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• Steps
• Method 1 of 2: Notice His Behavior
• Method 2 of 2: Pay attention to his words

Falling in love with a naturally flirtatious person is sometimes confusing. On the one hand, you understand that he is flirting with you, but the question is: is it because he likes you or because he flirts with everyone? Does his attention mean that he wants to start a more serious relationship with you? While it's not always easy to determine the true intentions of a flirtatious person, in this article we'll show you how to identify signs that they are hoping to be more than just a friend.

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Method 1 of 2: Notice His Behavior

1. 1 Does he get nervous or suddenly become silent in your presence? One of the signs that a flirtatious person likes you is that he is with you. not flirts. If he is naturally playful, then he hardly thinks much about his actions when he is nice to other people. He's just like that on his own. But if in your presence he becomes silent, behaves restless and nervous, and also becomes unlike himself, perhaps this is because he begins to very carefully monitor his actions and thinks everything carefully.
   • Observe his behavior in the company of people, and then come up and say hello. Pay attention to whether his behavior changes (perhaps he will calm down, stop fooling around, or become laconic, but at the same time he will not take his eyes off you).
   • Ask one of your friends to join the company and try to embarrass him a little (the main thing here is not to overdo it - a little joke about him will be enough). If he blushes or becomes embarrassed, although he usually takes jokes calmly, it's probably because he doesn't want to look awkward in front of you.
   • If you make him nervous, he may continue to be very friendly with other girls, as well as pretend to ignore you or be less kind to you.
   • Not every flirtatious person experiences excitement in the presence of the object of adoration, so if he does not suddenly start to be shy, it does not necessarily mean that he does not like you. Perhaps he is just one of those who, on the contrary, begins to pay more attention to the person you are in love with.
2. 2 Observe his movements when you are together, and notice if they reflect your own actions. If a person is interested in you, they will subconsciously copy your body language. When you're together, try crossing your legs and see if the person does the same in a few seconds. Take a sip of water and see if he repeats this action.
   • Copying someone else's actions is a way to connect, relieve tension, and send a signal of sympathy for the other person (even if you do it unconsciously).
   • If you decide to do the opposite (imitate his movements so that he subconsciously feels more comfortable next to you), in no case do not copy everything synchronously and down to the smallest detail. Wait a few seconds before repeating the person's actions. If he notices your maneuvers, he may think that you are imitating him, and then the effect will be exactly the opposite.
3. 3 Notice how often you catch his eye on you. Take a closer look, perhaps the person is constantly looking at you across the room or when you are in the company of people, and then blushes or turns away if you catch his eye.During the conversation, take note if he begins to look you in the eyes, as if studying them. Prolonged eye contact or many quick glances in your direction indicate he is interested in you.
   • To test if a person likes you, try holding their gaze while flirting. If he looks embarrassed or looks away quickly, chances are you are not romantically attracted to him. If he's staring back at you, that's a sure sign of sympathy.
   • To find out if he is watching you, take a small action, for example, look out the window, as if you saw something strange. If a person is watching you, he will not be able to resist and will also look out the window.
4. 4 While in the same company with him, check if he will pay more attention to you than to others. Do you get the feeling that he sets you apart from the crowd when you are surrounded by many other people? If you are communicating with someone separately, they suddenly intervene in the conversation, signaling that they are more attentive to your words, and not to the words of your interlocutor? If a person likes you, he will constantly look for an excuse to be with you and interact with you.
   • Go out to dinner with friends and take note if he sits next to you.
   • Try to spend time in the company (with him) several times and notice how often he finds reasons to talk to you.
   • Go to a party and try to stay there until the end. If he continues to chat with you after most people leave, chances are he came to the party just to talk to you.

Method 2 of 2: Pay attention to his words

1. 1 Start using a specific word often and see if the guy does the same. It doesn't have to be something very obvious. For example, start saying "rebzya" instead of "guys" and notice if it starts to pop up in his speech as well. If so, then the person unconsciously sends you a signal that you are on the same wavelength and that he is trying to please you.
   • If you speak with a slight accent, the person may unknowingly imitate him.
2. 2 Rate the depth of your conversations. Does the person always behave at ease, joke a lot and talk about films or a difficult assignment (topics that he most likely discusses with everyone)? Perhaps he started to trust you a little, telling you more personal things, or getting really deep into his beliefs or hopes for the future? If so, then he wants you to take him seriously and that a stronger bond is established between you.
   • If he looks upset or you know he has had a bad day, let him know you're ready to talk and see if he trusts you.
   • If your conversations are superficial, but the person's mood changes dramatically when your common interests emerge, then he is still trying to connect with you. Therefore, if, as a result of a conversation about films, you find that you both love Jason State, and the interlocutor is overjoyed because of this, then this is how he shows that he is a great couple for you.
3. 3 Find out if he is asking or talking about you. Ask friends if your name has come up in conversation and ask them to ask his buddies, does he often talk about you. If he likes you, he will surely be interested in you and your interests. Therefore, if he suddenly asks your friend, who is going to volleyball practice, "Does [your name] seem to be on your team too?" - means that he really likes you.
   • If it turns out that your name pops up a lot in conversation (perhaps in connection with something funny or interesting that you said), this is a sign that you are not getting out of his head.
   • Perhaps he will even tell mutual friends that he really wants to get to know you better, in the hope that they will pass on his words to you.