Content

• Steps
• Tips
• Warnings

Sometimes men or teenage boys don't know how to hold their girlfriend in a way that doesn't push her too hard. This article is for boys from a girls point of view.

Steps

1. 1 Find a nice, quiet place just for you and your girlfriend to spend time together (if you are young, it is not recommended to choose a place for solitude at home); maybe after the date is just a good time to do it.
2. 2 Hold her gently around the waist, but do not pull her too close to you and act as if you are hugging her. (If she doesn't like it, she will let you know, either by pushing you away or stepping aside.)
3. 3 If she lets you take step 2, remove your hands from her waist and place them around her back, slowly pulling her towards you. Most of the time, girls laugh or giggle a little, and smile. Once again, if she doesn't want to, she will likely say no ... or step back and get a shy and awkward moment.
4. 4 Sometimes a girl wants to put her head on a guy's shoulder. (If you are lying down, then she will slowly rest her head on your chest.) Some girls like it when you slowly run your fingers through her hair and gently, not too roughly, so as not to pull her hair out, but just hear her inhale. Some girls don't sigh and others don't like having their hair touched, so test the waters first.
5. 5 If she is not comfortable at all, try to hold her by the shoulders, pressing from side to side. You should be slightly higher above it. It will comfort her and you can even put your head on her shoulder.

Tips

• Never push or insist on something your girlfriend doesn't want to do, but don't worry, she will do it when she's ready.
• Never move away from the girl you are holding romantically - she may think she did something wrong, or she may think that you don't like 'snuggling' or 'hugging'.
• In a standing position (after taking the girl to her house after the date), when she is expecting an evening kiss, right before the kiss (if you want to kiss her), hold her romantically for about 10 minutes.

Warnings

• Don't push or push your girlfriend.
• Don't insist on having sex after a romantic moment. It will ruin all the romance.