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Whether you're a celebrity, a politician, a MySpace star, or a good writer, you may feel uncomfortable in the eyes of the public. Fame comes with a lot of challenges and responsibilities. You can solve problems by having a sense of self-worth, and drawing clear lines between your personal life and the public. Take the following steps to gain more success from popularity while still taking care of your own happiness.

Steps

Part 1 of 3: Dealing with the pitfalls of popularity

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   Reflect on the nature of fame. Since popularity is something people have always dreamed of acquiring after taking a position, it can be very difficult for you to really realize how fame affects who you are. The desire to deal with difficulties and the effects of fame is not a sin. While gaining popularity is a privilege, pitfalls still exist and need to be addressed. Take the time to journal your history from when you became famous and how you have changed since then. Here are some questions to help you get things started:
   • Have you noticed any changes in your close relationships since becoming famous?
   • Have you been blamed by others for a change in their treatment?
   • Have you experienced any dramatic personality changes?

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   Maintain healthy habits in everyday life. If you have just become famous recently, you might be overwhelmed by the success and new vision. Try to keep regular routine, and change these habits only when needed (corresponding to new responsibilities and commitments). Continue to use healthy solutions to relieve stress such as spending time alone, eating well, resting, exercising, and more responsibilities. This will give you peace of mind whenever you feel life is chaotic.
   • When you can't keep these habits, you run the risk of getting caught up in the negatives of popularity, like infatuation, self-skepticism, and mobility.
   • Especially if you're young and still in school age, let popularity be just one factor of your life, not the only thing to focus on. Even if you are thrilled and satisfied with your success, having a balance in your life will help maintain your energy and become a good image in the long run.

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   Learn to stop judging and criticizing individuals. Perhaps the biggest challenge facing reputation is that people will just try to see you what they want. This means that once you are a celebrity, you become the subject of all kinds of critics and media gossip.
   • Accept that people will have completely different opinions about your job and your image, and that all of this is true of being famous. Cultivate acceptance by smiling away from criticism and taking it as part of the game instead of taking it personally.

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   Maintain close relationship circle. Remember that the circle of close relationships isn't just about your job manager or your subordinates. Maintain friendships with those you are close to and have a positive impact on you. True relationships that do not depend on your success will be key to making you feel comfortable as you are instead of being a public figure.
   • Fame will put your relationship to the test. You need to be mentally prepared for such situations. Some will definitely support and enjoy your career, while others will be jealous and ask you to spend more time with them.
   • Take time to talk face-to-face with the people you love, explaining to each one your goals, values, and intentions for the relationship during the times of great success.

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   Focus on what has helped you build your reputation. Becoming a celebrity can be a time consuming process, so make sure you don't fall into its pitfalls. Instead, try to focus on the privileges that help you gain recognition. Remember, maybe you are a character on the way to building an image of yourself and your contributions really inspire your fans.
   • If you strive to keep up with popularity instead of focusing on music development or trendy makeup tutorials, you'll be found striving to maintain the aura of success. Let your work excite you and your fans. Your admirers will learn to value your talent more than you do for the public image.

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   Let the ego be in control. Your talent is a gift for you to share with your community. Be proud and enjoy talent, but be realistic and moderate. For some people who love power and become complacent when compared to others, they are easily tempted. This attitude can cause you to treat people badly without even realizing it.
   • Remember to cherish all the opportunities you have — don't take them for granted! Be ready to respond and help others with your experience of fame.
   • A celebrity asked a magazine to take pictures of her without makeup and editing so she could show everyone that the perfect image was just an image, not reality.
   • Furthermore, if you try to be a celebrity rather than an artist or an actor, it will be difficult for you to maintain a burgeoning artistic perspective.

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   Limit your desires. Society sets unrealistic distant standards for heroes, then criticizes and judge them for not upholding these standards. Remember that you are not perfect, nor do you have to do everything the public expects. Try to maintain the own standards that you have for yourself; these can be pretty similar things to the standard before you became famous, and plus some special responsibilities that fame brings.
   • Since many artists are very sensitive, they can easily absorb the standards and then adapt them to become the images others expect.
   • If you are an actor, you may find it more difficult to disappoint because you do not have the real-life personality of the characters you play. This can be handled by letting people know the difference between you in real life and your character in an interview or on social media.
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Part 2 of 3: Having a separate life

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   Understand the reasons why separating private life from the public is difficult. We yearn to be noticed, but once we do receive it, we can feel scrutinized and vulnerable. While fame offers some freedoms, traits like a person without a reputation may be limited. Just as anything too much can harm you, just look at your popularity much The good that you need to always be in control.

