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Do you sometimes no longer know what to talk about during a conversation? Find here a few ways to keep a guy talking for hours via your online messenger!

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1. Be informal when speaking. Say "hey" instead of "hello". Ask him "how are you?" or "what are you doing?". If he asks you the same, don't say "same"; this can give him the impression that you are boring. Tell him about your day, no matter what, even if it's stupid. (Responding with "nothing" can lead the conversation to a dead end.) This will make him laugh and think you have a good sense of humor!
2. Don't be gloomy. Don't tell him right away how bad your day has been; at least not during the first interview. Keep this until you get to know him better. Otherwise, you may come across as gloomy or boring.
3. Show him who you really are. Take a webcam and show it yourself! Not only does this give him something to talk to, but also things to talk about. You can now show him yourself or things in your room.If he also has a webcam, ask if you can see him or his room as well (if he hasn't already offered). Be careful not to to lots to show!
4. Avoid asking questions with short answers. These are questions like "Did you see that movie?"; the answer to this is either "yes" or "no". That's too short! Expand and say "I think that movie would be fun, I want to go and watch it." This can give you both a new topic to talk about. Don't forget to comment on everything he says.
5. Talk about everything; his favorite band, his favorite color. Don't talk about yourself all the time so that you don't come across as selfish or selfish.
6. Know how to end the conversation. When he says he has to go or when you have to go, say something like "See you tomorrow!" or "I'll talk to you later." Say something that carries the implication of future plans to talk to each other.
7. Be careful not to speak to him too often. Chat with him often enough to keep in touch, but not necessarily every day. There is a chance that your conversations will not be so special if they happen too often.
8. Only ask someone online on a date if there really is no other option. It's much better to ask him out in real life. When it comes to a serious moment in a relationship, never handle it over the internet. This is also the case with a breakup.
9. Ready!

Tips

• Just be yourself! Why would he like a fake you?
• Not all of these tips will work, but don't doubt yourself. If he doesn't want to talk to you, remember that he a conversation with you goes wrong! If it doesn't work with him, there are others too.
• Think about a few things to talk about before the conversation starts. Starting a conversation without anything to talk about can cause awkward silences and kill a conversation before it even starts.
• Try not to make the conversation too long or too short.
• If you want to talk to a guy online and know who he is, but have never actually spoken to him and want to tell him you like him, think carefully about the options. Is the internet your only option? It's much better to tell him in person.
• Don't be afraid to joke. This will keep the conversation casual and easy.

Warnings

• Be careful not to over-type if he doesn't respond; you don't want to come across as obsessive.
• Be careful how much information you give away.
• Avoid constantly typing things like "LOL", especially when nothing funny is being said.
• If you are not an adult, avoid talking to people you don't know and give certainly never leave information such as a photo of yourself, your telephone number, your address, etc. If something ever happens online that doesn't make you feel 100% comfortable with, tell an adult you trust (such as a parent or teacher) right away.