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• Steps
• Advice
• Warning

When you are in love with a girl, sometimes it's best to confess your feelings to her, even if you're not sure if the feelings will come from both sides. Get the courage to show your affection by building a strong relationship, keeping communication comfortable and respectful. Love is difficult to say but expressing it is very easy. Confessing to a girl can frighten you, but no one can stop you from doing so. Remember that you are not alone and love is for everyone.

Steps

Part 1 of 3: Maintain your courage

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   Build a relationship. Spending time together will give you the opportunity to get to know each other better. Do your best to avoid distractions like phones, uninvited guests, or rumbling sounds. Getting to know her and spending time together is very important when you want to build a relationship.
   • If you take the time to get to know each other, you will know what activities you both enjoy. Then just choose an activity that the two of you enjoy doing together, like studying, rock climbing, or eating. Make sure to show her that you enjoy spending time with her and appreciate how you both want to get to know each other.

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   Don't let fear stop you from acting. If you are afraid of rejection, opening your heart may frighten you; However, the feeling of regret can also have a big effect. Understand that only facing your feelings and knowing the truth is the way to overcome your fear of rejection and regret. This is a way to relieve the anxiety in your heart.

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   Be honest with your feelings. Do you really love her or is this just a crush? Do you dare to trade this friendship? Don't try to befriend her just to hope she will change her mind about you. This isn't fair to her because friendships are built on trust and respect. If you truly love your crush, you first need to truly be good friends.
   • Analyzing your emotions can be difficult, but there are a few proven signs that help you realize that you are in love. Have you ever experienced one of the following emotions?
     • If you believe she's special, it's probably because your brain has increased the level of focus and attention on her.
     • If you think that the person is perfect and focuses only on their good qualities, your subconscious mind has changed to accommodate the new feelings of love.
     • If you feel hurt by your new love, it has been shown that feelings when falling in love are related to emotional fluctuations.
     • Going through a tough time also makes you want to start a relationship because the brain produces more dopamine, a substance that occurs when people feel satisfied and satisfied.
     • If you keep thinking about her, it is because your brain has decreased serotonin levels, which are associated with obsessive behavior.
     • Lovers also have signs of emotional dependence that make them want to be together and hope to live together forever.
     • When you fall in love, you will want to do anything for your ex because you have a deep sympathy for them.
     • Studies show that love is an emotional union, not a sexual union.
     • The study also found that lovers find it difficult to control their love.

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   Don't try to read her mind. Be straightforward when expressing your thoughts. Don't think for yourself that you know how she feels. Always respectfully ask and thank her for opening up to you. Being open is very important when it comes to expressing your feelings for each other.

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   Always be positive. Love is an intense emotion and often develops over time. Take a look at your relationship development and focus on the positive feelings you two have for each other. If you feel that your affection for her has grown rapidly, think positively that it's time to express your feelings. You can always make excuses to do nothing, but be brave and do as your heart tells you to. advertisement

Part 2 of 3: Confessing feelings

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   Choose the right time and place. Don't let yourself become confused by objective factors. Approach only if you can have a chat with her in private and when neither of you are busy. Choose a quiet place or schedule a meeting to make sure you are both emotionally and emotionally ready. The confession must be a comfortable event; Therefore, create a situation that makes it easier for her to accept her thoughts and feelings.
   • You probably don't want to confess when being bothered by other friends or she has to work overtime to get her job done on schedule with an important client.

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   Pay attention to your body language and how you display it around her. Talk to her whenever you get the chance and smile at all times. Notice your posture and maintain eye contact. Try to be friendly and make jokes when you can, but don't be rude. Don't overwhelm her, just waving and smiling is enough.
   • Start a conversation with her with a few casual questions.
   • You will look scary or weird if you stand near her without saying anything. If you don't know what to say because you're too nervous, just say hello and walk away or talk to someone else.

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   Get to know the person and their friends. Her friends are her supporters and protectors, so make a good impression on them and be interested in getting to know them.Cherishing his or her friends will let him or her know that you really want to get to know them.

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   Know that men are usually the first to confess. Studies show that men are inclined to confess first because they don't want to lose the relationship, and women want to make sure the relationship is completely worth their effort, so they often wait. So, before you confess, you need to prove yourself worthy of her and not let her be skeptical when deciding to love you.

