Author:
Eric Farmer
Date Of Creation:
3 March 2021
Update Date:
1 July 2024
Content
Are you dating a guy obsessed with romance, candlelight dinners and old-fashioned chivalry? If you and your soul mate have a different idea about this, then our tips will help you find a middle ground.
Steps
1 Understand that there is a reason why we are attracted to people who are attracted to us. This is because relationships are a kind of school of life. How we choose which people to communicate with and which not helps us to understand ourselves. When we see something positive in people, we begin to notice it in ourselves, and we begin to admire ourselves. When we notice something in people that we don’t like, it means that we don’t like it in ourselves either. 
2 Consider your opinion about everything about it. For example, if you like that a guy is “hopelessly romantic,” then it is possible that there is something romantic about you that you would like to develop in yourself. If you do not like his hopeless romance, then this may mean that you have suppressed all romance in yourself, and his attitude towards you constantly reminds you that you treated the other guy very well, but he hurt you. 
3 Let yourself see the world in a new way. You don't need to wear the glasses worn by a hopeless romantic. Your perception - just like his - has its own merits, so it also needs to be respected. 
4 Don't confuse romance with materialism. You don't have to respond to expensive gifts, dinners in restaurants and trips abroad with the same, you can thank him with cheaper gratitude. Just as romantic can be evening walks in the city, a delicious dinner cooked at home and love notes - and your hopelessly romantic boyfriend will be in seventh heaven without having to rob a bank. 
5 Think about the things your boyfriend doesn't like, but accepts. Chances are, there is something that you like and your partner doesn't. If they accept and encourage your passion, then it deserves to be understood by you. If your boyfriend doesn't support your interests, then it's time to talk to you about it. If you both want to keep the relationship, then you need to discuss everything. 
6 Remember that the essence of romance is that you do something that you usually don't, and you only do it because you want to please the other person. It’s unlikely that you always eat by candlelight. But the person knows that you are doing this because you care about him, and for no other reason.
