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• Steps
• Advice
• Warning

So you like two girls at the same time. Whether you are dating one of them or not, if you both like you, they will wait for you to make a decision about which one of them you would want to be with. To choose between two girls, analyze what you are looking for in a relationship, how you will be with each girl, and your true feelings for each girl. Whatever the outcome, take your choices seriously and choose a girl before you risk losing both.

Steps

Part 1 of 3: Considering the options

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   Think about what you are looking for. Ask yourself if you are looking for a serious relationship or a good time. Do you just want to satisfy your body, find a faithful girlfriend, or need a long-term partner? Think about your place in life, as well as what goals you set out for these two girls. Your decision will easily be overwhelmed by your feelings of love. Hence, for these two girls, it's better to take a step back to really understand what you are looking for.
   • Maybe you need to focus on your career right now. Or maybe you need a stable relationship or a good game that only either of these girls can accommodate. Think what you need?

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   Analyze your relationship with each girl. Think about what you two have in common and try to find out how they are different. Consider what each person responds to and imagine how they will make you feel. If you have to choose, you need to have a thorough understanding of your choice.
   • Think back to which girl you are more comfortable with. Consider which of them is the most interesting and inspire you to try new discoveries. You may enjoy being with one person more than the other.
   • Think about which girls you can trust. Maybe the other girl is funny, but you yourself feel unable to build a relationship with her. You should consider whether you need sustainability or fun.
   • Determine which girls you interact with better. Interaction is especially important in any relationship and you will want to choose someone with whom you can honestly talk.

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   Notice how each girl makes you feel about yourself. Maybe this girl makes you feel strong, talented, and good, while the other girl looks down on and makes you feel completely alien to yourself. Maybe one girl makes you feel happy and carefree, while the other just makes you nervous. See how your personality has changed when you spend time with each girl. Think about which side of yourself you want to develop.

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   Be honest with yourself. If you can't give a sure answer to either girls, you probably shouldn't be serious about them. Of course, you don't have to force a relationship seriously, but it's important to understand why you're having trouble making choices.

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   Look for alternatives. Maybe neither of them are looking for a long-term relationship, or either of the girls isn't even interested in you! This doesn't mean you should play with both of you at the same time; which just means the situation is simpler and stranger than you might think. Try talking to each girl to better understand what they are looking for.
   • Don't be afraid to think. There are many ways to maintain a relationship. It is important that everyone is on the same page and that you are not hurting anyone's feelings.
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Part 2 of 3: Making a decision

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   Listed list. Give each girl a column and make a list of the good traits you think about them. If you find that you both have common traits, cross out them in the list. Review the unique qualities of both of them and compare which ones you like best. Girls with unique and best qualities can be who you should choose. Consider enumerating their bad traits; You should choose a girl with as little bad temper as possible.
   • Good qualities can include: having fun when hanging out together; know how to create engaging stories; always a psychological lover; know how to listen; trustworthy; clever; beautiful; get along with your friends; live in the same area; passion for travel; always make you smile.
   • A bad temper can include: a temper; ideological differences; unconsistant; not your "role model"; live far from your neighborhood; poor emotional expression; always stresses you.

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   Listen to your heart tell. Remember that this list is just an assistant. Don't make a decision based solely on numbers; instead, use numbers to better understand how you feel. Maybe theoretically this girl looks great, but that doesn't mean you like her completely. If the number doesn't seem plausible, then it probably is. After you've made a list of the good and bad things about you both, take some time to think about how you really feel for each girl. Let love be your guide.

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   Take your time to choose, but not too long. It is important to be sure of your own decisions. However: if you let the two girls wait in limbo for too long, you run the risk of losing them both. Try to make the decision as soon as possible to make things clear. The situation becomes simpler when you have selected a girl (or decided not to go after any of them) and made normal friends with the girl you turned down.
   • The right time depends on the right circumstances. If you see these two girls regularly every day, then your decision is in a critical state. So are you ready to run into both at the same time?
   • Ask that they are human and have true feelings. It's not fair to just ignore them for a long time just because you want to wait before making a final decision, unless, of course, they do the same thing and understand the situation. Think about how you'd like to be treated in this situation.