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   Use actions instead of words to show affection. There are plenty of tips to guide you through romantic gestures, but affection is a personal matter. Only you know how to show your affection to make her happy. Whether it's giving flowers after she's gone through a tiring day, surprise singing a song she likes, or just holding her hand every time she goes for a walk, showing affection for her not just through a momentary action, but a message through what you do.

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   Respect and be comfortable in communication. The best way to let her know how you feel is to be straightforward. After that, there's no reason to try to influence or wait for her. Give her time to acknowledge her thoughts and feelings. Maybe she will say she just wants to be a friend; be prepared to reflect on your feelings and her place in your life.

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   Note that the two words love bring different feelings to each person. Some people find it difficult to hear or use those two words. No matter how well you understand your feelings, make sure she fully understands what you mean.
   • For example, if you know she seems odd and uncomfortable every time you watch the ending of a romantic comedy with a confession scene of the main character, don't do the same. Instead, choose to speak honestly but simply to let her know you care about and your intention to go further.

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   Prepare to face difficulties. Religion, cultural differences or a loved one's rigidity are all factors in how she responds to your feelings. Remember to always respect her because if you truly love, you will learn those factors and find a way to overcome any difficulties.
   • If she is unsure but agrees, acknowledge and follow the principles she has set out to help keep her from being awkward. If she wants you to go to her parents first because it is part of their custom, take it as an honor and follow the request. If she doesn't want to be too intimate in the relationship, don't pressure her.
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Part 3 of 3: Overcoming feelings of rejection

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   Keep your composure. Whether she accepts or declines, you should still act calmly, especially in public. Don't be an idiot and be rude when your emotions are hurt.

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   Respect her feelings. If she doesn't reciprocate your feelings, remember she is still the person you choose to deepen your relationship with; Therefore, you need to respect her. You cannot force someone to like or love you.
   • Don't keep quiet or be cold to her. Women are often socially sensitive, so not being able to show your feelings or acting cold could make the situation worse.

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   Glad for your maturity and courage. If you've known each other for a long time and developed a strong relationship based on respect and open communication, she probably has feelings for you too. If you do the opposite, be proud that you dare to confess your true feelings and share your joy with her for that. Even if she just wants to stay on the level of friends, you should be happy about your best friend's development. Share your experiences with others and always remember that you are not alone.
   • Ask friends, family and supporters to help you overcome your feelings of rejection.

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   Continue to keep the relationship. If you truly love someone, you will respect them, care for them and be with them in times of happiness and sadness. Love is like a roller coaster, but the scariest thing is actively expressing your feelings.
   • End of everything. If she doesn't have feelings for you, don't stick to it. Learn to accept the truth and always think positively that good things will happen to you. This is not an easy task, but it can be overcome with effort. That's why so many sad love songs and movies can help relieve your mood.

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   Know when to give up a friendship. There is no reason to try to influence or wait for her. If you have confessed your love and she doesn't want to go any further than friends, respect her decision.
   • Once rejected, your feelings will be very negative and it will be difficult to maintain a relationship with friends. In reality, friendship is based on mutual help and respect. Ask yourself if you can really dedicate those things to her after you confess. Can you still be friends if they date someone else?
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Advice

• Confident. Make eye contact with her, straighten up, and smile as you confess. The most important thing is to speak coherently, especially when you often appear shy. You have to show that you believe what you will say and be able to reinforce that belief with the power of mind truth.
• If you've been friends for a long time and you want to go further now, she might not have the same thoughts as you. In this case, accept her feelings. Changing yourself is not the solution. If she doesn't love who you really are, but chooses you for her desired change, you will lose yourself, and her feelings for your change will fade.
• Don't let people know you love her before you confess. It wouldn't be nice if she found out.
• Actions are often more meaningful than words. Use actions to show your feelings, instead of just talking and doing nothing.

Warning

• Don't confess if you don't love her. Taking advantage of someone for sexual purposes is immoral and is sometimes illegal.
• Doesn't mean no. If she lets you down, remember that there are a lot of people that are right for you. Persistence is a good thing at the beginning of a relationship, but not after you have confessed. Love is not an arrangement.