Content

• Steps
• Tips
• Warnings

There is something romantic and attractive in the thought that you are remembered by someone so much that you can penetrate his thoughts even without an invitation ... And yet, such a strong impression when a guy cannot stop thinking about you is not always easy achieve and is suitable for long-term relationships.

How can you generate this spark in his mind so that he cannot help but imagine you over and over again, trying to reach out to you and touch you, as if you are still there? There are no guarantees when it comes to desire and love, but there is something that can help you in this ghostly quest ...

Steps

1. 1 Be true to yourself. When you are with this guy, let him see and get to know the real you. There is nothing more attractive and memorable than a confident person who knows what is on his mind and has pride. Obviously, this does not mean being self-centered, cocky, or not listening; it means showing that you are thinking about yourself, enjoying life and not wanting to depend on anyone. Be considerate, but frank, charming, and show that you are knowledgeable about the topics you are discussing. Let him know that you don't want to cling to him, which is really sexy.
   • If a guy is showing signs that he would like to see you different from who you are, don't try to make him remember you!
2. 2 Show yourself in the best possible light. It doesn't matter what you choose to wear, whether it's casual, work, evening wear or pajamas, as long as it's neat, clean and fits your body as best as possible. Any woman can look glamorous and beautiful if she uses a simple rule - dress according to her appearance and figure, and not fashion trends. If it's a special occasion, put some dust in your eyes and wear something that makes you look really great. Let him remember this picture!
   • Always look well-groomed and keep your hair in good condition. A good hairdo and beautiful makeup will go a long way towards creating a pleasant first impression. Make sure your clothes are ironed and clean, as if they are not, he will think that nothing and no one bothers you. This way, you won't make a lasting impression - at least not for a good reason!
   • Be adorable. The radiance that comes from within is what is most memorable in your personality, and this is exactly the charm that will be remembered for a long time after your physical essence leaves the room.
3. 3 Use a scent. The smell evokes memories like nothing else. With the help of smells, a person remembers events, people and places, without even remembering exactly when, where and who. Of course, for your benefit, he needs to remember who, and a signature scent can help you with that. But be careful! Don't overdo it - the girl who bathes in perfume may be remembered for other reasons. If you're going to use scent to leave a memory for a guy, beware of the following:
   • The scent should suit you. Not all perfumes are suitable for every person, and you need to find out which scents suit you best through trial and error. What's more, they change with age, so be sure to keep them up to date. By the time you meet your Prince Charming, make sure you have this aspect taken care of.
   • If you are allergic to odors or a man you are interested in, skip this step. Just keep your eyes clean and your natural scent. Your own body odor is very pleasant and attractive on a subconscious level, especially in the middle of your period during ovulation. If you follow the rhythms of your body, you can schedule memorable dates in the middle of the cycle so that this subconscious effect of pheromones works on his instincts.
   • If you still haven't found the "right" scent that suits you, consider contacting a perfumer. This is the person who will ask you specific questions about your preferences and your lifestyle and will help you choose the right notes to create a perfume especially for you.
     It costs a little more, but once you find the right combination, you will be easily remembered for your own signature scent that will be difficult to associate with anyone else.
4. 4 Be moral support. Everyone loves to hear praise about themselves and how they are appreciated. Of course, there is no need to go out of your way or mindlessly chat, but if you express your sincere approval of what you noticed in this guy, you will definitely be remembered. It's hard enough to ignore someone who only sees the best in you, so make sure you point out the best traits of this guy when you spot them. You will understand that this principle also works in life.
   • Be a good listener. Wait for him to speak and do not interrupt. Use the opportunity to talk as an opportunity to learn more about him, rather than listen to your own stories.
     As for you, do not tell everything at once, as the feeling of the riddle will definitely be remembered by him, making him want more.
   • Pronounce his name in conversation. So, he will feel special and important, and this will create a more concrete connection between you than you would say "hey, you" or forget to call him by name.
   • Compliment his attentive nature, his care, his thoughtfulness. You want to see it more often, so praise him for it!
   • Pay attention when he says or does something that means a lot to you, and comment on it to show that you are impressed. Repeat information that he shared with you at some point in your conversation to show that you paid attention to it and thought it was worth remembering.
   • Be interested in what interests him, and show it in what you say to him. This is what is really remembered because it is important to him and attracts his attention.
     For example, you may not know much about a sport he enjoys, but sharing his enthusiasm for winning a team or a goal will show that you at least have interest.
   • Even if you disagree with his point of view, talk about it with respect, and also talk about how you value and acknowledge his point of view, even if it differs from yours.
5. 5 Watch your body language. He has his own way of showing what's on a person's mind, for better or for worse. Good eye contact can help you connect, while mirroring his actions can create a sense of harmony between you. Mirroring is a great way to get into his subconscious, because he will think that you are on the same wavelength, thereby strengthening the connection. Realize the power of gentle touch. Touch, like smell, will help you remember because it evokes a sense of warmth and friendliness. Ever since we were children, gentle touch seems to us to be a form of lasting connection and care that you receive from others, and a light, gentle touch can evoke tender and trusting feelings in the interlocutor. Of course, don't overdo it, otherwise it will be inappropriate and you will scare the poor guy!
   • Most importantly, exude confidence and self-confidence with a warm smile. He will remember this warm smile more than anything else.
6. 6 Don't be around all the time and remain the same self-confident person. Keeping you elusive and busy will help you burn into his memory much more than if you were always waiting for his message or call. In fact, gaps in constant communication will help reinforce the impression that you have a life of your own. When you answer, be kind and considerate, but never come across as desperate, manic, or slovenly and disinterested. Never mess with him when you are drunk, otherwise you risk that he will remember you for completely different reasons!
   • Let all the events in your interesting life happen on a clear schedule. Don't worry if he would like to meet you; show him that he can meet you tonight when you’re really free. He will be fascinated and interested as never before ...
7. 7 Be fun. When you get to know a guy, don't complicate anything - if you want to make your relationship more tense or difficult, then you are going to give him a reason to erase you from his memory very quickly. Your communication should be fun, simple, and enjoyable, especially when you are still insecure. Deep and meaningful topics come up later, when it turns into something called an engagement or marriage, and this is still a long way away ... So be light and fresh so that it will be easy for him to remember you too!
   • Make sure you thank him for your time together before you leave. It's cute and empathetic to show your gratitude for having fun. Keep it simple, say something like, "Thank you for a nice day; I had fun." He will remember that you had fun with him, and you were so polite that you told him about it.