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   Develop your values. Take time to get to know yourself by journaling or by talking to close friends. It helps you control self-doubts. Being in the public eye always requires extreme awareness of your image and behavior, and often makes you extremely insecure.
   • Some actors achieve success during treatment. At this point, you have a strong foundation and a clear stance when faced with the difficulties of popularity.
   • Understanding your stance on community related issues will also be very beneficial in interviews. If you have a clear value, you will never find yourself in a situation where there is nothing to say when others ask for their opinion. This will reduce the situation to go overboard or say something controversial.

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   Create boundaries for yourself. Due to the harsh requirement of popularity, you'll find yourself having to say "no" in certain situations where you are tempted. For example, if you attend an event, specify how long you will receive questions or if you want people to talk to you afterwards. By establishing thoughtful schedules, others will coordinate. This is much better than not making a clear plan first and then having to dodge the conversation with a fan who is excited about you.
   • Remember that you don't have to answer the question of your personal life, and some famous people see it as the principle of unchanged.

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   Repress your desire to Google look up your name. The problem with google names is that you will get mixed news sources often with praise, praise, and serious insults. As humans, we tend to focus on the negative things people say about us because we are sensitive to social rejection and abandonment. Look up Google carefully, and whatever you do, don't spend too much time mulling negative articles.

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   Use social media strategically. If you decide to make the media an important part of your image, make sure that everything you post is politically correct. Controversial statements provide a great reason for people to discuss your personality and other private details about you and your life. Soon, they will find something or words that contradict your claims and call you a hypocrite. Understand that this kind of scrutiny is sometimes unavoidable in the presence of broad social media.

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   Dating with someone who is not famous. By dating someone who is not in the celebrity's gender, you can avoid sparking loud rumors and create curiosity with the public about your personal life. Having a relationship with a non-celebrity will also help you think realistically from an outsider's popularity point of view.
   • You can choose to go to major events by yourself. If you are sensitive to the media watching your relationship all the time, which can be quite a challenge, try keeping dating private.
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Part 3 of 3: Treating fans

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   Understand how others look at celebrities. If you've been famous for a long time or received a lot of recognition from a young age, it can be difficult for you to understand what others think of being famous. Try to recall your previous thoughts about celebrities and their lifestyles back in the days before you became famous. Knowing this will help you understand how others are treating you so that you can respond more kindly.
   • For example, pre-teens value popularity more than any other prospect for the future. This means you are in a coveted position for this age group, and you have a chance to share your practical experiences with young people who are very interested in them.

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   Talk to fans calmly and kindly. Your image is very easy to be affected with a mistake, a harsh word, or thoughtless action. It only takes a minute or two to be friendly with one fan (or a group of fans); Most people will respect your private time if you show the right level of openness when in public. Since a series of ideas about you will inevitably appear, many fans will eventually be surprised to find that the celebrities they like are really kind.
   • When you talk to each fan, there's no need to think about maintaining an image or strengthening your reputation. Try to communicate with them with empathy, sharing warmly while together.
   • If you are dealing with a fan younger than you, it would be inappropriate to behave coldly or indifferently.
   • When replying to fans in the comments section and in the media, respond briefly and happily. If someone takes up this responsibility for you, make sure you check with this person to make sure they are maintaining a pleasant, pleasant tone.

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   Acknowledge your responsibility. Being a celebrity means realizing that you have a serious responsibility to influence the public. This can be overwhelming, and should not be used as an excuse to exaggerate your ego. Just like a comic book hero, responsibility comes with respect for the world in which you make your influence. Try not to push your own personal schedule - think like someone else about things you can do for the benefit of others.

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   Respect for the voice that comes with popularity. Use your popularity to inspire fans to speak up about things they care about. Because there are so many people who admire you, you can motivate your fans to get something done and emphasize the importance of working towards the better. Use the power of being a celebrity to draw attention to situations where you are strongly emotional.
   • For example, famous couples copyright their newborn baby's photos to donate to charity. Even just promoting a charity event in a press conversation can make a big difference.
   • You can also address important issues, addressing certain parts of your life. If someone asks "How do you keep up with your learning and your YouTube image at the same time?" or something similar, you have a chance to share tips in rating, comment on celebrities that can help your colleagues.

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   Beware of opportunistic people. Opportunists are people looking for a relationship or partnership working with you for a famous opportunity because of your financial or relationship resources. If an unfamiliar person asks you to help them gain fame while the person doesn't seem interested in the job, you need to be cautious.
   • Having responsibility and financial strength will give you a sense of the comfort of any arrangement so that you can afford to accept or decline a job.
     • Financial awareness can also help make it easier for you to make a decision about what you want or don't want to do.
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Advice

• Be ready to protect yourself in all circumstances. There is a legal team to handle things out of control.
• Branding yourself. Personal branding is extremely important to a celebrity. It is very helpful in helping people get to know you through your own branding. Do what is necessary to protect and maintain your reputation and personal brand.

Warning

• Hire security guards for the event if you feel your life is at stake.