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Tired of constantly trying to improve relationships with your friends, girlfriend / boyfriend, boss, coworker, or just acquaintances? Have you ever thought that if you knew someone better, you would have a stronger relationship, friendship, or a more productive job? Get to know people better, and then you can achieve your desired goals.

Steps

1. 1 Be patient with yourself and others. It takes time to get to know a person well.
2. 2 Demonstrate a genuine interest in the person. Find out what is important for this person and try to have conversations about it, be interested in his activities. This will help the person open up to you so that you can get to know each other better.
3. 3 Spend more time with this person. This way, you will be able to see a person's behavior in different situations.
4. 4 Watch this person, notice the details of his behavior. A person's actions always show more than his words. Study his lifestyle. Pay attention to what he does in different situations and under the pressure of different circumstances. Is this person active or prefers a sedentary lifestyle? Pay attention to what he eats, drinks, what he wears, and how he drives. Find out how and with whom he likes to spend his free time. How does he do his job? Who are his friends and acquaintances? How do they interact with you and those around you? Find out his likes and dislikes.
5. 5 Listen carefully to what this person has to say. How does he speak and what about? Is he talking about religion, his children, work, or is he just in general terms about his life? Does he speak well of others, or does he like to gossip and criticize?
6. 6 Ask a lot of questions (not all at once, but gradually in the process of communication). If you want to know something about a person - ask. In most cases, he will answer your questions. Some things you can learn even by just observing how a person chooses an answer.
7. 7 Pay attention to his religious, political and social convictions and the role they play in his life. In this way, you will be able to know his values ​​in life. And they, in turn, can tell a lot about a person.
8. 8 Tell him you want to get to know him better. In this case, the person will be able to help you and, in turn, express a desire to get to know you better.
9. 9 Be realistic. When you get to know and get to know a person better, you should accept him as he is, and not as you want to see him.