Tips

• Make him feel special when you agree to be contacted by phone. Make sure he knows that you are not giving your phone number to just anyone, but you are prepared to write down his number.
• Give him a picture by which he will remember you. Take a photo or ask someone to take it for you. Use the camera on your phone, or have fun and jump into the photo booth if you pass by. In the second case, give him this photo for his wallet. In the first case, upload a photo to Facebook and tag it with a cute comment about his beautiful smile or something else, and let him know that you really like this photo. Of course, you are also in this photo, so here's a reminder! Then just sit back and wait for an answer.

Warnings

• The idea is for him to remember you, not your underwear! Leave your charms to yourself until you start dating; There is nothing wrong with having him imagine how it will be, and it will definitely help you protect your bets on how and when (if) intimacy will happen.
• Topics that you shouldn't talk about with a new boyfriend you like if you want him to remember you for the right reasons include exes, wanting to smoke a cigarette, nausea (for any reason), sad stories about your past or present. , everything that you cannot or will not eat / do / see / share, etc. and everything is deeply personal. Also, do not show your funny side (if any) until he is sure that he would like to see you again; this does not mean that you do not show your real self, but it means that you need to put aside that part of you that takes time and friendship to "understand" until the next stage of acquaintance.
• If you do show your silly side, it may turn out to be just as attractive or even more attractive than if you were pretending to be "ordinary, but a little unusual." If you're an extroverted goofy clown, you'll attract the type that likes goofy, restless comedians - so don't suppress that. Just try to stay positive and not go into insulting humor.
• An alternative approach is to clearly delineate your boundaries, allergies, and sensitive spots as early as possible to filter out partners who will conflict with them. Otherwise, if you are allergic to seafood, he has no reason not to plan a special evening at the sushi restaurant for you and arrange a surprise. It's much better if he knows your tastes ahead of time, as this will help him come up with the best surprises to pamper you!