Content

• Steps
• Tips
• Warnings

If you are not a confident person, but you want to ask a girl out on a date, then here's how you need to proceed. Good luck!

Steps

1. 1 Make sure you really love her. The reason for the breakup of many couples is that people do not love each other. Take your time and try to get to know her better. Do you like only her appearance in a girl? If so, then chances are your relationship is doomed to fail. Relationships will only last long if you love the girl's personality.
2. 2 Is she the person you would like to be with for the rest of your days? It may sound pretentious, but what's the point of starting a relationship that is destined to last no more than two weeks? If you think that you could marry this girl, then you need to ask her out on a date. If you do not consider her candidacy worthy for the position of a wife, then you do not need to play with your feelings and the feelings of this girl.
3. 3 Learn as much as you can about her. What is she interested in? Does she love football? Does she like reading? Is she Orthodox or Catholic? What kind of music does she like? Is she modest? Once you get to know her better, you will know if you have anything in common.
4. 4 Be yourself. Before asking a girl out on a date, remember that the girls in guys love their confidence first, but they can understand modesty too. Therefore, be yourself. If you are trying to pretend to be who you are not, the girl will find out about it sooner or later, so be yourself. If she doesn't like you the way you are in reality, then so be it. She may not know you well enough, but don't despair - there are so many beautiful girls around! Also remember that if the girl is modest, then she may be intimidated by the guy's persistence and tenacity, so try to find a middle ground.
   
   
5. 5 Do not start a relationship with friendships, otherwise it will be difficult for you to change your status later. Study her and as soon as you realize that the moment is right, go up to the girl and ask her out on a date. If she refuses, it is still not the end of the world. Wait for her to change her mind about you, or look for a new girlfriend. But don't try to date multiple girls at once, and don't start relationships that you don't want to start out with.
6. 6 Don't ask your girl out on social media. Don't listen to what other people have to say: No girl wants to date a guy who didn't have the courage to approach her in person. Yes, it's easier for you to write everything on the Internet, because the presence of the girl will not put pressure on you, but the girl will be waiting for a personal invitation. A more natural invitation is a face-to-face invitation. In addition, if a girl feels what you feel, she will not refuse you.
7. 7 Tell her everything to her face. If you still don't have the courage to approach her in person, give her a call, but under no circumstances use childish acronyms and emoticons on social media. Tell her how you feel. Let her understand that, if necessary, you will always be there. You don't need to say that you love her, as this may sound implausible, especially if you know each other recently. Be honest and sincere and be yourself. You don't have to be overconfident to ask a girl out on a date, just say “Hi. I like you and I would like to get to know you better. " If she refuses you, perhaps your offer was a complete surprise to her, so do not despair and do not think that the refusal was due to you.
8. 8 Try to be yourself, but remember that you are more likely to have common interests with the girl you like.
9. 9 If you are very modest, then you do not need to jabber something like "I love you and I invite you on a date", otherwise she will simply refuse you. Instead, walk up to her and say “Hi, (her name). I know we're just friends, but could we meet? " If she answers “No” to this offer, don't give up anyway, but don't follow her either.

Tips

• Focus on her. If you are going to flirt with this girl and a dozen other girls, then your plan is most likely doomed to fail. Let her know that she is the only girl you would like to have a romantic relationship with.
• Be mature.Yes, many girls like it when a guy has a good sense of humor, but no girl will tolerate stupid, vulgar and immature jokes.
• Smile. Girls like guys who are cheerful and energetic, don't act like you buried someone yesterday.
• Make good use of the time this girl gives you.
• Remember that time cannot be turned back, so it’s better to regret what you did than what you didn’t.
• When asking a girl out on a date, make sure that no one sees it, because the girl will feel uncomfortable. Wait for her to be alone and go to her.
• Watch your appearance, you do not want to scare off the girl with an unpleasant smell? Comb, brush your teeth. You don't need to wear a tuxedo, but you don't need to walk around in rags.
• Open your heart to the girl. Tell her sincerely about your feelings, even the most serious and intractable girl will not resist sincere words.

Warnings

• Be yourself, otherwise the girl will not trust you.
• Approach the girl in person, but do not send your friend, and do not use social networks.
• Before approaching a girl, make sure she doesn't have a boyfriend.
• Don't be too assertive.
• If she refuses you the first time, after a while, try again.