Content

• Steps
• Method 1 of 1: Style
• Tips
• Warnings

Looking for a way to boost your self-esteem and become the life of the company? But do not want to look, at the same time, a stylish, but empty-headed girl? This article provides some tips on how to achieve real popularity.

Steps

1. 1 Learn to relax. You probably don't want to walk around like a somnambulist all day, but on the other hand, being the life of the party doesn't mean being hyperactive. This does not mean that you should not talk to anyone or correspond. In fact, it is even helpful to participate in several conversations at once. Be sure to choose some relaxing activities, such as taking a warm bath or listening to music.
2. 2 Be confident in yourself. Think about your interests, have your point of view and do not hesitate to voice it. Stay committed to your beliefs!
3. 3 Try to be happy. This state is useful for several reasons at once. But the main thing in this context is that others will see in you the ability to be a good friend. Plus, you’ll be better off yourself! However, all of us have difficult times, so don't worry, if you always remain happy with life, you are not succeeding.
4. 4 Smile and be sociable. You will never be successful if you sulk and frown. Open up to people and smile! If you find yourself in the company of completely unfamiliar people, introduce yourself to them. Popular people are usually very sociable.
5. 5 Compete. Take part in any talent or sports competition, but don't make the competition an end in itself and don't try to win at any cost. Sport is great! If you play sports or want to do it, enroll in a sports club at school. Sports are a surefire way to make new friends and get noticed. If you are not a fan of sports, pick a circle to your liking. Let's say you like to draw, join an art circle, and so on.
6. 6 Chat with everyone during recess. You shouldn't talk to the same person all the time. Have fun and chat with all the guys. Keep your conversations casual and friendly, but remember - everything is fine in moderation. Possible topics for conversation include movies, homework, current events, books, and so on. You can choose any topic that you think will be of interest to others. But control your impulses. Always remember with whom and what you are talking about. You don’t want to be annoying or harass anyone!
7. 7 Make your room cozy and tidy. Don't mess with it. On the other hand, it makes no sense to wash everything to shine. You can hang a couple of posters in the room, a picture / photo wallpaper, in general, something that reflects your taste.
8. 8 Find friends. Do you already have friends? Having friends indicates that you are a kind and sociable person.Also try to make new friends in different schools or camps.
9. 9 Go for walks to be able to chat with friends live. You shouldn't spend all the time at the computer! Myspace and Facebook are both good social networking sites, but sometimes it's better to chat with friends live than to send each other endless messages. It is better to chat with your friends / loved ones in person than to annoy them with conversations on the network.
10. 10 If you are online, you can chat (while safe) with people who share your hobbies. Create a Facebook profile, but your parents must have access to it. Write correctly. Remember, literacy means you read and study a lot. Never post your personal (confidential) information online.
11. 11 Listen to music. Everyone loves music, you are probably no exception. Listen to the music that you like. Don't limit yourself to a particular genre, just because it is very popular right now. Your musical preferences should reflect your personality. It's great to be different from others!
    • If you want to know which songs are trending right now, check out the top list on MTV or iTunes (if you have access to them).
12. 12 Stay on top of the latest pop culture trends. If you have time, watch one or two shows on TV. Here are examples of popular show programs among teenagers:
    • Pretty Little Liars
    • Achieve or Break
    • Gossip
    • Secret from parents
    • Chorus
    • Beach
    • The Vampire Diaries
    • Marine Police. Special department
    • Real blood
    • Light it up!
13. 13 Get fit. Exercise to keep fit. Do not be discouraged if you have naturally wide bones or, conversely, a thin physique. You need to live in harmony with your natural appearance. This will give you confidence. Play whatever sport you like. Any kind of sport is the path to health, so don't limit yourself to gymnastics.
14. 14 Have you ever felt uncomfortable with the way you are treated by a popular, fashionable, flirtatious girl? Have you ever envied her? Imagine yourself in the place of this girl and what you are, how she treats others, and you are also disliked. So, do not envy her and do not strive to be like her. Remain yourself, and remember - if you are a sympathetic, kind, adequate girl, you will evoke only positive emotions.
15. 15 Try to please people. This does not mean that you need to be friends with everyone, just try to be pleasant in communication, it will help you, create a reputation for yourself!
16. 16 Don't gossip! If any gossip comes to you, stop it right away. In no case, do not pass them on, even if you know exactly what they are talking about is true. You don't want to be part of this vicious chain. It will be very bad if you contribute to the spread of gossip, even if it is true, about a person who was not at all going to tell everyone about his secrets. And if the gossip is based on outright lies, it's even worse.
17. 17 Understand that if a person trusts you enough to share something personal, they expect you to keep their secret. If you reveal someone else's secret to at least one of your friends and ask her not to tell anyone else, she, in turn, will definitely tell her closest friend and also ask not to spread it. Thus, everyone will be aware of, and the person who shared with you will not like it at all. So keep the secrets entrusted to you, unless you think your friend is in danger. In this case, you should talk with an adult, but not with peers.