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   Choose a girl. If both girls are equally great, there will never be the "right" choice here, but you still have to make a decision if you want to keep either of you by your side. The road to honesty is always a difficult one, but you will get what you deserve. Make a choice, tell two girls, and make your own life simple.Ask yourself which girl is the most regretful of when you let go.
   • Consider seeking advice from friends and family. If you can't decide for yourself, you may need some outside opinion from people who have seen you and the two girls.
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Part 3 of 3: Chat with girls

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   Straight. This means being honest and clear with the girl you choose as well as the girl you reject. If it's not clear, things get messed up and you can choose nobody. Don't leave everything on hold. If you want to dedicate yourself to a girl, you need to close other doors.
   • Consider writing down your thoughts or practicing verbalizing with a friend. If you are not sure what to say, then preparing ahead will be a powerful weapon.

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   Make the girl you refuse to falter. It is important to talk to this girl first if you want to be decisive with her. You may make a theoretical decision, but this decision won't come true until you take action. This is especially important if the girl you choose to know clearly exists. Your confession of love (or a promise or vow of love) will add more trust if you can prove to her that you've clearly defined a relationship with the other girl.
   • You will want to express your love for the girl you choose first, for there will be a possibility: if she refuses, you always have the choice of Girl Number Two. However, consider whether you are really happy with this "second choice" or not. It's better to stay wholeheartedly on someone's side, even if that person isn't these two girls.
   • Making this girl flinch will force you to deal with your feelings for both girls. Maybe, in this moment, you will make the decision that the girl you "refuse" is really the girl of your life. Or maybe you re-commit and spend the night with her, and this will give you the determination that you need to be completely determined. Whatever the situation, this will help you keep your promise to the other girl.

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   Talk to the girl of your choice. After you have settled on your backlogged relationship, feel free to focus on your relationship with this girl. Just be simple, sincere and clear. Tell her exactly what you want from her and that she is the only person you need if you are truly faithful to her and only her during your time together.
   • Take each step carefully. If you're having trouble choosing between the two girls, give yourself more time to adjust. Don't be too impatient toward a deep, lasting relationship; let everything go naturally.

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   Be consistent with your choices. Stay consistent with the decisions you make and don't waste time doubting yourself. If you break your promise, you will lose trust in both girls and your reputation will go viral! Don't change your choice about the two girls (because the two will leave you and you go back to zero), and don't change your mind unless you are fully convinced that the change is sound decision. Remember the idiom: say less, do more. advertisement

Advice

• Consider your options carefully, making sure you're not in a rush to make a decision.
• Choose a girl that makes you feel comfortable around.
• Don't choose both. You will be in trouble.
• If the steps above don't work for you, choose whatever girl you find most in common with you.
• Before you go to bed, think about the two girls and try to remember their smiles. Choose the girl present in your mind first before you fall asleep. If you can't remember, try again.
• Don't be too pressured about this. They may find that you are anxious or stressed.
• Choose a girl you're comfortable with, because in the end you won't want to be tied down by a girl you can't be with her.
• Ask your friends if they have the same opinion as you.
• Choose a girl with a personality like you.
• Imagine yourself for the next 20 years. It is easy for you to imagine who is with you?

Warning

• Don't let the girls know that you are following them to find unique qualities from them! They will definitely act out if they know that you are watching them. You need to define the nature real their.
• Don't think that things will work out on their own if you wait for the situation. All of this will cost you both.
• It's hard to have strong emotional balance with one person while you are holding hands with another person. This can damage a relationship you already have.
• Don't deceive them! You can hurt the two's feelings and ruin your own reputation by taking two hands with them.
• It is difficult to see both at the same time. If you play with both girls, you'll lose them both. Don't pointlessly lose both, when just one is enough.
• If you say "I really can't live without you" take it seriously. If not, they will laugh at you.