Content

• Steps
• Part 1 of 3: Choosing where to kiss
• Part 2 of 3: First Kiss
• Part 3 of 3: What to do after a kiss
• Tips
• Warnings

Everyone has their first kiss, and everyone worries about it. In this article, we will provide some tips to help you make your first kiss beautiful, amazing and memorable for you and your partner!

Steps

Part 1 of 3: Choosing where to kiss

1. 1 Choose the right place. For this memorable kiss, you need to choose the right time and the right place.If you are not a public person and, in general, not a fan of publicity, then you hardly enjoy kissing in public.
   • The right time to kiss is at the end of the first or second date, but it will depend on the bond between you and the person you want to kiss (after all, the first kiss doesn’t have to happen on a date).
   • You can make your first kiss unforgettable at prom, at the cinema or on the beach. The key is to make sure that both you and your partner (or potential kissing partner) want it.
2. 2 Dress appropriately. That is, dress for the occasion, but in a way that is comfortable for you. For a truly amazing and memorable first kiss, your comfort is very important, as well as choosing the right place, the right time, and how well you kiss.
   • Avoid applying lip gloss that is too sticky. It's hard to enjoy a kiss when you're afraid your lips will stick to your partner's.
   • If you're worried about sweating a lot or smelling bad at this point, use deodorant and perfume. The main thing is not to overdo it, otherwise you will scare off your partner and the long-awaited kiss will never take place.
3. 3 Make sure you have a clean mouth. Avoid bad breath - this is very important during the first and unforgettable kiss (unless, of course, you want it to be unforgettable in a bad way). Eat peppermint or chew gum after eating and drinking, or brush your teeth before meeting a potential partner for the first kiss.
   • Women smell much more strongly than men, so this step is especially important if you're a guy who wants to kiss a girl.
   • Don't make it too obvious that you are using peppermint to freshen your breath. Hint this slightly by proposing one to your potential partner.
   • Avoid spicy food, fish, garlic, onions, in general, anything that has a strong smell that lasts for a long time.
4. 4 Build tension for the right moment. Another thing that makes the first kiss memorable and enjoyable is the anticipation of the chance itself for both parties. It also helps to make the relationship between partners comfortable, even before the kiss.
   • Touching is a great way to show your interest in the other person: touch your fingers or hands while talking. Lightly touch his hand with your hand if you are walking.
   • Lean over for a conversation so you both feel comfortable. But if the person steps back or crosses their arms in a defensive position, step back.
   • Anticipation will awaken the kissing fantasy, making it more romantic when it does, thanks to the neurotransmitter dopamine.
5. 5 Choose the right moment. Don't delay making a decision until the door of the house at the end of the date. Both of you should be comfortable.
   • Encourage a kiss in the car, on the way home after a date, or while playing a video game, or while you are out after lunch or coffee.
   • Be sober: kissing can trigger the release of dopamine, serotonin, and oxytocin (all of which are neurotransmitters for joy). Alcohol can dull the sense of pleasure that comes with these emissions.
   • Avoid distracting things like peeing or turning off your phone (all of this must be done BEFORE the kiss).
6. 6 Come closer. So, both of you are looking forward, enjoying each other, and feeling comfortable - it's time to get closer and let your potential partner walk the remaining distance. If the person doesn't fit, it's better to step back.
   • You may also ask, "May I kiss you?" - Many people like to give consent before allowing anyone to invade their personal space.
   • Look your partner in the eye. Eye contact can help increase the intimacy of the kiss.

