals. You should always respect the beliefs of the deceased.
   • For example, some beliefs may require women to be extremely humble while attending funerals. You should not show up with dresses or skirts that are too short.
   • You can learn religious rituals on the internet. However, it is best to ask a family member. They can teach you how to dress properly.

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   Attaching importance to cultural traditions. If the person is deceased in another culture, some colors may be appropriate. While dark is the traditional color used in funerals in the West, other cultures don't always adopt it.
   • In fact, vibrant colors are used in funerals in some cultures. In Korea, tangs are blue. In Egypt and Ethiopia, yellow is considered the color of funeral attire.
   • In Middle Eastern countries, white is the color of funerals.

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   Note the weather. If the funeral or burial ceremony is performed outdoors, be aware of this. You may need to bring an umbrella if it rains or warm clothing if it is cold. Make sure these accessories are also funeral-appropriate.
   • Even items like raincoats and umbrellas, keep in mind that you are attending funerals. The bright pink color doesn't suit the funeral atmosphere. Although black and dark raincoats are generally the best choice.
   • You should also choose a warm coat and a dark coat. It is considered inappropriate to wear a white coat to an open-air burial.

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   Obey the wishes of the deceased. You should always respect the special request, even if it is against the norm. If your family asks to use special colors or textures when attending the ceremony, make an effort to do so. In the event that your family is preparing to bid farewell to the deceased in another way, you should do as they ask instead of following traditional principles. advertisement

Advice

• If you are unsure, find out the family dress code, or ask someone else to see if your outfit is appropriate.
• For an extremely conservative ritual, some women may wear a hat in a simple and formal style.
• Families can choose to celebrate. If you are not sure, do not hesitate to ask about the right outfit.
• If the funeral takes place in early November and you live in the UK (or a country in the Commonwealth of Great Britain), you should put poppies on your shirt.
• Dressing in yellow to funerals is not suitable in Egypt. Only fully black is appropriate in Egypt and Arab countries. Do not wear foreign clothing, but be very careful. Choose black or maybe gray. You shouldn't get much attention.

Warning

• Use waterproof mascara and simple eyeshadow / eyeliner.
• Giving up a seat or umbrella for the elderly or women with young children.
• High heels can make walking on grassy ground difficult, especially if it's just finished raining.