Content

• Steps
• Method 1 of 2: Make her happy
• Method 2 of 2: Be Irresistible
• Tips

It's not enough to look cool to be attractive to girls. What matters is how you treat them and how you behave. So watch out not only for your appearance, but also for your words and actions!

Steps

Method 1 of 2: Make her happy

1. 1 Get to know her. Talk to her and listen to her. Ask the girl about her family, where she grew up, her religious and political views, what she likes and how she has fun. Don't be critical or rude about her answers: these are her answers, not yours! Respect her ideas, opinions and beliefs. Girls like it when they are treated as equals. If you want to please girls, the best place to start is with respect.
   • For example, ask a girl about her hobby and then ask how she found it. It's a great way to start a conversation about how and where she grew up, her family, and so on.
2. 2 Find what unites you. She likes Metallica ... you like Metallica ... boom! Now you have something to talk about! Ask her about her favorite music, movies, and what she does in her free time. Find something in common and you can get to know each other well and bond.
3. 3 Be a good friend. No one can guarantee that friendship will necessarily grow into something more. But being friends with a girl and showing her how beautiful she is is the best way to get her attention. Show her how happy she will be with you, and you will see how good you are with her.
   • Support her if she is having a difficult day, help her with her problems, be available when she needs your help, and listen to what she tells you.
4. 4 Don't be weird. Do not stare at her or look away immediately, avoiding eye contact. Do not whirl around her in silence. Don't stare at ... certain parts of her body (however much you want to). Don't make weird sexual innuendo if you don't know her well, and certainly don't act like a pick-up artist. This will only scare her, and make you less attractive in her eyes.

Method 2 of 2: Be Irresistible

1. 1 Work on your self-esteem and self-confidence. Self-esteem and self-confidence are very attractive qualities. Girls will go crazy for a guy who is confident in himself and what he can do. Do things that build your self-esteem, such as volunteering, learning new things, or traveling.
   • You can build self-confidence by volunteering for organizations that help people. This will give you a chance to prove to yourself and everyone around you that you can do something to change the world around you.
   • You can also build confidence by learning something new, such as a second or third language. This can be easily and free of charge organized over the Internet using sites such as Livemocha and others.
2. 2 Don't compare yourself to others. This will not help the cause. You have always been, are and will be only yourself - and this is wonderful! Show the world how cool you are and stop copying others.
   • Don't try to imitate anyone. Girls will notice that you are acting unnatural and they will definitely not like it.Are you portraying a real bully, being a modest boy from a prosperous family? She will notice it. Just be yourself and be happy with who you are. The girls will love it too.
3. 3 Take care of yourself and your appearance. Do not neglect personal hygiene and wardrobe care. How can a girl like you if you don't even like yourself and don't care about your body? Shower and wash your hair regularly, use deodorant, wear clean tidy clothes, and brush your teeth.
   • Don't think that clothes should be exclusively expensive brands. The girl is more likely to pay attention to whether things fit well on you and whether these colors suit you.
   • Of course, let everything be in moderation. A little hair gel is fine, but your styling shouldn't be rock-hard.
4. 4 Be open. You should not give the impression of being angry, eternally sad, irritated, or despising everything and everyone. If at every conversation she thinks that you are angry with her, then why should she communicate with you, let alone date? Smile, be friendly and make it easy to communicate with you.
5. 5 Be interesting. Be who the girls want to date. You don't need to be super smart, but at least be curious and be interested in different things. Be the kind of person who works hard to improve the lives of the people around you. Do something with your life. It is very important. Get up and start changing your life for the better.
   • You can gain a lot of knowledge by reading what interests you. Did you know there are entire books on the evolution of weapons like swords? Books about the extinction of dinosaurs? Yes, it's time to go to the library.
   • Consider your dreams. What do you want from your life? What are you dreaming about? If you have real passion, the girl will find it attractive: she will want to think that you will love her as much as you love ... football, for example.
6. 6 Be kind and cheerful. Try to help her and always smile at her. Your smile will make her day more enjoyable. Don't try to act like a tough guy or talk exclusively to your friends if she's around. Take time to talk to her in private, and be kind and understanding in your conversation.
7. 7 Study well. You don't have to be an all-A-student, but at least aim for four and five. Get good grades, but don't be arrogant. If she has difficulty learning, offer to help her with a difficult assignment or test preparation. However, if she refuses your help, do not take it personally.
   • It is very important to stay organized. You don't want to look like a muddler in front of her who can't find his homework forever! Most girls like organized guys who turn in all assignments on time and without silly excuses.
8. 8 Go in for sports. This will not only attract many girls - especially cheerleaders and athletes - but it will also boost your self-confidence. Girls like athletic guys who can keep fit. Find the sport you like. You can join the school team.

Tips

• Remember, getting a girlfriend is only the first part of a relationship.
• Girls like guys who understand them, so it's VERY important to listen to them.
• Compliment her looks and she will feel more confident.
• Understand her, and it will be easier for you to communicate with her.
• Always be nice and kind. Respect her feelings.
• Don't send messages or poke around on your phone when you're talking to a girl. If you are talking to her, let your attention be 100% to her.
• It's fun to joke and tease each other, but be careful not to go too far. Some girls like to be flirted with in a playful tone, but never allow yourself to be cruel or offensive.
• Do everything to make her smile.
• Respect her opinions and views.