Part 2 of 3: First Kiss

1. 1 Tilt your head in the opposite direction than your partner. This is to reduce the chance of hitting your teeth or nose.That is, if your partner tilts his head to the right, tilt your head to the left.
2. 2 Do everything slowly. If everything is going well and your potential partner has agreed to the kiss, gently touch his lips. It will probably take a little while before you get the hang of it, so watch your partner's lip movements.
   • The first kiss doesn't have to be hard. He may be too unexpected and aggressive for your partner. These kisses should be put off until you know each other's kissing styles and preferences.
   • In addition, such a kiss can be perceived as a sign of despair, which many find not particularly attractive.
3. 3 Relax. Seriously. This can be difficult as you want to kiss the right way and make sure everything goes well. But if you relax, then this will make the kiss much better for yourself and for your partner.
   • The best thing you can do is be yourself in this moment. Feel the touch of your partner's lips, their scent (scent is very important when kissing), and how your partner is responding to you.
4. 4 Make this experience interesting. If you are comfortable and at ease, try adding some variety to the kiss. I remember those kisses that turned out to be unusual (in a good way), so try different romantic techniques.
   • Try kissing other places than just your lips. You could start at your partner's neck and then work your way up to your lips.
   • You can place your index finger on your partner's chin to guide their mouth forward for a kiss.
   • Remember: do not lick a person's face; do such things only with his consent. The general rule is that during the first kiss, the face should not become wet.
5. 5 Do something with your own hands. Better if they don't just hang out. Why don't they join in the fun, too. At the same time, during the first kiss, one should not rush too much and touch the “forbidden” (at least for now) places.
   • Run your hands through your partner's hair, touch his cheeks, or hug his waist.
   • Dissolving your arms too much can distract you from the kiss, so don't do it.
6. 6 Don't use language right away. A first kiss is usually a gentle touch of lips - a signal that people like each other. If the first kiss goes well, you can move on to a French kiss later, if you wish.
   • Few people like it if someone's tongue gets stuck in their throat during their first kiss.
7. 7 Stop after a couple of seconds. It would be nice to interrupt the kiss after a few moments. This will increase the romantic tension and make sure your partner is doing well.
   • Slowly move your face back, even a few centimeters, to maintain the intimacy of the moment. See what your partner looks like. Is he surprised? Is he trying to break free? Is he uncomfortable?
   • Ask: “Is everything okay? You like?"

Part 3 of 3: What to do after a kiss

1. 1 Don't push. Now that you've tackled the first hurdle to make the kiss memorable, don't press and ask for more. Kiss a few more times if your partner doesn't mind - it's so great!
   • If you both want to continue, bolder - the path is clear.
2. 2 Look your partner in the eye. Making eye contact before and after kissing allows you to multiply the intimate connection, as well as to make sure that everything is fine with your partner.
3. 3 Smile. Even if you are in seventh heaven and cannot utter a word, smile - the effect will be the same. This will show that you are happy with everything, that you are enjoying the moment, and that you are, after all, happy.
   • Pay attention to the return smile - in this case, the partner is probably comfortable and nothing upsets him.
4. 4 Chat, you can even silently. You don't have to say anything because it can be difficult to come up with something to say after the first kiss that won't be too cliché or cliché.Sometimes wordless contact can be much more important and not ruin the moment.
   • The secret is not to be nervous about what you are about to say. Just clothe what comes to mind in words (only that you shouldn't talk about what you were "impatient to pee", otherwise you will ruin the whole mood).
   • You can indulge in cute physical contact, such as a hug.
   • However, you can say something like, "I wanted to do this all evening," or, "I'm ready to kiss you forever," or even something as ordinary as, "You're beautiful." Your job is to make your partner feel good.
5. 5 Move on to further tricks. This can lead to a lot, from sex to another date. You don't have to have sex just because you kissed, and a great evening and kiss won't get any worse from not having sex.
   • Ask your partner if everything is okay. Find out how he is feeling and what he would like to do. Communication is the key.
   • You can always continue kissing, the main thing here is mutual desire.

Tips

• The key is not to think too much about the kiss. The more you get hung up on ideal kiss, the more nervous you will be when it's time for a real kiss.
• Even if you were foolish at the first kiss, it does not mean that you are forever trapped with this person.
• If you are shy or this is your first time, try kissing in a secret yet romantic place such as your "den" or a forest clearing.

Warnings

• Remember, a kiss is not a business deal. The person you kiss (or want to kiss) does not owe you anything, no matter what you did for him - rent, pay for lunch, or do something nice for him.