Method 1 of 1: Style

1. 1 Observe good hygiene practices. Never come to school exuding unpleasant odors without washing your hair, brushing your nails and teeth. Shower should be taken daily.If you are unable to clean your nails, then cover them with varnish, or even better, make every effort to still put them in order. Brush and floss to avoid plaque buildup. If you have acne, try treating it with a cleanser like Proactive, Clean & Clear, Neutrogena, and so on. Also, don't forget about deodorant! Good products are offered by Secret and Degree.
2. 2 Wear clothes in fun colors. You should feel comfortable in your clothes. You need to be able to combine colors, and also know what is "trend" now. Great places to shop are: Abercrombie & Fitch, Hollister, Aéropostale, American Eagle, H&M, Forever 21, and the teen department at Target. Below are examples of what would be nice to have in your wardrobe:
   • Skinny jeans / jeggings. They look stylish and are comfortable to wear to school.
   • If you have pierced ears, wear large earrings. Pearls and hoop earrings look good.
   • A hoodie is a great way to look stylish on a cool day. Sweaters (especially with cuffs) will work too.
   • Belts with large buckles are an absolute must, especially for low-rise jeans.
   • Invest in a pair of colorful skirts for sunny weather. The Hollister brand offers a good selection of such items.
   • Scarves are another option to diversify your wardrobe, especially during the winter season.
   • Wear long chains. Aeropostale and American Eagle have interesting accessories.
   • Wear short denim skirts. On the one hand, they are very stylish, on the other, they go well with any clothing. You can find some pretty options in American Eagle stores.
   • T-shirts with graphics are great for those moments when you don't want to 'bother' too much about your appearance. All of the above stores offer a wide variety of similar items.
3. 3 Learn to understand shoes. Here are some popular / stylish shoe brands:
4. 4 Be sure to buy yourself cute dresses. They look good, especially if you have a well-formed figure.
5. 5 Also get tees and long tops. Quality items can be found at Nike, Hollister, American Eagle, Jealous 21, Reebok, and more.
6. 6 Try wearing shorts (navy or light blue) and matching tops with light-colored fabrics, such as: light pink, white, yellow, light blue, green, if it's summer outside.
7. 7 Shorts with striped leg warmers are a good combination for the winter. You can wear them with dark colored items such as deep red, magenta, navy blue, eggplant, forest green, black, and so on.
8. 8Now it is fashionable to collect hair with a headband.
9. 9 You should have at least 2-3 pairs of leggings in your wardrobe. It is both stylish and practical.
   • Ugg boots are warm and fashionable winter shoes.
   • The iris bracelets are cool, look good in the summer and go with any outfit. They are durable and long lasting. They do not need to be removed.
   • Sneakers are great shoes and can be worn in winter and summer. You can buy a pair of white sneakers and invite friends to paint on them or purchase colored laces.
   • Try Clarks Wallabee Boots
   • The Sperry brand offers quality autumn and spring shoes.
   • Also in the trend are any options for ballet flats and other shoes without heels. They can be worn with skirts and dresses.
10. 10 Choose your hairstyle. Now it is very fashionable to make a "cascade" haircut. But it does not suit everyone. An alternative might be the one with side bangs. Highlights are a good solution, but only if done well. Bold, discolored curls tend to look ugly and cheap. In general, the same hairstyle looks different for different people. Experiment! It is not necessary to walk with the same styling all the time. Here are some possible options:
    • Loose and straightened hair. This styling looks very stylish. If you have wavy or curly hair, you can straighten it in the morning.But remember that permanent straightening will damage the structure and natural beauty of your hair.
    • Loose and curled hair. If your hair is naturally straight, you can wind it up in the morning.
    • Ponytail. If you tie the tail with a ribbon and or a bow, the hairstyle will look great. Try to choose a ribbon that contrasts with your clothing.
    • The tail is on one side. This option looks good when done a little sloppy.
    • Bagel. This idea is great on days when you are not up to your hair.
    • [[1]] Another option for a tough day is to wear a brimless beanie over your newly combed head.
11. 11 Wear perfume. It's not necessary, but perfume (if you don't overdo it) can be a great addition to your style. Juicy Couture has a good, pleasantly smelling perfume.
12. 12 Wear makeup. If done right, makeup can look amazing. A little bit of mascara, eyeshadow and lip gloss is what you need. Great Lash is a very good brand of mascara. Bobbi Brown eyeshadow is very high quality, but other options will work too. Maybelline BabyLips Lip Gloss comes in a wide range of colors, SPF (sun protection factor) and moisturizing effect. If you are looking for a foundation then try Cover Girl. In addition, you can pay attention to eyeshadow from Claire's, Barry M or Rimmel.
13. 13 If the options described above do not suit you, choose what works for you. These were just examples! Whichever cosmetics you choose, it should suit "your" style. It is most important!

Tips

• Stay yourself! There has never been, and there is no such person as you!
• Live in harmony with yourself! Do not complain that you have not succeeded in something. Nobody wants to talk to you if you keep talking about bad things. So more positive!
• Take your time to judge others. If a newcomer appears in the class who behaves in an unusual way, there is no need to blame him for this. Remember that you too can be judged without even knowing what kind of person you are!
• Be confident in yourself. If you do something, and you feel excessive nervousness, this will definitely lead to the fact that you will not cope with the task. And not because you did not know or could not, but because you were not sure of yourself. But overconfidence is also useless. No need to think that you are perfect, live in the real world!
• Take part in some extracurricular activities that suit your interests. Show yourself in what is close to you!
• Start organizing your own parties. For example, have a bachelorette party with your girlfriends.
• Looking for a job suggests that you are a mature, independent person. Plus, you'll have some extra money!

Warnings

• Don't suck up to "supposedly popular" guys and girls. This will certainly hit your self-esteem. You will be ridiculed, and then half of the so-called "popular" guys are nothing.
• Make friends with those with whom you want, and not with those with whom you need.
• Don't try to be like "popular characters" from television shows. Do you know why they rotate in their own company, and only in it? Because they have no other friends.
• Do not suck up and do not be rude.
• High heels may not always be worn. Wear these shoes only if you are comfortable in them, otherwise, you may sprain your ankle! And don't wear high heels to school unless there is an event you want to be smart about.
• Don't drink, do drugs, or have sex. Know that this is not cool at all, so you will only ruin your life. Don't do this because you are bound to fall into a trap. If you do decide to take such steps, remember the consequences and the fact that you, for sure, will regret your mistakes in the future.