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• Advice
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The act of flirting in real life is quite easy to see, but the virtual world makes it more difficult to read someone's actions. To see if a guy you know online likes you or not, you need to analyze how he texts and interacts with you on social media and messaging apps. If the two of you get to know each other through a dating site, you can determine his feelings by offering to meet and get to know each other better. His reaction will somewhat relieve your anxiety.

Steps

Method 1 of 3: Texting over the network

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   Notice how he spends his time texting you. The guy who likes you online will often spend time chatting and texting you. For example, he often texts even when you're offline. The two of them usually spend hours texting around the clock, day and night. This is a sign that he likes to talk to you and is not afraid to spend time in contact with you.

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   Notice if he quickly responded to your message. When you text him and get a response after more than an hour, even if you know he's online, it means this guy is just trying to be polite to you. On the other hand, if he responds right away and keeps talking to you, he may have a crush.
   • Likewise, the guy who likes you will often text you when you've logged into Facebook Messenger or another messaging app.

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   Analyze the content of the messages he sends you. Some guys will reply to your text because they want to be polite. In this case, they will typically reply with a short one-word text and rarely attempt to make a meaningful conversation. Contrary to this, the guy who likes you will want to get to know you, hear your advice or thoughts, or tell you what he's been through that day.
   • If he cares about you, he will ask "How was your day?" or "What are your plans for this weekend?". These are questions that indicate he wants to be a part of your everyday life.

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   Watch for flirting signs. Men often flirt when they like someone. Signs of flirting online include compliments, gentle jokes, using exclamation marks, emoticons or stickers.
   • Maybe he'll say, "You look cute in your new profile picture".

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   Don't jump to conclusions from a certain action. You shouldn't put all your hopes or fears into one or two online conversations. Many people still open up messaging platforms regardless of whether or not they have time to chat. His short reply could be because he is busy or has a lot to think about.
   • If this happens frequently, it could be a sign that he isn't keeping an eye on you.
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Method 2 of 3: Social interaction

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   He interacts with your posts. Did he "like" all of your Facebook posts and Instagram photos? Besides, does he regularly comment on your posts? This is a sign that he wants to interact with you and possibly because he likes you too.
   • Notice if he comments on other people's posts. If he comments regularly, it shows that he is an active social media person.
   • However, if he rarely “likes” or comments on other people's posts, this could be a sign that he has feelings for you.

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   Reply to his comment. Reply to his comments on your posts or photos. If he doesn't mind talking to you this way, it indicates that he likes you or at least likes to text you.
   • For example, he would say "Nice picture! Where did you take this picture?"
   • You can respond by saying "I went to Vung Tau last weekend. This place is so beautiful! Have you been there yet?"

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   He comments on your old photos or posts. If a guy you just know starts clicking “like” or commenting on your old photo, that is a sign that he is interested in you. That means he took some time to look through your old photos, maybe because he wants to learn more about you or just likes to see your pictures!

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   Check if he befriends you on other social media platforms. When a guy likes you, he wants to connect with you and follow you on other social media platforms. For example, he will befriend you on Facebook, Snapchat and follow you on Twitter, Instagram.
   • Making friends on other social media sites is often because he wants to see your posts, photos and selfies to learn more about you.
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Method 3 of 3: Use an online dating site

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   He wants to know more about you. If a guy you know online has feelings for you, he'll want to learn more about you. Did he ask about your life? If he responds and is interested in your response, he may have a crush.
   • Maybe he will ask about your job, interests and family to get to know you more. Taking an interest in your life is a sign that he likes you.
   • Even so, if he raises inappropriate personal questions, like asking for your home address or asking if you are alone at home, this person may have a different motive.

   

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   Share on social media what makes your personal mark. You can share your mood swings and post light, cheerful posts or share moments with family. Share what shows him that you are a real and interesting person.

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   Ask if he wants to see you. If he asks you out for a coffee or a date out, this is a sign that he likes you and wants to get to know you. However, some shy guys will not dare to make an appointment to see you.If you are interested in him, take the initiative to say "do you want me to meet?" If he responds quickly and enthusiastically, it means he likes you too.
   • Or, he'll say, "Okay, let me check my calendar first." If he doesn't text you afterward, he probably doesn't mean anything to you.

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   Frankly ask if he likes you or not. After a while, you will get bored with trying to find signs that he has feelings for you or not. In this case, you can always frankly ask how he feels about you. Try saying, “I feel like we have a special connection and I'm starting to have feelings for you. Do you feel that way? " This way, you get straight to the point and can stop guessing his feelings and intentions.

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   See if he deletes his online dating profile. After the two meet and have a few dates, you will wonder where the relationship will go. One way to see if he likes you is to check if he has deleted his online dating profile. This may be a sign that he has met the right person (maybe you) and is no longer interested in online dating. advertisement

Advice

• As a last resort, look up online quizzes to determine if the guy you're still texting likes you.
• Some guys are very friendly and often make the other person feel like they're flirting with them. Flirting isn't enough to determine if he likes you or not.

Warning

• If he asks you something that makes you uncomfortable, say it, like "I don't want to talk about this topic." If he really likes you, he will respect the decision not to share your personal information.
• When making an appointment with someone you know online, choose a public place with lots of people. Although online dating is not unfamiliar to many people, you can still encounter people you don't want. The best way is to always be on the lookout for uncertainty.
• If you are a minor, let your parent or guardian monitor interactions online. The virtual world also has "predators" and you always have to make sure your interactions are safe and have mutual consent.