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• Steps
• Method 1 of 2: Verbal Techniques
• Method 2 of 2: Gimmick Actions

Love at a distance or frequent separation from a guy creates certain difficulties for maintaining a relationship. If a guy misses you, it serves as a confirmation that he is not indifferent to you and suffers from separation from you both physically and emotionally. To make sure your guy is bored while you are away, you can use verbal tricks and tricks to remind him of you all the time.

Steps

Method 1 of 2: Verbal Techniques

1. 1 Talk to each other regularly, even if distances are apart. In order to keep the relationship fresh in a guy's heart, it will be helpful to communicate with him at least once a day. This is especially important in a situation of love at a distance or when your busy schedule does not allow you to spend your free time often and efficiently.
   • Tell your boyfriend about the events and important moments of the past day, and do not forget to listen carefully to your beloved when he does the same. Keep him honest and open to you, and feel free to share your feelings and emotions with him. This will demonstrate to the young man that you are affectionate and encourage him to continue thinking of you long after the phone call ends.
   • However, it is very important not to bother the person or call him every five minutes while you are apart. You should respect him and trust him so that he can calmly go about his business. If you are both spending the evening separately in different companies, try to contact the guy periodically, but do not do it all the time. This will demonstrate to him that you respect the way he spends his personal time.
2. 2 Compliment the guy. With praise and compliments, let your guy know that he is still desirable and attractive in your eyes. This kind of behavior on your part can heighten the guy's feelings towards you.
   • The compliment should be about a guy's particular skill or how skillfully he can do something, such as cooking your favorite meal or cleaning the house. Try to compliment him as soon as he does something helpful or pleasant.Despite the fact that the response may only be an indistinct mumbling or smile, your compliment will leave its mark on his soul and further strengthen his feelings for you.
3. 3 Discuss plans for the future together. Demonstrate the seriousness of the relationship by discussing future plans together. Plans can be short-term (like going to the movies or Friday dinner) or long-term (like taking a vacation a few months later or buying a pet next year). Discussing future plans together serves as a demonstration that both of you are serious about your relationship and that you will be bored when apart.
   • It is also important to discuss plans together to confirm that you have common expectations for your relationship. Demonstrating your interest in general plans for the future will make the guy even more appreciate your relationship and better understand what he loses in the moment when you are not around.

Method 2 of 2: Gimmick Actions

1. 1 Make video chat dates. Take advantage of modern technology, especially if you and your boyfriend are separated by distances, and have a date by video chat at least once a week. This will allow you to see each other and talk face-to-face, despite the fact that the conversation is being carried out via a smartphone or computer. Being able to see your face while talking will remind him of how much he misses you and, despite the separation, allows him to keep your clear visual image in his mind.
2. 2 Give surprise gifts or celebrate special events. Another great way to make a guy bored is to create shared memories that are impossible to forget. This can be the organization of such a gift that the guy has dreamed of all his life, or the celebration of a special date by attending a concert of his favorite band.
   • Maintain the spontaneity and awesomeness of the relationship by organizing surprises that will keep you together. This way you can spend quality time together and create fond memories of your relationship.
3. 3 Write a love letter. Be extremely romantic and describe your feelings and emotions in the letter that you leave him on the pillow, in the bag or in the car. Use quality office supplies to write your letter and be as honest as possible when describing personal moments. Seal the letter and leave it where it can be quickly found. When a guy finds and prints the letter, he will remember you and start to miss the love atmosphere you create.
   • You can also send a love SMS by phone, without forgetting to wish the young man good night or good morning, especially if you are far from each other. It will help you maintain a strong bond and let him know that you’re always thinking of him.
4. 4 Make the guy nice. This may include preparing a favorite meal for him, giving him a massage, or giving him time to practice a hobby or passion. Show your lover that you are generous and kind, respecting their needs and desires. Of course, you should not neglect your own needs and desires, as the relationship should be based on mutual respect and recognition. However, doing something nice on your part will serve as a good reminder that you value your relationship and that your boyfriend will miss it greatly in your absence.
5. 5 Remember to be socially active outside of your personal relationships. As the saying goes, "from separation, love becomes hot." It is important to continue to maintain your social activity outside of personal relationships, and not always be with only your boyfriend. Demonstrating your independence and using your free time as you see fit will make your guy appreciate your time together more deeply and meaningfully.
   • Stay socially active and spend time with friends or family. You should not immediately respond to the SMS sent by the guy, and also cancel all your plans as soon as he asks for it. Remind him that your relationship will be healthier and richer if you both have a certain degree of freedom and the opportunity to spend some time exclusively on yourself, and not constantly be together.